worst way to breakup with someone

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  • Mikkimeow
    Mikkimeow Posts: 1,282 Member
    <<<<Being less than two weeks away from your due date with his child, and after an argument about not being treated with respect he tells you to leave at nine at night, takes your phone because it is in his name, then decides to lock you out. That was me last night.

    oh. my. gracious!!!! Worst by far. Who puts out a pregnant wife with no phone?!?

    A complete idiot.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,030 Member
    Your SO breaks up with you during getting caught in bed with some else.

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  • darkguardian419
    darkguardian419 Posts: 1,302 Member
    completely off topic, but it reminded me of the best (worst?) prank I've ever pulled.

    After having broken up for about 2 months, I called an ex of mine at 3am, knowing she wouldn't answer, but listen to the voicemail... all I said was "hey, it's me....uh.... you might want to get tested." and hung up.

    Oh the glee!
  • _noob_
    _noob_ Posts: 3,306 Member
    I put a post it note on her stuff on the curb.
  • raychulj
    raychulj Posts: 458 Member
    @mrsjones I:heart: word play
    mmhmm lol
  • actingnurse1
    actingnurse1 Posts: 153 Member
    I would've if I had the option. There was no way I could sneak a saint benard out of his house and never speak to him again.

    Get him wet and slip him through the pet door. It's kinda like child birth.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,342 Member
    Frind of my brother got dumped by his girlfriend BY TEXT while he was IN HER FRONT YARD, DETAILING HER CAR. B!tch even waited til he'd almost finished.

    She was in the house BTW. Just locked the door and refused to answer it.
  • melinda200208
    melinda200208 Posts: 525 Member
    I've been hearing a lot on the news of (not trying to stereotype) But guys killing their wives / S.O./ children when they find out they are breaking up. It's pretty scary! They actually said on the news to try to get your stuff together and move out and then contact the person that you are breaking up. Making sure you are in a safe place (especially if you could see the person getting violent) The guys on the news that killed their wives / children had no history of being violent. It's pretty crazy! Something to keep in mind I guess!
  • Joreanasaurous
    Joreanasaurous Posts: 1,384 Member
    Valentine's Day. I was at work and going to leave early and cook this fancy dinner and get all sexy for my BF. Yeah... He texted me he didn't want to come over cause he would rather get drunk with his friends. We never talked again. 5+ years down the drain. Haha
  • winterswish
    winterswish Posts: 162
    Frind of my brother got dumped by his girlfriend BY TEXT while he was IN HER FRONT YARD, DETAILING HER CAR. B!tch even waited til he'd almost finished.

    She was in the house BTW. Just locked the door and refused to answer it.

    Holy hell...LOL I'm sorry, but that takes some serious...well, whatever.
  • lucille_heather
    lucille_heather Posts: 650 Member
    Being cheated on!
    Sticks with you for years!!!
  • omg!!! that is oo messedd up!!! wo would do that to u? so immnature!!! i am soo sorry. :(
  • I3ernadette
    I3ernadette Posts: 34 Member
    phone call from his ex (who I had never met) while i was between classes during finals week, telling me they were getting back together. i called him for confirmation, went straight to voicemail, and got a voicemail back the next day saying "yeah, sorry. i'll miss you."
    ...
    that was it.
  • seriously!!! i was broken up with on Valentines day too!!! he accused me of cheating with his bff. we dated for almost 4 years and it all went bye. i havent talked to him since.
  • j_zanzig
    j_zanzig Posts: 113 Member
    years ago...back in high school...I broke up with a girl through her mom. I got along better with her mom than I did her though. lol

    This one made me laugh!
  • RunDoozer
    RunDoozer Posts: 1,699 Member
    Getting a letter in the mail while you're overseas.

    Thanks for taking care of me, risking your life, and trusting me with the bank account. I just can't deal with the long distance.

    Really? o.O?

    And sleeping with your best friend. And spending all my money.

    Yeah had this happen. Doubt much could be worse.
  • I was dating a guy, called him at work on a Friday night and they told me he went home due to an 'emergency'. I was worried so I called his house and nothing had happened. Hmm. Then one of HIS friends shows up at my house, saying that my boyfriend was out with some other girl and didn't want to be with me anymore! THEN this guy hit on me! I was so stinking mad, I wanted to punch them both.I broke up with my boyfriend and told the other guy to get lost. I swore I'd never date again, haha, but then met my future husband 10 months later. We've been married for 33 years. Happily!

    What a jerk. But at least there was a happy ending!
  • having your new boyfriend or girlfriend tell them
  • Louisianababy93
    Louisianababy93 Posts: 1,709 Member
    them breaking up with you and then singing


    "we are never,ever,ever getting back together"
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Getting a "Dear John" letter, when you're in the middle of a Med cruise.

    Of course, my name is John, so all my letters were "Dear John"'s.
  • pudadough
    pudadough Posts: 1,271 Member
    Anything other than in person (or possibly over the phone if it's long distance) is rude and cowardly, in my opinion.
  • TC1728
    TC1728 Posts: 264 Member
    I had a girlfriend in high school write it in my yearbook. So I slept with her sister. I still have the yearbook.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    Getting a "Dear John" letter, when you're in the middle of a Med cruise.

    Of course, my name is John, so all my letters were "Dear John"'s.

    yeah but if you were a farmer you'd get the John Deere letter. :tongue:
  • ysienkiewicz
    ysienkiewicz Posts: 86 Member
    I am not saying that breaking up via text is a good way to do it, but I had boyfriends (yes this happened to me more than once) who would just never show up and never call me again. I am thinking they are lying in a ditch, dead. I look like an idiot and call several times. Takes me weeks to realize that they never want to see me again, all the while, I looked like such a fool! At least with a text, I would have known it was over. I did bump into one of those guys several years later and laid in on him, saying that if he really wanted to break up with me, he should have had the guts to at least call. I did get an apology!
  • leejusd
    leejusd Posts: 81
    A friend of my dad was seeing and living with a woman for a couple years. They went on a cruise together (that she paid for). While they were gone, he had a few of his friends brake into their apartment and move all of his stuff out. I imagine there was a brief and awkward moment when they got home, and he just said bye.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Getting a letter in the mail while you're overseas.

    Thanks for taking care of me, risking your life, and trusting me with the bank account. I just can't deal with the long distance.

    Really? o.O?

    Im so sorry, let me kiss it and make it all better. xoxoxoxoxoxo :flowerforyou:
  • VasylP
    VasylP Posts: 136 Member
    Found out from an ex's brother that a friend of his tried to take advantage of her when she got drunk at his brother's b-day party, I was away at University in my last semester. He kicked his friend out of the house told him never to come back, well I guess it must have been somewhat of a two way street. When I got back from University her parents invite me over for dinner. Things at dinner were kind of tense and after dinner she says she needs some time alone, well before I left and kind of in agreement that maybe we needed to think about were we were going next in our relationship, the guy who her brother was still not talking to showed up. Everything was pretty clear to me when he showed up. Didn't trust woman for some time after that.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    I had a girlfriend in high school write it in my yearbook. So I slept with her sister. I still have the yearbook.

    Do you still have the sister???
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    Getting a "Dear John" letter, when you're in the middle of a Med cruise.

    Of course, my name is John, so all my letters were "Dear John"'s.

    yeah but if you were a farmer you'd get the John Deere letter. :tongue:

    How would you like a swift smack on the.......

    Oh, no, you moderators aren't going to get me that easily.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member

    OMG and he dumped her for Janice ****inson. eeewwww