What do you do when you see terrible form at the gym?
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there are a few at my gym like this, mostly young guys and i wouldn't dare say a word. I dont think they'd like a girl critiqueing them somehow. However i would quietly mention it to the gym instructor and see if he thought it was serious enough to need HIM to comment0
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You have to be able to do it correctly. That's all I'm going to say. And if they don't take it there's nothing more you can do about it.0
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Ugh is SUPER annoying. Guys are ALWAYS commenting on my working out. Yes, they are genuinely compliments like "WOW, you are lifting more than me doing those triceps." "I've never seen a women do unassisted dips before." or when doing pull ups, "That's really impressive." But it is DOWN RIGHT annoying as F**k! It makes me feel like everyone is watching me while I work out. I've even gotten compliments after coming out of a group exercise class BY PEOPLE NOT IN THE ROOM! Like dammmn....stop watching me and making me feel self conscious! I have to say being talked to at the gym is highly annoying. I had a guy YESTERDAY walk by with a grin on his face and say, "Going at it hard today, eh?" Ewww....keep walking. Please. I just awkward chuckled back at him and walked away.
I could seriously go on and on....I get a comment about every single thing I do at the gym. And on the other hand, it also makes me mad because it is like "What? You've never seen a woman work out?" like no women work out....and no women are capable of being good at it? I seriously think it is their ego getting to them. They can't help but to say something.
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Ugh is SUPER annoying. Guys are ALWAYS commenting on my working out. Yes, they are genuinely compliments like "WOW, you are lifting more than me doing those triceps." "I've never seen a women do unassisted dips before." or when doing pull ups, "That's really impressive." But it is DOWN RIGHT annoying as F**k! It makes me feel like everyone is watching me while I work out. I've even gotten compliments after coming out of a group exercise class BY PEOPLE NOT IN THE ROOM! Like dammmn....stop watching me and making me feel self conscious! I have to say being talked to at the gym is highly annoying. I had a guy YESTERDAY walk by with a grin on his face and say, "Going at it hard today, eh?" Ewww....keep walking. Please. I just awkward chuckled back at him and walked away.
I could seriously go on and on....I get a comment about every single thing I do at the gym. And on the other hand, it also makes me mad because it is like "What? You've never seen a woman work out?" like no women work out....and no women are capable of being good at it? I seriously think it is their ego getting to them. They can't help but to say something.
Do you like me? Circle one: [Y] [N] [awkward chuckle and walk away]
I'm picking awkward chuckle and walk away! haha
Oh and did I mention guys will form in huddles and watch/chit chat. I CAN SEE YOU. THERE ARE MIRRORS EVERYWHERE. Dumbasssses :noway:
Bottom line: everyone should keep to themselves unless they know the person somehow or if they are concerned, tell a trainer. Talking at the gym. Ew. Plus, it wastes my time!0 -
I feel like picking up a weight plate and throwing it at their head.
But generally, I say nothing. After all, I'm female. What would I know?0 -
Oh and did I mention guys will form in huddles and watch/chit chat. I CAN SEE YOU. THERE ARE MIRRORS EVERYWHERE. Dumbasssses :noway:
Bottom line: everyone should keep to themselves unless they know the person somehow or if they are concerned, tell a trainer. Talking at the gym. Ew. Plus, it wastes my time!
Take them outside and curb stomp them
That will effectively say "I don't prefer to chat while I'm working out but thanks for the compliment"0 -
Two days ago a young guy, no older than 19 or so came over to correct my form on an pseudo overhead lat extension - nice guy and friendly and he was with some friends while I was with my 15 year-old daughter (who looks older). The thing is, I wasn't doing a full extension but some weighted stretching to position my shoulder, as it impinges a bit. He explained, I explained and we got chatting. Although the kid was totally wrong to give me advice, I appreciated that he approached me.
