what should i do if i had to guys ask me to marry them ?
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Ok i lived in oklahoma for 2 and a half years i was dating this one guy for a couple of months and then he asked me to marry him before i moved . Now i lived in gerogia this guy we are dating for a 1 yr and he asked me to marry him what should i do ?
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If you don't want to marry them, say no thank you politely. Always the best option.0
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well what did you say at the time? Just walk off and leave them hanging? Do you like them? Why are you asking?
I am not sure what you want to know, what should you do about men asking you to marry them? Or what should you say? Or what?0 -
I love them both0
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oh dear, do you have someone that knows you well that you could talk to?0
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Crap... Nevermind... I think you'll figure it out. I don't think your ready to get married, if the answer wasn't a Definate Yes, at the time of asking...0
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I'm confused, are you dating two people?0
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Do a threesome. Don't tell them the whole time you're doing it that it's really a competition between the two of them. The first one to make you "climax" wins. Then you look to the one who didn't make you climax and say, "It was a race, b*tch! YOU LOSE!" Then kick him out, continue on living happily ever after with the winner! The end.0
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Ok i lived in oklahoma for 2 and a half years i was dating this one guy for a couple of months and then he asked me to marry him before i moved . Now i lived in gerogia this guy we are dating for a 1 yr and he asked me to marry him what should i do ?I love them both
Did you tell the first guy that you started seriously dating the second one? Does the second one know you're engaged to the first one? Hell of a pickle you're in.0 -
If you don't love or respect either one of them enough to be exclusive with them, you shouldn't marry either of them.0
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They are both winners i just dont know where my heart goes too .0
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They are both winners i just dont know where my heart goes too .
Clearly neither.0 -
I'm kinda confused...
You dated a guy in OK and he asked you to marry him after a few months before you moved.
You moved to GA (didn't marry OK guy) and dated this guy for one year and he's proposing to you.
You don't know who to say yes to?
I'm pretty sure the proposal from the OK guy has expired. Does this guy you've been dating for one year know you're still considering a 1+ year old proposal?0 -
I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.0
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nevermind...;(0
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I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
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I think the guy in ATL would be more reliable if you've been dating him a year.. but that's just me. I think you have an obvious choice in front of you, it's just hard to give one up.0 -
I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
This. Please.0 -
I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
Yeah. I have to agree with that one.0 -
I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
Yes honey.. I think this lady is right... You should ask maybe a family member, like your mom or something.. Do these guys get along with you and your family? Do they treat you right? If you have any doubt, don't get married, until you know for sure... If theres something shady, and you hear a little voice telling you, somethings not right, usually something is NOT right.. Make sure FIRST... And also.. make sure you meet a variety of people first. The one who doesn't "Sweetheart Swindle" for your $, and the one who has many girlfriends.. Get to know them first... See how they treat other people.. But do ask a family member that you trust. Sometimes it can take awhile for their true selves to come out. So DONT rush in to anything.. Know them first. Good luck honey..0 -
They are both winners i just dont know where my heart goes too .
Clearly neither.
I agree..They don;t deserve that.0 -
I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
I agree with this too. Please talk to a family member or friend.0
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