I don't want to see you anymore...
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Guys generally prefer the direct method...just be honest and tell him. It might help him in the long run.0
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ask him for babies
GOODNESS...NO WAY. He wants kids...lol....this would only make him stay around....he is sweet but no the guy for me.0 -
I didnt always say anything. I just never answered the phone and waited for them to stop calling.
Yea I know its not right, but I just didnt wanna bother having "the talk"
if its only been a few dates, then this.... let him get the hint. It's not cool, but neither is seeing a grown man cry.
The problem is (and I hate to say it) but I tried this already for the last 3 days...it just casues him to call and text me more and more...it has to stop.
Yea some guys are slower than others..he will get it, trust me0 -
You're awesome, but I don't feel anything when I'm with you. You deserve sparks.
Then say "Playaz gotta play, all day erry day" and pop your collar.0 -
I didnt always say anything. I just never answered the phone and waited for them to stop calling.
Yea I know its not right, but I just didnt wanna bother having "the talk"
if its only been a few dates, then this.... let him get the hint. It's not cool, but neither is seeing a grown man cry.
The problem is (and I hate to say it) but I tried this already for the last 3 days...it just casues him to call and text me more and more...it has to stop.
then you are definitely just going to have to be point blank with him, unfortunately. Or, change your phone number....0 -
"Let's be friends!"
Tell him that you don't see a "spark" or future.
Or maybe just tell him that your heart isn't in the right place right now to be looking for a relationship. (and hope he doesn't find out about the other guy).
Do you think this is going to completely blindside the guy?0 -
Tell him that you were drunk, had sex with you girlfriend and now you think you are gay.0
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I didnt always say anything. I just never answered the phone and waited for them to stop calling.
Yea I know its not right, but I just didnt wanna bother having "the talk"
if its only been a few dates, then this.... let him get the hint. It's not cool, but neither is seeing a grown man cry.
The problem is (and I hate to say it) but I tried this already for the last 3 days...it just casues him to call and text me more and more...it has to stop.
Yea some guys are slower than others..he will get it, trust me
This only happened to me once about a year ago. I called twice, and was ready to give up, then she texted me and said sorry she's been busy. Mixed signal? So, I called again. No return call, so I just stopped calling. I guess that's what she wanted because she never called. But, why the text?0 -
another thing that makes guys run is too much attention... if you start to call him all the time and keep him on the phone and become an A class clinger... he'll run like hell!0
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Just tell him you're seeing me now! he'll understand!0
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this works too!Tell him that you were drunk, had sex with you girlfriend and now you think you are gay.0 -
"Let's be friends!"
Tell him that you don't see a "spark" or future.
Or maybe just tell him that your heart isn't in the right place right now to be looking for a relationship. (and hope he doesn't find out about the other guy).
Do you think this is going to completely blindside the guy?
There is no other guy...I just don't want to waste anymore of his or my time. It is not fair to him or me. He deserves to find the right woman for him...he seems to hink it is me...(he said so...quite a few times)...0 -
This only happened to me once about a year ago. I called twice, and was ready to give up, then she texted me and said sorry she's been busy. Mixed signal? So, I called again. No return call, so I just stopped calling. I guess that's what she wanted because she never called. But, why the text?
Done that text too, I was bored and mad at the other guy0 -
You've got your own advice right in your profile:Keep in mind I say what is on my mind. I do not sugar coat things...
Just tell him it isn't working for you.0 -
this works too!Tell him that you were drunk, had sex with you girlfriend and now you think you are gay.
I did use this once and worked.0 -
Stop trying to find a way to "soften the blow" and just be direct and firm about what you want. I've broken up with people before and kept trying to soften the blow by talking too much and complimenting them a lot and it's not the way to go. They cry, you feel guilty, then you cry.. it's a sobby, slobbery mess that may take hours. Seriously, just tell him it's over and let him deal with it away from you. You'll both respect that way a lot in the long run.0
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Use any of the approaches above. Accept that you are going to hurtz hiz feewings. Then be a big girl, and stand your ground. There is no way to cushion the blow when you break up with someone who likes you more than you like them. It's nice that you are nice, but it's not doing anyone any good.
