From fat to fit

long2know
long2know Posts: 49 Member
I wrote this little narrative for some friends who requested it on Facebook, but thought it was worth sharing here.


One day in early or mid-2012, I received a call from my doctor’s office after a routine physical. The nurse mentioned that the doctor was concerned about my blood pressure, triglycerides, and cholesterol levels. The answer was to start taking prescription drugs to control these health factors.

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I had been in denial about how being overweight was affecting me both mentally and physically. Defeat had been accepted. I resigned myself to a life of accepting whatever adverse health effects being overweight would bring. I was defeated.

This was a wake-up call for me.

Being a know-it-all, argumentative sort is one of my finer qualities. Receiving that phone call and being told to take pill “X” sparked resistance. I knew better. I looked at myself and was disgusted. How could I be so weak as to let food ruin my health to this degree? Was I really just going to continue to accept it and take the pill(s)? Where was my sense of ownership in my own health and fate?

I told the nurse “no, I will not take these prescriptions.” I politely hung-up the phone and set forth to change myself and to do what I had failed to do for over a decade: take ownership of, and responsibility for, my fate. I owed it to myself and to my wife and daughters.

In early July, 2012, I weighed over 300 lbs. As a software engineer, I live a sedentary lifestyle. I work late hours. I didn’t exercise. I have a horrible sweet-tooth.

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Walking was something I saw lots of people do to lose weight. I had trouble walking; it caused extreme pain in my lower legs. After a number of physical examinations, nothing, apparently, could really be done about this except perhaps invasive surgery. I formulated the opinion that losing weight would help me to be able to exercise. A classic chicken-and-egg scenario ensued.

Previously, I had minor success with low-carb diets. So, it seemed like a potentially good choice for losing weight quickly to reach a weight level that would allow me to exercise. That’s what I did. I ardently adhered to a low-carb diet from July through September (and beyond). Much bacon was consumed, and the weight started coming off.

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I had a lot of random things going on in my life during that period, so it was really hard to keep to the diet. I changed jobs, traveled out to Arizona a few times, we visited Washington, D.C. in September for a Rush concert, and life progressed at its normal feverish pace.

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Yes, it is hard to stick to a routine when life is happening. Being challenged is not an excuse for taking short-cuts, though. I wouldn’t allow it. By October, I had lost a whopping 40+ lbs. This gave me the confidence to try walking/exercising again.

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By mid-October, I started walking. I was surprised that I could suddenly walk over a mile with no discomfort. The reality set in. My previous pain was caused by being overweight. It was my fault. The blame was all on me. Little by little, I pushed myself harder and farther. The weight continued to drop off. Suddenly, running seemed like it was within my grasp. I started doing run-walks. By late October/early November I could run a full 5k!

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At this point, the low-carb diet no longer agreed with me. It was impacting regular bodily functions. Also, the supposition that you can simply eat as much fat and protein as you want without adverse effects did not seem plausible any more. Low-carbing it was just not sustainable. After all, we’re talking about life-style changes here.

I switched to a low-calorie diet and started using MyFitnessPal to keep a daily diet diary and to perform daily weight check-ins. Additionally, the app let me set a calorie goal and it would let me know if I was above or below the goal. My weight upon switching was ~ 240 lbs.

What do I eat? I keep my diet as boring as possible. I eat natural foods, whole grain foods, and lean meats. This may include oatmeal, nuts, fish (tuna from the can especially), beans, rice, pastas, whole-wheat breads, lunch meats, and I love lite Progresso soups! I avoid sugar, sodas, candy/sweets, high-fat foods, and generally anything I consider to be devoid of nutritional value.

Tracking all of my exercises with Endomondo I did. I could see my progress in distance, speed, and time. I could see my progress in weight charts. Something changed inside of me. It all turned into a competition in my mind. I had a calorie goal to beat. I had previous best times/records to shatter. I was competing against my past (and present) self and winning! I no longer accepted being fat as an option.

Running really became an integral, if not pivotal, part of maintaining, pushing, and pursuing my weight loss goals. On November 24, I weighed in at 234.2 lbs and I ran my first half-marathon at the local track. Just typing that sentence brings a feeling of accomplishment and emotion over me that I can’t describe. To go from not being able to walk a mile to running 13.1 miles in only a month affirmed that I was winning.

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The competition doesn't end there, though. December rolled around and I signed up for the Knoxville half-marathon, which occurs on 04/07/2013. I continued running and continued tracking my calories. The weight continued to drop off. I continued getting faster, stronger, and leaner. The competitive side of me took over again and I knew that I would not be satisfied with a half-marathon. By January, I had changed my registration from the half-marathon to the whole enchilada. I've always wanted to say I ran a marathon, and I knew the opportunity was here now or never.

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On 01/26/2013, I recorded my first weight under 200 lbs: 198.4 lbs. In the blink of an eye, it seemed, I had lost over 100 lbs. Could I have done this by dieting alone in the same period? Not a chance. Running was the catalyst. Also, since running my first half-marathon, I have recorded distance runs of ~ 18 miles while training for the Knoxville marathon. Having accomplishments on both fronts is very gratifying.

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Today, I had another routine physical. I am in near perfect health for my age and regardless of my age. My doctor was ecstatic to see what I had accomplished. Reflecting on it myself, it almost doesn’t seem real. Did I really lose over 100 lbs in six months? Did I really go from barely being able to walk to becoming a serious distance runner in only a few months? Who is that guy in those pictures from 6-7 months ago? The nagging/burning question though, is why did I wait so long?

