Friends with benifits

MaraDiaz

I'm all for it. Who needs the drama of romantic entanglements when you can get stud service for free?

intrepidity

Not sure about some of the comments regarding me joking about this. This is a real situation. While I appreciate the positive feedback, I really don't appreciate people making a light of it. Sorry if your life is boring or so fcuked up that you need to make things up. Get some help, get off the computer, and get in the gym. That's my advice. I'm looking for honest opinions on this because this could change my life. I don't think that's funny or something to make light of

I think the real trolls are the ppl trying to flame and make stupid remarks about a guy's problem. Get a life man.

Thanks again for all the positive feedback guy. Tough decisions.

currierand

I'm not SAYING that you are trolling here, but I think its pretty suspicious/funny after the bodyguard-gun twirling fiasco you posted on in the forums last night lol

Wait..this is the same guy? I thought his name was faithful or something like that..O.O...oooooooo sneaky sneaky sneaky

Awww, come on, shouldn't these trolls be at the gym or something? We should have known this was just this guys fantasy that the hot young girl from class wants to be "friends with benefits". Sheesh, you'd think I was too old to fall for the classic "Letters to the Penthouse Forum".

"I never thought this could happen to me"....(cue cheesy porn music)

intrepidity

^^^obviously has no life...sad, just sad. Well I'm off to the gym to teach my next Crossfit class. She's gonna be there. Wish me luck.

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MireyGal76

^^^obviously has no life...sad, just sad. Well I'm off to the gym to teach my next Crossfit class. She's gonna be there. Wish me luck.

What kind of luck are wanting wishes for? Making the right decision and remaining professional? Or completely ignoring all the advice given in the last number of pages and getting some action?

You don't need luck... you need to make the right decision and not count on "luck" to have those right decisions made for you.

Just saying... sorry if it's tough, but that's how I love sometimes. :-D

twright513

I wish i could! I would not even know where to start to make that happen!

InnerFatGirl

Currently in one of these and it's great. It can, and does with me, get complicated though. Oh well, I'm enjoying it right now.

jayche

never ended well with me or anybody I know, I'd avoid the situation if possible.

TheConsciousFoody

It doesn't work out unless the friend is a prostitute. Women always fall in love when they have sex. They see it in a different way than we do.

I really, really hope that this was a joke.

Sorry if you feel offended. I was speaking based on statistics according to certain professionals that specialise in sex. Men are bigger *kitten* and horndogs, women are more romantic, men like rougher sex than women etc... Just statistics. I'm sure the original person that started this thread knows what I mean when I said women fall in love with sex and he's probably going through that. Chances are he wants nothing serious and is afraid to break her heart.

And where are these statistics from? From my personal experience, this is soooo not true.

PikaKnight

While I appreciate the positive feedback, I really don't appreciate people making a light of it. Sorry if your life is boring or so fcuked up that you need to make things up. Get some help, get off the computer, and get in the gym. That's my advice. I'm looking for honest opinions on this because this could change my life. I don't think that's funny or something to make light of

Says the guy who posts this on a public forum expecting what?? FML..ROFLMAO

Everyone is going to have their opinions. Some will be supportive, some will be against you...and some will make a joke. Get used to it...that's life in general, not just forum opinions.

PikaKnight

It doesn't work out unless the friend is a prostitute. Women always fall in love when they have sex. They see it in a different way than we do.

I really, really hope that this was a joke.

Sorry if you feel offended. I was speaking based on statistics according to certain professionals that specialise in sex. Men are bigger *kitten* and horndogs, women are more romantic, men like rougher sex than women etc... Just statistics. I'm sure the original person that started this thread knows what I mean when I said women fall in love with sex and he's probably going through that. Chances are he wants nothing serious and is afraid to break her heart.

And where are these statistics from? From my personal experience, this is soooo not true.

Statistics *snort*.

Here's the truth, plain and simple. Men and women are people...individuals....no one sex is more inclined to fall in love due to sex more than the other. I've known men just as clingy and needy as what they perceive women to be. That's why you should stop generalizing things.

The few things that can be said about women for sure that men can't do/experience is give birth and have a period.

abrahamsitososa

Hmmm I've never had sex with a prostitute. I know prostitutes can't fall in love with a john because they are doing it for money not for pleasure. But I've seen on Dr. Phill and other research i've done leads me to believe that women are more emotional than men when it comes to sex and to men it's just a physical satisfaction. Everyone is different of course but the stats for those reports are taken from a big majority of women. From my experience everyone I've ever had sex with fell in love even if it was supposed to be a casual thing. The more sex you have the more they fall in love. You can pretty much say that the definition of love is what a woman thinks when a man is ****ing her. Excuse my language.

uh oh! someone is digging himself a hole

I meant a big percentage. I havent slept with many women throughout my life if you are insinuating that I said that and however many men you've slept with well I don't know and I wouldn't put it past you that you have or haven't but congratulations on scoring your points if you think it's cool to make men fall in love or if you think the whole friends with benefits thing is cool. To each their own. I had my teenager years and as a 30 year old man I don't think it would be fun for me to be out in one of those friends with benefits relationships. People always get hurt like that.

What hole am I digging myself into? Lol if I wasn't scared of catching a disease or something I would have probably experimented with one before getting married. And if people think that I have or haven't so what? How will anyone's thoughts influence my future? I was giving some man to man advice to the original person that started the thread and gave my 2 cents so big deal. Everyone has their own opinion and whoever doesn't like mine well too bad.