Just do it.0 -
This only happened to me once about a year ago. I called twice, and was ready to give up, then she texted me and said sorry she's been busy. Mixed signal? So, I called again. No return call, so I just stopped calling. I guess that's what she wanted because she never called. But, why the text?
Done that text too, I was bored and mad at the other guy
hahahaha, also guilty of this....0 -
How do you tell someone that you have been seeing that you don't want to see them anymore? I have gone out a few times with a new guy.
I LOVE to go out with my friends and/or my sister to go eat, go dancing, bowling movies or whatever...2x a week or so...he barely wants to go out and do ANYTHING. It was like pulling teeth getting him to plan a date for us. I planned the first 3....
He is a little bit of a pushover....okay a BIG pushover. I do not want a guy that I can walk all over. I need someone who will push back a little, let me know what he wants, and we make a compromise.
He is sweet, overall, has a good heart, but it won't work with us as a couple.....
I hate that no matter what I say, it will hurt him..but is there any way to help ease the pain a little...?? I know he likes and cares for me a lot...he has told me so.
when you figure this out....let me know...
i have a hanger on that didn't understand my "I'm not interested in seeing you anymore" speech.
Once you have the talk, then do the thing the ladies say, just don't pick up the phone.
seriously, I told him in Mid October that I didn't see a future in us and that I didn't want to waste his time with a relationship I didn't see going anywhere...
and what did I get last night .....I got this:
"I hope life is treating you well my "friend". I miss our friendship and relationship. Hope we can talk someday again."
UGH.0 -
There is no other guy...I just don't want to waste anymore of his or my time. It is not fair to him or me. He deserves to find the right woman for him...he seems to hink it is me...(he said so...quite a few times)...
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Say this! Tell him you are most definitely nto the one for him.0 -
I normally tell them, i want to be friends. Then they turn crazy bat psycho and showing up in the middle of the night ringing my doorbell and constantly texting me to hang out. Then i realized the best way for me now is to start a fight and end it bad or end it like im the bad person.
Why are women nuts?0 -
Tell him that you were drunk, had sex with you girlfriend and now you think you are gay.
I could see this backfiring.0 -
I literally just went through this last weekend. I told him we seemed to be wired differently and that I planned to start seeing other people. It really hurt him because he is a pushover, like yours, but hey, it's better to be honest.0
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If you don't want to try and work it out just tell him that you don't think it is going to work out because you both want different things. Or, you could tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. Maybe he will change a little. He may be the way he is for a reason.0
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Well, since you live in PSL, tell him your meth lab just got raided and you need to devote your time and energy to stay out of jail.
Totally believeable.0 -
I normally tell them, i want to be friends. Then they turn crazy bat psycho and showing up in the middle of the night ringing my doorbell and constantly texting me to hang out. Then i realized the best way for me now is to start a fight and end it bad or end it like im the bad person.
Why are women nuts?
uh, where are you finding these "women"? Maybe stop going there....0 -
Just stop responding if he calls or texts. The fact that you have to plan dates shows that maybe you were a little more into it than he was. If a man wants to take you out, he will ask and plan something. That's just my theory.0
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.I just don't want to waste anymore of his or my time. It is not fair to him or me. He deserves to find the right woman for him...he seems to think it is me...(he said so...quite a few times)...
^^This is what you should tell him. ^^
Be HONEST with him. He might not like it, but he'll appreciate it.
EDIT: BLOCK his number for a wee while. Give him time to himself.0 -
be honest... then dont answer the phone or text... you have a right to have a compatible partner.... the good news is..not everyone is for you and your not for everyone.... stay focus and keep it simple. we are not compatible.0
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ill bush back!0
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