When people see me now and ask me how I lost weight, I recap most of what I have typed here. I didn’t do anything special or that anyone else couldn't do. Platitudes of wisdom apply. Diet and exercise is king. If one wants change, they have to take action and set goals and persist. That is the winning philosophy.

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While I am not done transforming myself, the battle is over and I won. There will still be skirmishes throughout life. I am looking forward to the rush of emotion that I know awaits me when I cross the finish line in April and building on my past success.

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Replies

  • sjklaus
    sjklaus Posts: 59 Member
    Love it! Way to go!
  • LadyRoff
    LadyRoff Posts: 56 Member
    WOW!!!!!!!!!

    That is an amazing post, you have done so well! What an inspiration. I would love to be able to run, and one day I will. I am too heavy at the moment and have been told my my personal trainer that it may damage my knees/shins. So this is one thing I am working towards, thanks for the inspiration!
  • sliikala
    sliikala Posts: 5
    You are amazing!! What an inspiration!! :-)
  • princessd84
    princessd84 Posts: 121 Member
    Awesome! Well done :)
  • heatherpg47
    heatherpg47 Posts: 211 Member
    That is amazing and such an example for your kids. Congratulations.. you are an inspiration.
  • squinz
    squinz Posts: 136
    You're un-recognizable! Amazing!
  • 1fitwong
    1fitwong Posts: 34 Member
    Awesome!!!
  • CoraGregoryCPA
    CoraGregoryCPA Posts: 1,087 Member
    OMG!!!! That's so awesome! Good Luck with your Marathon.. I gotta do that .. someday!!! Nice job!!!! Keep going after the Marathon!
  • fablevins
    fablevins Posts: 111 Member
    Wow, amazing job and attitude!
  • BreezyStorm
    BreezyStorm Posts: 2 Member
    =) Just....made me =)
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    New man, new dad n husband...WTG
  • Gwen_B
    Gwen_B Posts: 1,018 Member
    Congratulations!! Your hard work has paid off!! You look great!!!
  • biddie1
    biddie1 Posts: 125 Member
    Thank for sharing, very encouraging
  • annepage
    annepage Posts: 585 Member
    Really awesome story. Thank you for sharing this.
  • elisa123gal
    elisa123gal Posts: 4,333 Member
    Thanks for sharing your weight loss and fitness journey. It is nice to hear about the details of such a great success. I can tell you made up your mind..and that was that. Congratulations.
  • Rays_Wife
    Rays_Wife Posts: 1,173 Member
    Super!! :flowerforyou:
  • lildee55
    lildee55 Posts: 28 Member
    Amazing!!!
  • Thisisnotadiet
    Thisisnotadiet Posts: 89 Member
    Fantastic post! You must be very proud for taking control and saying no to those drugs. Very inspiring.....
  • AZKristi
    AZKristi Posts: 1,801 Member
    WOW! Bumping this to inspire my husband =) Keep up the good work!
  • glenette1
    glenette1 Posts: 140 Member
    What an amazing and inspiring story. Congratulations to you and thanks for sharing.
  • Bubsys_mom
    Bubsys_mom Posts: 124 Member
    Awesome story and you look awesome! This post made me smile and I even showed my husband. :)
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    WHOA, I love this thread. I especially love the pic of you in your superhero shirt. No doubt it's been a long journey, Congrats too you, and those kids are beautiful btw.
  • Resa52
    Resa52 Posts: 182 Member
    Fantastic job!!! I even read half of your story to my husband. Way to go!!!
  • What an amazing inspiration you are to me and lots of others on MFP. It's stories like this that keeps me going and going whenever I think about quiting. THANK YOU so mcuh for sharing your storie with us, It is really appreciated. And awesome transformation! Btw you look much younger now lol! WTG!
  • blink1281
    blink1281 Posts: 23 Member
    wow that is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing!
  • long2know
    long2know Posts: 49 Member
    WOW!!!!!!!!!

    That is an amazing post, you have done so well! What an inspiration. I would love to be able to run, and one day I will. I am too heavy at the moment and have been told my my personal trainer that it may damage my knees/shins. So this is one thing I am working towards, thanks for the inspiration!

    You're very welcome! I'm glad my story can help you! I went through the exact same thing - had to lose weight just to be able to walk/run.. Just keep your eye on the prize and you will succeed!
  • long2know
    long2know Posts: 49 Member
    OMG!!!! That's so awesome! Good Luck with your Marathon.. I gotta do that .. someday!!! Nice job!!!! Keep going after the Marathon!
    Thanks! I will for sure keep it going... I'm all-in at this point! :-)
  • miame22
    miame22 Posts: 16
    You, sir, are an inspiration! Great work!
  • long2know
    long2know Posts: 49 Member
    WHOA, I love this thread. I especially love the pic of you in your superhero shirt. No doubt it's been a long journey, Congrats too you, and those kids are beautiful btw.
    That's very kind of you to say! Thank you very much!
  • long2know
    long2know Posts: 49 Member
    I just want to say thank you to everyone for the kind words and expressing that my story could help motivate and inspire you! It was my pleasure to share my story/journey with you all. It has been a great ~ seven months and the various sources of inspiration, like others' success stories, I have drawn upon have really made this possible for me too!
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