The Unattainable soul mate..................

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  • barbaramitchell101
    barbaramitchell101 Posts: 360 Member
    OMG..that brings memories.....he is dead now...when he was alive, I could "FEEL" whenever something bad was happening to him..all the way from the other side of the country....it was an experience to say the least......


    EDIT....this person was a celebrity I met when I was 13, we became friends, and we kept in touch thru the years...after my 3rd divorce, many years later, we did get together for about 6 months time, It was wonderful, but I guess not meant to be....he was more interested in furthering his career, however and whoever he had to fxxxk...but even now, tho he has passed away, I still feel the same....but obviously need to move on, and I have...
  • WendyTerry420
    WendyTerry420 Posts: 13,274 Member
    nope, I married him :bigsmile:

    ^^ This

    :smokin:
  • bettacheckyoself
    bettacheckyoself Posts: 570
    this sounds like trouble.........
  • ChinniP
    ChinniP Posts: 166 Member
    I think it is romanticizing a situation. Usually it's the case that if you really could make it happen, when reality set in after the turtle doves quit singing, life would not be significantly different.
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    nope, I married him :bigsmile:
    I like this:)
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I don't believe in soulmates. I think that we are compatible with any number of people, the trick is just to find one of those people. I also think tragedy is a bit of an overstatement for this type of situation--yes, it may suck, but really, if that's the worst thing that happens to you, you're doing pretty good. All of that said, I have a great friend, who I can't talk to, because I'm married to someone else, and it's just too hard on us to interact with limits. Last summer we ran into each other for the first time in years, it was an awesome couple of hours, and reminded me of how very much I miss him. It gets frustrating sometimes when I am doing things that remind me of him. Sometimes I get stupid and let myself think about "what if," but the truth is, my life is good, and you can't always have your cake and eat it too.
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    One other thought...you have to be careful about things you feel are real and mutual, but are never acknowledged. There are times you are sure something is mutual, and well, it just isn't.
  • uncertainty
    uncertainty Posts: 5 Member
    The situations I am referring to, and I apologise for not being more clear, are the ones where both parties feel it, but, due to life circumstances, it is impossible to act on.

    yes this is happening to me now. we can't be together because of our race....she's a feline and im human..i love my cat
  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    IMO - When life's circumstances keep you apart, it is easier to get some distance between you and that soulmate instead of wasting time and tears desiring someone you can't have. (1200 miles distance worked for me one time. The other time BrettPGH just deleted me solving that problem. LOL)

    Just don't be around this guy you can't have. There are lots of potential soulmates - people with similar likes, desires, preferences, etc.

    Find someone new to have some fun with. New guy might not be potential soulmate, but enjoy his ...um... potential. LOL Good luck!




    Alis volat propiis
  • GeekGirl23
    GeekGirl23 Posts: 517 Member
    Charlie,

    Not everyone is going to understand what you mean by this.. lucky some of us do! In answer to your question, sure, always and when your heart is open enough to it - alright!

    Happy Holidays
    August

    I thought I was clear. But you are right. The judgemental nature of people overide their ability to understand the issue.

    I completely understand. It's not that you'll act on it... it's just killer knowing that what may have been meant to be was changed because of yours or their own denial of that connection back when. I didn't believe in any of this soul mate or love so much you can't imagine not having them in your life feelings until I met him. My husband even knows about him and I am very honest with him... issue is he let me get away. Maybe in the next life :)
  • threeonethree
    threeonethree Posts: 182 Member
    I'd move for my soulmate. No question. It wouldnt be easy but definitely something I would do.
  • KickassAugust
    KickassAugust Posts: 1,430 Member
    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.

    You can't chase what you can't see!

    Is your pee ninja too?

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