My daughter gives me *kitten* that I'm getting hit on more than she is. This is a good thing.0 -
Would you guys save a chicken from drowning
hell no their feet/beaks look like theyd really mess up my skin0 -
I usually try to avoid even noticing, but I couldn't help but notice this guy the other day doing terrible, terrible squats. He was showing off and thinking he was the *kitten* with a lot of weight. Yeah, it's easy to squat that much when you're half-assing it! lol I just focused back on me and my *kitten*-near-to-ground squats. I wouldn't ever say anything to anyone unless I knew them.0
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I raise an eyebrow, shake my head at the bad form and go back to what I'm doing. In my experience, most people aren't receptive to being corrected when they think they know what they're doing. Plus I'm not about to interrupt my workout to make theirs better. Right, wrong or indifferent, it's how I feel.0
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There are some options here. One would be to find a trainer or gym manager (if there is one there) and mention it to them; let them be the bad guy... They don't want the liability of somebody being stupid and may not have noticed; In this case, if it is evident that they don't know what they are doing, it would be better to go ahead and say something... then your conscious is clear if they throw out a disk... Yes, they may scoff and may be indignant... In that case, just consider the source.0
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Today I saw someone going deep on some good mornings with a really rounded back (I'm not exaggerating when I say his back resembled a flamingo's neck) on the squat rack but ultimately just said nothing and let him do his thing.
What would you do if you saw terrible/potentially dangerous form in the gym?
Depends.
How much do you bench?0 -
An older gentleman came in yesterday, I was riding. He got onto the bike next to me and I first noticed he had on dress slacks. Secondly I noticed the seat on the bike was not set to his height. He was too close to the pedals. He was struggling because he had had a stroke and his left side was weak.
So, my first thought was to OFFER help. To physically help him.
I didn't. Instead I advised him to move the seat a few steps and he'd be able to swing his leg onto the pedal.
If you see someone who is doing something that CLEARLY looks like it could HARM them tell them. If you don't want to you can always ask an employee or trainer to assist. It is part of their job to keep the gym members safe. If this person was to get hurt they may not stay going to the gym or they may cancel their membership.
This goes for people who don't know how to use equipment. ASK. It's much better to ask for help vs getting injured and losing your motivation because you were hurt.0 -
I would correct them in a NICE way. I've corrected people's form at the gym before and I've never been scowled or grunted at. I'd rather correct someone's form than have them kill their knees or back! Many people don't know what they are doing in the gym, but the fact that they are trying and want to be healthy means they are trying and there is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes they just need some help and a bit of encouragement.0
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Another possibility is if you don't feel comfortable, start talking to a friend about proper form (get with them first)... Make sure you are within ear shot. I know that I for one often listen to advice that others who are obviously in better shape than I am give to others... If they are receptive, they may catch on that they are missing the mark. Just a possible.0
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Agreed!I don't always ask for advice at the gym (even though I want to) because I don't know who is experienced or not and I can't expect them to be my trainer, they are busy. But, if anyone ever saw me with bad form I would absolutely want them to say something to me, rather than for me to end up injured. Really, my body is that important to me.0 -
An older gentleman came in yesterday, I was riding. He got onto the bike next to me and I first noticed he had on dress slacks. Secondly I noticed the seat on the bike was not set to his height. He was too close to the pedals. He was struggling because he had had a stroke and his left side was weak.
So, my first thought was to OFFER help. To physically help him.
I didn't. Instead I advised him to move the seat a few steps and he'd be able to swing his leg onto the pedal.
If you see someone who is doing something that CLEARLY looks like it could HARM them tell them. If you don't want to you can always ask an employee or trainer to assist. It is part of their job to keep the gym members safe. If this person was to get hurt they may not stay going to the gym or they may cancel their membership.
This goes for people who don't know how to use equipment. ASK. It's much better to ask for help vs getting injured and losing your motivation because you were hurt.
I always want to do this in Spin, but I feel like I'd look like a show off if I tell them their seat isn't correctly set up. Or I'd get some smartass comment back like "That's how I like it." But I see some seriously wrong set bikes. People are either moving completely left to right because their seat is like 3 levels too high or they are riding with their knees to their chest because it is 3 levels too low......this one chick always has her seat moved so far back she can barely hold the handles. I never say anything because, like me, if I didn't know or it was uncomfortable, I would ask for help. I know not everyone is as open as me with asking questions, but I still don't say anything for fear of looking like a *kitten*.
