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Older guys...

literatelier

So there's this guy at work that I'm really into. My roommate recently met him at a work function, and commented that she thinks it's reciprocal. I have no idea - I can never tell when a guy is flirting with me. I would normally just ask him if he wants to hang out, except in this case he is about fifteen years older than me, and I've no idea what's appropriate in this situation. Is that too big a gap? Will he just think I'm a stupid child? We were hanging out tonight at a function, and after a couple drinks he got a little touchy...but does that mean he likes me? I'm hopeless!

I'm 28 and he is 42. So guys, what would you think if a 28 year old hit on you?

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BeeElMarvin

So guys, what would you think if a 28 year old hit on you?

Not gonna lie, I'd be flattered.

CanuckLove

Hit it!

MissObstinatiox

Age does not matter at all in my opinion.
I personally Love Older guys.I would Love a sugar Daddy with or without Sugar ;0)

fiveferrels

44 - hit away

tallgirlshelley

Age doesnt matter. That being said, I only date younger guys.

Me too! They're delicious.

OfficiallySexyVal

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44 - hit away

Nope, this one's mine!

jcmartin0313

I am 40, wife is 31. In our case age is of no importance because I act like I am 18! Age, like any other discriminator can make a difference. Would I flatly reject someone because of a reasonable age difference (you decide what is reasonable)? No I most certainly would not. My wife was 18 when we met (a long story for another thread) and it worked. Now, if my future daughter who was 18 brought home as 27 year old man, I would kill him immediately and ground her for life lmao!

literatelier

I am 40, wife is 31. In our case age is of no importance because I act like I am 18! Age, like any other discriminator can make a difference. Would I flatly reject someone because of a reasonable age difference (you decide what is reasonable)? No I most certainly would not. My wife was 18 when we met (a long story for another thread) and it worked. Now, if my future daughter who was 18 brought home as 27 year old man, I would kill him immediately and ground her for life lmao!

Hahaha, yeah I guess what's holding me back is how it would fit in with my life...hard to imagine bringing him home to meet my folks. Or even hanging out with my friends...or me with his friends! But we do have a lot in common.

Timshel_

I'll disagree with most that age is only a number. For hanging out and having fun together, sure. It's all good. However, when you start to seriously consider a future together goals, finances, kids and such will vary greatly among ages. Sometimes that can be the end of it.

Guines9

You are probably more mentally mature than he is.