What do you do when you see terrible form at the gym?

jayche
jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
Today I saw someone going deep on some good mornings with a really rounded back (I'm not exaggerating when I say his back resembled a flamingo's neck) on the squat rack but ultimately just said nothing and let him do his thing.

What would you do if you saw terrible/potentially dangerous form in the gym?
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  • wellbert
    wellbert Posts: 3,924 Member
    Look away from the mirror.
  • Healthydiner65
    Healthydiner65 Posts: 1,552 Member
    Why don't you respectfully ask if they would like help with form! What's the worst they could do? Then you will be a Super Hero for going out of your way to keep someone from getting injured!
  • RobynLB
    RobynLB Posts: 617 Member
    My gym is very communal, so you give and get lots of pointers, and most people like / expect it. Usually if people are doing something wrong, they are feeling it and frustrated and they are happy to have someone show them the right way to do it. Conversely, a lot of people actively seek out advice, and I have gotten great tips this way. Just go over and smile and say, "oh, hey, you want to see something... you're really going to like doing it this way better..." If it's someone who isn't friendly, or doesn't like input, then just ignore it and focus on your own thing.
  • n0ob
    n0ob Posts: 2,390 Member
    I scoff and do nothing...
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    I treat it with righteous indignation
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Look away from the mirror.

    LMAO
  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    I am trying to picture this...wish i could see it
  • jayche
    jayche Posts: 1,128 Member
    My gym is very communal, so you give and get lots of pointers, and most people like / expect it. Usually if people are doing something wrong, they are feeling it and frustrated and they are happy to have someone show them the right way to do it. Conversely, a lot of people actively seek out advice, and I have gotten great tips this way. Just go over and smile and say, "oh, hey, you want to see something... you're really going to like doing it this way better..." If it's someone who isn't friendly, or doesn't like input, then just ignore it and focus on your own thing.
    Well usually if someone wants advice they come up and ask me, from my experience I've found that people who don't ask for advice tend not to receive it well and sometimes even lash out. Maybe my gym is just full of ****s lol
  • brittany103
    brittany103 Posts: 96 Member
    I think it depends on the person, personally I don't want anyone bothering me at the gym, if I'm doing something wrong I'll survives, but if the person looks approachable, it doesn't hurt to mention something, just don't do it in a I know more I'm better than you sort of way and hopefully the person doesn't mind and appreciates the advice.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Today I saw someone going deep on some good mornings with a really rounded back (I'm not exaggerating when I say his back resembled a flamingo's neck) on the squat rack but ultimately just said nothing and let him do his thing.

    What would you do if you saw terrible/potentially dangerous form in the gym?

    Being a total noob in RE to lifting heavy, I'd hope someone would stop me and then show me how to do it properly. I'd then thank them because I like to do things right.
  • katiefridley
    katiefridley Posts: 151 Member
    Nothing. It is none of your business. How would you feel if you were in a store and your kid was throwing a temper tantrum and someone came up to you and "respectfully" asked if you wanted parenting advice?
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Nothing. It is none of your business. How would you feel if you were in a store and your kid was throwing a temper tantrum and someone came up to you and "respectfully" asked if you wanted parenting advice?

    Totally different I think...good parenting is subjective...proper form/technique is definitive.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I don't always ask for advice at the gym (even though I want to) because I don't know who is experienced or not and I can't expect them to be my trainer, they are busy. But, if anyone ever saw me with bad form I would absolutely want them to say something to me, rather than for me to end up injured. Really, my body is that important to me.
  • metaphoria
    metaphoria Posts: 1,432 Member
    Thank the good Lord I can finally afford a gym membership. Sigh.
  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    Nothing. It is none of your business. How would you feel if you were in a store and your kid was throwing a temper tantrum and someone came up to you and "respectfully" asked if you wanted parenting advice?
    Horrible comparison.


    Two completely different things.
  • Syreeta6
    Syreeta6 Posts: 377 Member
    Close my eyes and cringe... *yikes*
  • penrbrown
    penrbrown Posts: 2,685 Member
    "Excuse me, I happened to notice how you were doing your squats. You're doing pretty good but you're rounding your back a bit too much. This could lead to injury. Maybe try like this *demonstrate proper form*, it should feel better and will get you a better burn with less chance of injury."

    -> Just do it.
  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
    from my experience I've found that people who don't ask for advice tend not to receive it well and sometimes even lash out.

