Why dont girls come up to guys
Haltermania
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I always had the question on why girls dont come up to guys to spark conversation. i have no problem going up to a girl and talking, but i find it hotter and eaiser if a girl comes up to talk to you. what is your opinion on that?
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I've had plenty of women approach me - typically late 30s/early 40s are confident enough to do so and that's a turn on for me.0
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I don't understand the question, I have never been afraid to approach a guy I wanted to get to know better. That's actually how I met my husband, saw him, felt a connection, and immediately told him that he was going to be mine. And here we are 7 years of marriage and two kids later. This also worked for me with desired 1 night stands, before my husband that is!!0
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I do it.
Sometimes it gets me into situations that I didn't necessarily intend for... then I run... but it's ultimately my fault for starting up the convo.
It also helps to look "approachable." Smile and make eye contact with people... especially those who you wish would come talk to you.
I'm a harmless flirt though0 -
I approach a guy if I'm interested I'm not scared but I'm comfortable with myself and if I get turned down well that's ok just not that guys type and try again but I think a lot of women are afraid to get turned down0
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I came on to my husband and now we're happily married. He loved it and said it was a major turn on for him.0
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I only had it happen in school/college after they get comfortable with you a little. Not really with a random girl hahah :P0
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Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.0
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Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.
Well.. this just got awkward.0 -
It's about, as most things in life, confidence and fear of rejection. I've seen guys I would like to approach but don't really have the confidence to do it - and who likes getting rejected when they already struggle with self-confidence?0
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yea i was just curious on responses, like i said i dont mind going up to a girl and talking or trying atleast but if im sitting watching the game or talking with friends and a girl comes up and chit chats there is something about it thats attractive about it. i feel like she is obviously willing to talk instead of you having to pull teeth0
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Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.0
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Shy?0
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I always had the question on why girls dont come up to guys to spark conversation. i have no problem going up to a girl and talking, but i find it hotter and eaiser if a girl comes up to talk to you. what is your opinion on that?
Because I never had to.0 -
Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.
I'm ugly and creepy and girls still approach me so....
and you have a ways to go until you hit your 2000 mark0 -
I would totally go right up to you and start talking. Maybe girls near you just suck...
Or maybe the problem is that they're GIRLS.
WOMEN would definitely go right up to you, we know what we want and we take it!0 -
I think many men are too intimidated by a pretty girl to approach her, so they never meet! I see nothing wrong with being a confident woman and making the first move. I've done it several times and never regretted it.0
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I would totally go right up to you and start talking. Maybe girls near you just suck...
Or maybe the problem is that they're GIRLS.
WOMEN would definitely go right up to you, we know what we want and we take it!
AMEN sister!0 -
Sometimes it gets me into situations that I didn't necessarily intend
Because of this.0 -
Youngins may be afraid of that...but us ladies 30+....yeah....we aint waiting around for no one. We want you, we're coming to get you!0
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I've had a hard time with this in recent years....just feel like an awkward spaz half the time hahaha
I'm actually working on my courage - I don't think it's entirely up to the man to approach the woman b/c no matter what, it can be difficult.0 -
Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.
I'm ugly and creepy and girls still approach me so....
and you have a ways to go until you hit your 2000 mark
Generally I'll approach anybody. But I'm also taken, and a weirdo.0 -
I would totally go right up to you and start talking. Maybe girls near you just suck...
Or maybe the problem is that they're GIRLS.
WOMEN would definitely go right up to you, we know what we want and we take it!
SOOOOOO do oyu like tall , awesomely tanned latino men!?!?!?!?!:bigsmile:
Come get me babycakes!!!!0 -
Youngins may be afraid of that...but us ladies 30+....yeah....we aint waiting around for no one. We want you, we're coming to get you!
Actually from 17 - 23 I was VERY BOLD....closing in on 27 I've become more timid and I don't know why0 -
I always had the question on why girls dont come up to guys to spark conversation. i have no problem going up to a girl and talking, but i find it hotter and eaiser if a girl comes up to talk to you. what is your opinion on that?
I worked up enough courage to go talk to one guy and got shot down. After that i never approached. I wait until the guy comes up to me0 -
Biologically speaking, boys are the predators and girls are the prey.0
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Biologically speaking, boys are the predators and girls are the prey.
Very true....and some women are cougars in training0 -
I always had the question on why girls dont come up to guys to spark conversation. i have no problem going up to a girl and talking, but i find it hotter and eaiser if a girl comes up to talk to you. what is your opinion on that?
I worked up enough courage to go talk to one guy and got shot down. After that i never approached. I wait until the guy comes up to me
You're gorgeous. He was an idiot.0 -
I think that a lot of women have the idea that men are more opportunistic. In other words, they will go with anyone even if they do not really like them just to get laid. If you look like an easy target you may be getting men that think you are just OK. If you let them come to you, you have provided one filter (hopefully getting men that actually think you are attractive and desirable and are not just going for you because it is easy).0
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It's your test!. . Women instinctually want to make babies with Bold, Strong men. . It's evolution. . It's why the human race survived. . Ever watch nature shows? The male is ALWAYS the aggressor and the female always seems like she's yawning. . . same with people!
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Girls do approach guys as long as they are not ugly or creepy.
I'm ugly and creepy and girls still approach me so....
and you have a ways to go until you hit your 2000 mark
Generally I'll approach anybody. But I'm also taken, and a weirdo.
I'm also taken, maybe that why.
and I like that you're a weirdo0
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