Flirting ..disrepectful or not at all?

1Pretty_Busy_Mom
1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
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What's wrong with flirting??

My answer...Honey ain't nothing wrong with looking. I window shop all the time, just don't buy!

What about you?
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  • dixielawgirl
    dixielawgirl Posts: 437 Member
    I'd be mad if I saw my bf doing it...therefore I don't with men.

    There's a difference in being nice/playing personality & flirting...I stay away from the latter.
  • JonnyR214
    JonnyR214 Posts: 228 Member
    Flirting is alright I suppose, as long as it doesn't keep going
  • joycebug
    joycebug Posts: 309
    You can look at the menu but don't have to order :wink:
  • 1Pretty_Busy_Mom
    1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
    You can look at the menu but don't have to order :wink:

    Okay!!
  • socko6774
    socko6774 Posts: 200
    depends whos flirting with you.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    If you're single please do. If you aren't, please don't!
  • tiffanyheth
    tiffanyheth Posts: 510 Member
    Great question. I say, innocent flirting with no strings attached is okay.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    I flirt once in a while. It's nice to have some positive attention from a female once in a while. Being told "rub my feet" and everything you did wrong that day can wear on a person.
  • joycebug
    joycebug Posts: 309
    Absolutely true!
  • joycebug
    joycebug Posts: 309
    I flirt once in a while. It's nice to have some positive attention from a female once in a while. Being told "rub my feet" and everything you did wrong that day can wear on a person.
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    I don't get this. If you look that's one thing, but if you actively flirt I assume you're interested and single (that or you're cheating scum). Beh. Don't waste my time if you're taken. I hate that!

    I don't know if your significant other thinks you're disrespecting her when you do that, but for sure you're disrespecting me!
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    I don't get this. If you look that's one thing, but if you actively flirt I assume you're interested and single (that or you're cheating scum). Beh. Don't waste my time if you're taken. I hate that!

    I don't know if your significant other thinks you're disrespecting her when you do that, but for sure you're disrespecting me!

    I think you're confusing "flirting" and "hitting on". There's a difference.
  • 1Pretty_Busy_Mom
    1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
    depends whos flirting with you.

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  • 1Pretty_Busy_Mom
    1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
    I flirt once in a while. It's nice to have some positive attention from a female once in a while. Being told "rub my feet" and everything you did wrong that day can wear on a person.

    Awww...honey how's you day going? Can I get you anything?
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    depends whos flirting with you.

    Exactly this. The hotter you are the less weird it is.
  • socko6774
    socko6774 Posts: 200
    depends whos flirting with you.

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  • socko6774
    socko6774 Posts: 200
    depends whos flirting with you.

    Exactly this. The hotter you are the less weird it is.

    thank you, us guys think alike...lol
  • Erienneb
    Erienneb Posts: 592 Member
    Depends on how you define flirting.
    AT the beginning of my relationship I would get upset with my bf because he would be flirting with girls who were approaching him. I learned that he legitimately had NO IDEA they were flirting with him and he's just a nice guy. He's one of those cheeseballs that's always telling lame jokes and whatnot. It's just how he is, so I'm fine with it because even though lots of people consider it "flirty" it's just him being him.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    General rule of thumb is, if you would be bothered by your partner doing something then you shouldn't be doing it.


    I don't flirt. I wouldn't want my fiance to flirt.

    I don't judge people in relationships who do though, to each their own.
  • joycebug
    joycebug Posts: 309
    depends whos flirting with you.

    Exactly this. The hotter you are the less weird it is.

    thank you, us guys think alike...lol

    I must think like a dude...lol
  • 1Pretty_Busy_Mom
    1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
    If you're single please do. If you aren't, please don't!

    Hmmm..I'm married. I love looking at the opposite sex, smiling or a grin..no harm done. And if I'm with my hubby and see a nice looking guy I would say "bae did you see the arms on him" we both laugh and then.I say .."he doesn't come close to you daddy" and we both laugh.
  • jr1985
    jr1985 Posts: 1,033 Member
    Well... I'm single, so BRING IT ON! lol... But I'd say... what is being said in the flirting? If it is just harmless banter, then that is usually pretty safe... If it will filled with blatant sexual undertones... then that can be out of hand sometimes.
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    There is a huge difference between flirting and hitting on someone with the intention of doing more than flattering.

    I don't have issues with joking, complimenting, or in some cases harmless innuendo. If there's no intent, then it isn't an issue.

    I don't want to live my life thinking I am only ever allowed to compliment one person. I also don't think I need to dictate that the one person I am with has to give up all harmless interaction with the opposite sex.
  • socko6774
    socko6774 Posts: 200
    If you're single please do. If you aren't, please don't!

    Hmmm..I'm married. I love looking at the opposite sex, smiling or a grin..no harm done. And if I'm with my hubby and see a nice looking guy I would say "bae did you see the arms on him" we both laugh and then.I say .."he doesn't come close to you daddy" and we both laugh.

    nothing wrong with that, you both are obviously secure in your relationship and can be open, which is great!! i envy that. Ive dated some super insecure psychos who would probably have stabbed me if i said anything remotely close to that lol.
  • clydethecat
    clydethecat Posts: 1,087 Member
    no i dont think married or people in a couple should "flirt". it opens a door. i would not like to watch my husband flirt with some other girl. i would never flirt with some guy in turn.

    now joking around with a good friend is different. everyone knows its harmless. its different if you know the person. but even then. a door can be opened. i would never joke around with out my husband being there.
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    I'd be mad if I saw my bf doing it...therefore I don't with men.

    There's a difference in being nice/playing personality & flirting...I stay away from the latter.

    Agreed.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    depends whos flirting with you.

    Exactly this. The hotter you are the less weird it is.

    thank you, us guys think alike...lol

    I think you'll find most women think this way too.
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    Depends on the situation. When I bartended I flirted to get bigger tips (hubby would be sitting right there on the end of the bar), but to flirt just out in general public....disrespectful.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    no i dont think married or people in a couple should "flirt". it opens a door. i would not like to watch my husband flirt with some other girl. i would never flirt with some guy in turn.

    now joking around with a good friend is different. everyone knows its harmless. its different if you know the person. but even then. a door can be opened. i would never joke around with out my husband being there.
    It's such a slippery slope, which is why I avoid it altogether.
  • 1Pretty_Busy_Mom
    1Pretty_Busy_Mom Posts: 449 Member
    Well... I'm single, so BRING IT ON! lol... But I'd say...

    Lol

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