    Basically this.
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Golden rule: Only approach hot chicks. All others do not accept advice well. They tend to call it criticism.
  • teryx123
    teryx123 Posts: 57 Member
    When I'm at the gym I leave people alone, and I would rather be left alone as well. If anyone wants help they can always ask. Luckily at the gym I use there is none of that. My experience with weights goes back decades, and I have specifc things that I do for specifc reasons. Some are to strengthen old injuries and some are to work around them. I know what I need. I really don't need somebody telling I'm doing something wrong when they have no idea what I'm doing or why.
  • mizzie1980
    mizzie1980 Posts: 379 Member
    I ignore it, but I don't go to the gym, I go to group fitness classes so the instructor is responsible for making sure everyone's form is right.

    But, if it was bad to the point of risking serious injury, I think you could say something. Maybe "Hi! Sorry to bother you, but I'd hate for you to get hurt because I didn't say anything. It's best to keep your back straight to avoid [insert horrible injury here]." Or maybe mentioning it to one of the trainers there, if your gym has them.
  • Jeneba
    Jeneba Posts: 699 Member
    I make mean faces & then report the misbehavior to the gym owner or the trainers. Oh - and sometimes I mutter "Are you TRYING to hurt yourself?" The reason I tell the owner or manager is because this could turn into a Liability issues.
  • alyssamiller77
    alyssamiller77 Posts: 891 Member
    Most of the time I just simply try to avoid watching the train wreck. Honestly, most of the people that I see with crappy form are young "adult" (i.e. 18-24 yr old) males that are at the gym with their friends lifting far too heavy in an effort to show off. Those are not people I'm going to try to offer information to because they aren't going to take the advice anyway.

    Instead I just try to set a good example. I've gotten to the point now where my muscle size and definition is at the higher end of the people at my gym. So I figure those that are interested in having success like mine will see that I'm not using obscenely heavy weights to do it and they'll see how my form looks on many of the exercises they do themselves. If they don't notice the difference between my form and their own, then chances are they're really not as focused as they need to be on doing it right anyway.

    At the end of the day, I go to the gym to improve my body. It's really my "me time". I'm not interested in trying to coach someone else. If they ask for help, I'll gladly give it but I prefer to be in my own little world and focus on my own progress and injury avoidance.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I don't always ask for advice at the gym (even though I want to) because I don't know who is experienced or not and I can't expect them to be my trainer, they are busy. But, if anyone ever saw me with bad form I would absolutely want them to say something to me, rather than for me to end up injured. Really, my body is that important to me.

    See but then you also open yourself up to people that have absolutely no idea what they're doing teaching you their mistakes.

    I tend to not correct anybodies technique unless

    1) They're a client of mine
    2) They ask for my help
    3) They're about to injure themselves or someone else

    As someone said earlier giving out unsolicited advice is often ill received and people can be pretty indignant about which way is the right way.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    I ask the gym's PTs to intervene and offer advice rather than sit at their desk...

    At my gym on a Saturday afternoon there is a session for teenagers and they often have no idea about technique and risk injuring themselves. I do intervene personally at times but it has more "weight" coming from a fitness professional.
  • lewcompton
    lewcompton Posts: 881 Member
    I simply state... "You might want to look up while doing squats unless you are looking for the hernia to pop or your back to go out."
  • bbgughj
    bbgughj Posts: 219 Member
    Today I saw someone going deep on some good mornings with a really rounded back (I'm not exaggerating when I say his back resembled a flamingo's neck) on the squat rack but ultimately just said nothing and let him do his thing.

    What would you do if you saw terrible/potentially dangerous form in the gym?

    Nice , Even though I see someone with the wrong form , Its is not my responsibility to change or correct them , Unless I am asked .

    That is an employees or personal trainers job . I leave my ego outside of the gym and mind my own business .
  • triggsta
    triggsta Posts: 140
    I usually pity them and hope they don't do anything. Experiences of trying to intervene are usually filled with "you don't know what you're talking about" and "I've never gotten hurt doing it this way"... and I can't help but add to their second comment a "yet". So I just let them do their own thing.

    At the gym I go to, most of what I see is just poor form that wouldn't necessarily cause injury but also doesn't give them maximum results. Again, I just pity them and move on. If they see me with my wonderful form and want to ask questions, then I will give them all the time that I have to talk to them about it, but otherwise it's their loss, not mine.
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    mind my own and leave then at it

    I am not qualified so not in a position to be giving advise
  • Ge0rgiana
    Ge0rgiana Posts: 1,649 Member
    Bite my tongue and remind myself that it may be embarassing to a guy to be corrected by a woman.