Listen, you are the one who said "all women fall in love when they have sex." All means all, and I'm pretty sure you're intelligent for me not to have to point you to Webster's on this one. If someone questions you and you say, "You can pretty much say that the definition of love is what a woman thinks when a man is ****ing her," then you are repeating the strength of your original statement.

Then someone points out the complete lack of logic in that statement and you immediately start backpedaling, "well, by saying 'all,' and ' love is what a woman thinks when a man is ****ing her," I actually meant most...." and then you say, actually "I meant a big percentage..."

Listen. These are all actual quotes from you. I'm not attacking you and I am being kind and ignoring your petty personal attacks because they have no bearing on this discussion. This is not about me and it is not about you or whatever your opinion is. You stated it as fact and said you had done research on it.

When you state something as fact, you have to back it up and you didn't. When you attack someone personally because you can't back it up, that's illogical. And when you continue arguing because you aren't man enough to admit your mistakes, that's you right there, bulldozing your way into a lake.

I was giving the original thread starter my opinion and advice. I'm entitled to believe what I know just like you are entitled to be one of those feminists that gets offended over every little thing. That's how certain men conversate with eachother regarding certain women like a fwb for example. We talk a lot of smack about women specially when we are talking about a fwb. Do men tend to not think sometimes before speaking? Yes. Every man can be an a-hole and every woman can be a bi***. You probably think I'm an a-hole and a ****head because you see me as someone that is stereotyping you. It's human nature and nobody wants to be considered part of a stat. That's why I wasn't telling you that all women fall in love after sex I was telling HIM. And boom there goes the attacks and the hate comments. Chill girl.

coyoteo

I think it's great. and can work out beautifully.

DavPul

I was giving the original thread starter my opinion and advice. I'm entitled to believe what I know just like you are entitled to be one of those feminists that gets offended over every little thing. That's how certain men conversate with eachother regarding certain women like a fwb for example. We talk a lot of smack about women specially when we are talking about a fwb. Do men tend to not think sometimes before speaking? Yes. Every man can be an a-hole and every woman can be a bi***. You probably think I'm an a-hole and a ****head because you see me as someone that is stereotyping you. It's human nature and nobody wants to be considered part of a stat. That's why I wasn't telling you that all women fall in love after sex I was telling HIM. And boom there goes the attacks and the hate comments. Chill girl.

You're definitely winning this debate, player. At first I thought all those women fell in love with you because of your magic stick, but obviously it's your smooth way with words. Play on, playa.

And don't sell yourself short. I'm sure all the prostitutes fell in love with you too. They just didn't want to admit it.

ihateroses

I was giving the original thread starter my opinion and advice. I'm entitled to believe what I know just like you are entitled to be one of those feminists that gets offended over every little thing. That's how certain men conversate with eachother regarding certain women like a fwb for example. We talk a lot of smack about women specially when we are talking about a fwb. Do men tend to not think sometimes before speaking? Yes. Every man can be an a-hole and every woman can be a bi***. You probably think I'm an a-hole and a ****head because you see me as someone that is stereotyping you. It's human nature and nobody wants to be considered part of a stat. That's why I wasn't telling you that all women fall in love after sex I was telling HIM. And boom there goes the attacks and the hate comments. Chill girl.

You're definitely winning this debate, player. At first I thought all those women fell in love with you because of your magic stick, but obviously it's your smooth way with words. Play on, playa.

And don't sell yourself short. I'm sure all the prostitutes fell in love with you too. They just didn't want to admit it.

Thanks for the compliment. Its an honor to have hookers in love with me. Its all about the magic stick because they like to li li li lick that lollipop.

You....are just....no.....

OP: Just do it. You're going to anyway.

amber1533

Do you think its wrong to have a friend that you really like and really like to be around, workout with, laugh with, but you have crazy sex? But it has no chance at a relationship as far as bf/gf marriage?

I don't think it's wrong, it can be a nice fun little thing. Eventually though, it will end, so make sure you're prepared for something like that because someone (or both!) can develop feelings.

narcissus1199

Yes please! Oh wait sorry, what was the question?

TheConsciousFoody

I was giving the original thread starter my opinion and advice. I'm entitled to believe what I know just like you are entitled to be one of those feminists that gets offended over every little thing. That's how certain men conversate with eachother regarding certain women like a fwb for example. We talk a lot of smack about women specially when we are talking about a fwb. Do men tend to not think sometimes before speaking? Yes. Every man can be an a-hole and every woman can be a bi***. You probably think I'm an a-hole and a ****head because you see me as someone that is stereotyping you. It's human nature and nobody wants to be considered part of a stat. That's why I wasn't telling you that all women fall in love after sex I was telling HIM. And boom there goes the attacks and the hate comments. Chill girl.

You're definitely winning this debate, player. At first I thought all those women fell in love with you because of your magic stick, but obviously it's your smooth way with words. Play on, playa.

And don't sell yourself short. I'm sure all the prostitutes fell in love with you too. They just didn't want to admit it.

Thanks for the compliment. Its an honor to have hookers in love with me. Its all about the magic stick because they like to li li li lick that lollipop.

I puked in my mouth a little....

intrepidity

^^^lol

O btw I saw her today in my class

zombiesama

Just have sex with her.

DamnImASexyBitch

@vkaylor No disrespect, but do you know from experience? Cause I'm looking for honest advice. Theirs this girl and she wants to but I'm scared it will ruin our friendship. I really like her.

Sorry I just saw this. Yes, I know from experience in two different senarios. I was both the one who didn't want more, and with someone else the person who wanted more.

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