Also, in Zumba I see women who just aren't getting the steps, and I really love to teach people, but I STILL refrain from showing people the moves because I feel like they would think, "Oh...of course she would come back here to show me how to do it....Miss Always Gotta Be In The Front...."0 -
When I start lifting, I think I'm going to get a t-shirt made. On the back in big letters.. "Tell me if my form sucks".0
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as a certified personal trainer it is part of my training and promise to my certification body that I be professional and curteous to all. Those not in the fitness industry do not have to step in at all, but those who are really should:
After laughing my *kitten* off in the corner of the gym,
and only if the guy lifting was in grave of a serious and mortal weightlifting sin (cause of death or immenent injury kind of senario)
would I politely step in, first asking him what his goal for that exercise is.....
and it helps being a super sexy and fabulously inshape woman when you do this to a man.
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i'm not reading the comments, just going to answer the OP:
I think it's wrong to comment on someone's form. (and i will say it goes double if you are a guy and the lifter is female because it gets annoying real quick having men constantly engage you with their superior advice). I had one friend who kept giving me unsolicited advice and it was all pointless because everything he told me, i already knew. I had an injury and was adjusting my routine until the injury got better.
If it's your friend, or they ask, then go for it. By all means.0 -
I think you have to be really careful and make sure the bad form is being done due to a lack of knowledge and would definitely lead to injury before saying anything. I admit sometimes I have some bad form on some exercises, but not because I don't know how to do it right. Sometimes I'm pushing myself at a higher weight, and sometimes I go to failure. I think under those circumstances as long as you know what you're doing and won't injure yourself its ok.
However if the person is clearly a newbie and is doing something that will lead to obvious injury I would probably say something in the most polite way I know how.
Not everyone believes bad form is necessarily a bad thing under the right conditions. You can see videos of legendary bodybuilder/trainer Charles Glass on youtube where he supervises and trains some people while they do bad form because he's just trying to get them to sweat. I cringed when I saw the bad form he had some of his trainees do but you can't say the guy doesn't know how to build muscle.
Addendum: Not trying to be argumentative on this issue. I believe in good form and always practice it (except when I don't).
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Was this a serious question? lolDepends.
How much do you bench?
Awesome feedback so far, I was looking for a picture earlier to illustrate what I saw in the gym today but couldn't find any0 -
An older gentleman kindly gave me a tip on my form once, and I actually appreciated it. Honestly, I would be hesitant to give anybody else tips, even if I knew what I was doing, but if they were doing something that is likely to cause an injury, I'd like to think I'd speak up.0
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I noticed a guy doing his squats and his lower back was arching when he got down deep. I told him and he said "Yeah-it's a butt wink." I was like "What is that?" He explained and I said, "Cool. Thanks for teaching me something." I felt a bit like an *kitten* for pointing out something he knew about already, but, then again, I learned something, so I'm glad I pointed it out to him. Now, if some dude had done it and not some chic, who knows how he would have responded.
I personally would LOVE for someone to tell me if my form was bad. What I do is look around and watch people's form. I can tell who knows what they are doing and who doesn't. I ask those with great form for help.0 -
form can damage your body/posture/ and muscles....thats way different than a kid throwing themselves on the floor in some store thats not hurting anyone really (well maybe their ears). i would appreciate if i was doing something wrong for someone to come up and POLITELY tell me the right way0
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I wish that I thought there was a better chance that they would be accepting of friendly advice and then I move on.0
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I presume the person I see doing what I think is poor form knows something I don't.
"Excuse me, sir, I noticed when doing your squats you were arching your back. Does that work a different muscle set than keeping your back straight?"0 -
I silently judge them and continue with my workout.0
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Chuckle a lil bit, shake my head, continue with the next set0
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CRINGE >.<0
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