what should i do if i had to guys ask me to marry them ?
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OP, talk to someone close to you and/or a licensed counselor. If you can't choose between two men it's not a situation to be taken lightly.0
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I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
This is good advice. I hope whatever you choose works out for you. You deserve the best. :flowerforyou:
I was going to ask which one gave you butterflies in your tummy, but still, it would be a good idea to talk about it with someone who knows you better than we do. Good luck!0 -
Me and my family are not that close we get into a lot of fights and so thats why am asking yall . Friends i dont have alot of friends so yea thats why im asking on here
Do you have a counselor or social worker or someone like that you can talk to?0 -
Honeybee, you need to talk to someone who knows you. People on this site aren't able to help you make a decision as serious as this one is.0
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Me and my family are not that close we get into a lot of fights and so thats why am asking yall . Friends i dont have alot of friends so yea thats why im asking on here
Do you have a counselor or social worker or someone like that you can talk to?
^ Yeah, I agree. You need to talk with someone trustworthy that knows you and understands the situation you are in with these guys. A counselor or social worker would be a good person to talk to. This is a very serious decision. No one here knows you or these men, so we can't help you answer this.0 -
You need to not rush into anything. Talk with a loved one, counselor, or family member dear. This isn't anything to get advice from strangers on.0
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forget both of them. it's clear you don't love them the right way if you're even questioning it and dating two ppl at one time. not you're soul-mate!0
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im not close to any of my family members at all0
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I just read your profile. I think you should talk about this with a family member or friend that can give you support and advice.
Yeah. I have to agree with that one.
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It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders.
Do they know that the other person exists? How are they going to respond when you tell them? I think you have to work through that before you think about marrying either one of them.
And if you've already worked that out, then best of luck to you. We don't know either one of them so it's tough for us to give any kind of opinion. It's like asking a blind person whose which shirt is more blue.
Also, you're young. You've got lots of time to figure this out. Best of luck to you.0 -
If you are in quandary you should no marry either, that's not hard at all! WAIT until someone comes along who YOU say to yourself, "This is the person I WANT to Marry and Can Live the rest of My Life with, Just as they are!" When You feel like that, you don't have to ASK anyone who YOU should marry!0
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Ok i lived in oklahoma for 2 and a half years i was dating this one guy for a couple of months and then he asked me to marry him before i moved . Now i lived in gerogia this guy we are dating for a 1 yr and he asked me to marry him what should i do ?
Honesty, if you're asking us then marriage isn't the best thing for you at this stage in your life. And I mean this in the nicest way possible!
Also, is there someone close to you that you can talk to about this? These sorts of things are rather hairy
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if you are asking yourself that question then perhaps you arent madly in love with them.. give some time to yourself for a month or so and see how you feel about either one after that. you may be surprised you dont want to marry either one0
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Don't worry so much about the heart. You do love them, that's ok.
Which one would treat you best and give you the best life?0 -
Sounds like you need to slow done and just be single. No sense in rushing to get married unless you are ready. You might love somebody but can you imagine being with somebody for the rest of your life.0
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If you're having any doubts about these guys, then definitely don't rush into anything. Take your time...play it slow.
Enjoy your singleness (says the guy who has been married for 22+ years. =P )0 -
I'm inclined to agree that if you're dating two people and don't know yes or no when you are asked then I don't think you should marry either of them. I've been proposed to before and I knew that it was yes immediately.0
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Make sure they will be there forever and never take off. Ask yourself if they would stay if something really bad happened to you. That happened to me after 8 years and he took off. Never give him the benefit of the doubt or you will be in a bad situation. You questioning WHICH ONE is already bad enough.......0
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im only dating one guy anot both im dating the one in Atl0
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im only dating one guy anot both im dating the one in Atl
So what made you move to Atlanta?0 -
So which one of them makes the most amount of money? LMAO, JP.
But seriously....if guy # 1 asked you to marry him what did you say? And why did you move? And why did you start dating guy #2 if your dating guy # 1? I think we need more of a backround on this before I can give some advice. Or the better question is are you dating both? Does guy # 1 know about guy # 2? I would say follow your heart but hunny your heart is in two different places.0 -
The answer is pure and simple - -" If you want to know where your heart is, look where your mind goes when it wanders!"0
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If you don't know the answer, then you aren't ready.0
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You are only 24 years old. You have plenty of time to find the right man. Obviously neither of the ones you mentioned are the right man for you or you would have already said yes.
Take it slow and easy!!! Enjoy being single while you are young.0 -
The answer is pure and simple - -" If you want to know where your heart is, look where your mind goes when it wanders!"
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Ok and what happens if you marry one of them? You are starting your marriage off in love with another man that isn't your husband. Not a great way to start a marriage and if you regret your decision, its not as easy as breaking up. I would say forget marriage for a while, give yourself a couple of years and reassess how you feel then.0
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No offense, but if you've only known one guy for 2 months, that isn't long enough to really get to know someone to qualify for marriage material. That's just my 2 cents.0
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Me and my family are not that close we get into a lot of fights and so thats why am asking yall . Friends i dont have alot of friends so yea thats why im asking on here
Do you have a counselor or social worker or someone like that you can talk to?
This.0 -
Please show this to your Mom or Dad.0
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You might be fighting with them because they care about you.0
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