The Unattainable soul mate..................
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Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....
Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:
Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.
Stop making excuses! I firmly believed when I was 14 that Kathy Ireland was my soulmate but then the sanity kicked in and I realized that it wasn't goona happen, so I stopped following her around and looking through her windows. The restraining order helped out too!
I am happy the restraining order worked for you.0 -
Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.0
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Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.
Would that be considered incest?0 -
Charlie,
Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!
Happy Holidays
August0 -
Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.
Would that be considered incest?
Does masturbating make you gay?0 -
Charlie,
Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!
Happy Holidays
August
I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.0 -
Just buy a freaking mirror, that's what I did. Sexy *kitten* mmm. Problem = solved.
Would that be considered incest?
Does masturbating make you gay?
No, but I am not sure what masturbating to yourself while looking at the mirror makes you. Interesting question.0 -
No, never had a soul mate. But me and my daughter have a good connection and if she is not feeling well I can sense it, for example she was staying with her father and was feeling dizzy and I found out later on that I had felt dizzy at the same point, maybe it was nothing but simular things have happend.0
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nope, I married him :bigsmile:
^^YUP!0 -
Seems you answered it. Yes it is delusional when you know it can't be. Yet you still obsess to put yourself in each others lives. That would be painful. The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....
Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:
Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.0 -
For decades, yes. Then we got together ;-)0
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Seems you answered it. Yes it is delusional when you know it can't be. Yet you still obsess to put yourself in each others lives. That would be painful. The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....
Wouldn't that make you delusional and not dealing with reality?
Bless your heart.:flowerforyou:
Delusional in what way? It is delusional to think you can make something happen, realistic when you know it can't.
I agree with you. And of coarse I do. But, The feeling are still there. And avoidance is not possible due to the social circles I run with.0 -
The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.
This is how I'm going to deal with my choice of lunch today.0 -
The reality is that the mind must override what the heart is feeling.
This is how I'm going to deal with my choice of lunch today.
I "Epic fail" at that all the time.0 -
Charlie,
Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!
Happy Holidays
August
I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.
All I heard was.. "you are right..."! Maybe a different group for this topic!?0 -
Charlie,
Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!
Happy Holidays
August
I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.
All I heard was.. "you are right..."! Maybe a different group for this topic!?
Maybe. The question was, is anyone in this situation, not, what should I do. I know what I need to do and I do it. Just looking for shared experiences. But....you are right again!0 -
Charlie,
Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!
Happy Holidays
August
I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.
All I heard was.. "you are right..."! Maybe a different group for this topic!?
Maybe. The question was, is anyone in this situation, not, what should I do. I know what I need to do and I do it. Just looking for shared experiences. But....you are right again!
Right, a lot of times people use these boards as a way to be snarky and not have to face someone to do it... are you apart of the Play Time group.. people there are supportive and open-minded... and if there is an asshat, we whip them into shape!0 -
She doesn't even know I exist.
Because I'm very, very stealthy.0 -
She doesn't even know I exist.
Because I'm very, very stealthy.
Stealth mode has its advantages, but life is too short to stay in the shadows forever. If there is a shot take it. For good or bad, ride the storm out.0 -
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It's the physical proximity that's unattainable. .0
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Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....
Only once in my lifetime...0 -
It's the physical proximity that's unattainable. .
I hear you.0 -
If there is a shot take it.
. . . okay, but if they catch me, I'll say you made me do it.0 -
If there is a shot take it.
. . . okay, but if they catch me, I'll say you made me do it.
Deal!0 -
She doesn't even know I exist.
Because I'm very, very stealthy.
She is clearly blind...0 -
She doesn't even know I exist.
Because I'm very, very stealthy.
She is clearly blind...
He may have ninja skills, nebe=ver underestimate the ninja!0 -
The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.0
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Unsure if I even believe such a thing exists anymore.
Bah humbug?
This! I've pretty much given up.0 -
Unsure if I even believe such a thing exists anymore.
Bah humbug?
This! I've pretty much given up.
No man. It just takes patience and a lot of luck.0
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