The Unattainable soul mate..................

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  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....


    Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
    Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:

    Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.

    Stop making excuses! I firmly believed when I was 14 that Kathy Ireland was my soulmate but then the sanity kicked in and I realized that it wasn't goona happen, so I stopped following her around and looking through her windows. The restraining order helped out too!

    I am happy the restraining order worked for you.
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.

    Would that be considered incest?
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August
  • FitBeto
    FitBeto Posts: 2,121 Member
    Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.

    Would that be considered incest?

    Does masturbating make you gay?
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August

    I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.

    Would that be considered incest?

    Does masturbating make you gay?

    No, but I am not sure what masturbating to yourself while looking at the mirror makes you. Interesting question.
  • No, never had a soul mate. But me and my daughter have a good connection and if she is not feeling well I can sense it, for example she was staying with her father and was feeling dizzy and I found out later on that I had felt dizzy at the same point, maybe it was nothing but simular things have happend.
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    nope, I married him :bigsmile:

    ^^YUP!
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    Seems you answered it. Yes it is delusional when you know it can't be. Yet you still obsess to put yourself in each others lives. That would be painful. The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.


    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....


    Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
    Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:

    Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.
  • Enigmatica
    Enigmatica Posts: 879 Member
    For decades, yes. Then we got together ;-)
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Seems you answered it. Yes it is delusional when you know it can't be. Yet you still obsess to put yourself in each others lives. That would be painful. The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.


    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....


    Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
    Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:

    Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.

    I agree with you. And of coarse I do. But, The feeling are still there. And avoidance is not possible due to the social circles I run with.
  • AngryDiet
    AngryDiet Posts: 1,349 Member
    The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.

    This is how I'm going to deal with my choice of lunch today.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.

    This is how I'm going to deal with my choice of lunch today.

    I "Epic fail" at that all the time.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August

    I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.

    All I heard was.. "you are right..."! :smile: Maybe a different group for this topic!?
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August

    I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.

    All I heard was.. "you are right..."! :smile: Maybe a different group for this topic!?

    Maybe. The question was, is anyone in this situation, not, what should I do. I know what I need to do and I do it. Just looking for shared experiences. But....you are right again!
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August

    I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.

    All I heard was.. "you are right..."! :smile: Maybe a different group for this topic!?

    Maybe. The question was, is anyone in this situation, not, what should I do. I know what I need to do and I do it. Just looking for shared experiences. But....you are right again!

    Right, a lot of times people use these boards as a way to be snarky and not have to face someone to do it... are you apart of the Play Time group.. people there are supportive and open-minded... and if there is an asshat, we whip them into shape!
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    She doesn't even know I exist.

    Because I'm very, very stealthy.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    She doesn't even know I exist.

    Because I'm very, very stealthy.

    Stealth mode has its advantages, but life is too short to stay in the shadows forever. If there is a shot take it. For good or bad, ride the storm out.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member
    depressing
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    It's the physical proximity that's unattainable. . :(
  • RushBabe214
    RushBabe214 Posts: 469 Member
    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....

    Only once in my lifetime...
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    It's the physical proximity that's unattainable. . :(

    I hear you.
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    If there is a shot take it.

    . . . okay, but if they catch me, I'll say you made me do it.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    If there is a shot take it.

    . . . okay, but if they catch me, I'll say you made me do it.

    Deal!
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    She doesn't even know I exist.

    Because I'm very, very stealthy.

    She is clearly blind...
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    She doesn't even know I exist.

    Because I'm very, very stealthy.

    She is clearly blind...

    He may have ninja skills, nebe=ver underestimate the ninja!
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.
  • Brewster1215
    Brewster1215 Posts: 247 Member
    Unsure if I even believe such a thing exists anymore.

    Bah humbug?

    This! I've pretty much given up.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Unsure if I even believe such a thing exists anymore.

    Bah humbug?

    This! I've pretty much given up.

    No man. It just takes patience and a lot of luck.