has anyone out there chosen the new guy?

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  • Colleen118
    Colleen118 Posts: 491 Member
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    In the words of Big Sean as he sang along with Justin Bieber....

    The grass ain't always greener on the other side. It's green where you water it.

    ^^^ This! Work on fixing whatever it is making you enjoy spending this time with the other friend. It's likely something that has just dwindled in your current relationship. Just walking away and testing the other fish in the sea doesn't teach you how to face difficult times head on and fight through. Relationships take time and work on both parts. They are a partnership. You should never continue an act that makes you feel guilty.. Guilt is like poison to a relationship because it means you are hiding something from your partner. Consider it your only need to deem your act corrupt...
  • xoTLCxo
    xoTLCxo Posts: 185 Member
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    Yes I did, 5 months later we were pregnant and 9 years later we are still here :)
  • AnaVerasGettingFit
    AnaVerasGettingFit Posts: 109 Member
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    I think 21 is still too young to be settling down. Many will disagree, of course... but srsly. Be single, go out, travel the world, have fun, flirt+ ---- get it all out of your system. If you still got a thing for guy#1 and it works out, it works out. No regrets or wishing you coulda done this or that. At your age, this will NOT be the only time this happens, so get it grrrl! But first, "do you."

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