why do I seem to attract weirdos and stalkers?
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""Hi, I'd like to point out to everyone how much attention men give me so I can get even more.""
I agree with this statement ^^
Also a lot of phaggoty men out there that worship the ground women walk on for no reason and the result is women with over inflated egos.
That was unnecessary.
Completely agree. Ugh.
sorry you can't handle the truth
The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.0 -
I 100% agree. More pics plz
Your back has a 4 pack....niiiiiiiice
That's it. I'm taking a screen shot and writing a blog about this too.
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well first it appears like your username on here is some variation of your legal name? Am I right? If so, DON'T do things like this! I had someone stalk me because he saw my name on my school schedule in the front of my folder. You have to be careful with your identity. I would probably get off KIK and up your settingts on everything for security. especially FB. people can go to your profile if you comment on someone else's. Best to be prudent.
Also I probably would not have posted a thread about it lol. Google yourself, see how easy you are to track down and get rid of those accounts or modify them :flowerforyou:
if she did that she wouldn't get as much attention though
It's true.. *kicks the dirt* then you wonder why you don't get much attention at all *ahem* ME *ahem* :laugh:
^^ haha not quite.. try to find me on FB.. virtually impossible LOL even if you have my email...:sad:well first it appears like your username on here is some variation of your legal name? Am I right? If so, DON'T do things like this! I had someone stalk me because he saw my name on my school schedule in the front of my folder. You have to be careful with your identity. I would probably get of KIK and up your settingts on everything for security. especially FB. people can go to your profile if you comment on someone else's. Best to be prudent.
Also I probably would not have posted a thread about it lol. Google yourself, see how easy you are to track down and get rid of those accounts or modify them :flowerforyou:
SO Jonesie isn't your Christian name then? *throws the old fact sheet away and starts a new one*0 -
Damn us fugs never get the stalkers LOL0
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While I sympathize with the OP's concern...I see some comments implying that "only" beautiful or attractive people get stalked/bothered.
I really hope people are not that naive. Harassment can happen to ANYONE and yeah, we make jokes about posting your picture and you get more attention (maybe) if you're attractive...but it's really not that funny.
Sorry I seem to have lost my sense of humor over this one.
Now, I need to go look up "psycophant" and "sycophant" in the dictionary...0 -
Wow. didnt know MFP was full of trolls. Just like everywhere else on the internet I guess.
Chick uses a forum she feels comfortable with to ask a genuine question. Gets called an attention seeker. Great work MFP.
Lets just victim blame. All the cool kids are doing it. right?0 -
""Hi, I'd like to point out to everyone how much attention men give me so I can get even more.""
I agree with this statement ^^
Also a lot of phaggoty men out there that worship the ground women walk on for no reason and the result is women with over inflated egos.
That was unnecessary.
Completely agree. Ugh.
sorry you can't handle the truth
The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.
you mad?0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?0 -
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^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Expect a PM in your inbox soon, my pretty pretty princess!
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some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?
Yes! Then you'll bring me precious things and show me how beautiful I am and keep me all to yourself. I wish this was a guy really into saving Peach, but instead it was a 65 year old Lebanese man.0 -
"Hi, I'd like to point out to everyone how much attention men give me so I can get even more."
lol!0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
^Exactly.
Someone messages you because you put your picture up for anyone to see...you can ignore and block. It's that simple. And that's not stalking..that's just someone fishing for a hook up. Oh well. It happens on the internet and real life.
But when that person starts following you around, getting your personal info, checking out your friends, sitting outside your house, etc - THAT'S stalking...and THAT'S when you get the authorities involved...not create a thread complaining about how someone tries to get in your pants because they find you pretty.
If you are that annoyed, take down your real photo and put something weird up.0 -
Damn us fugs never get the stalkers LOL
Hey baby, wanna see pics of my strap on?? It came with my HRM.0 -
"Hi, I'd like to point out to everyone how much attention men give me so I can get even more."
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The OP sounds silly. You just sound bitter.
you mad?
I'm not the one who called men 'phagotts' and was talking about women with inflated egos. Someone else pointing out your obvious anger/derision does not make them mad. It just makes them an acute observer.0 -
some of the comments on here have been pretty harsh and judgmental.
I'm not trying to get this kind of attention.
and I don't think anyone would find it "flattering" to be followed home or harassed.
The text conversation you put up didn't imply anyone following you home or harassing you. I think by complaining that you are being "stalked" is actually kind of minimizing the experiences of people who are actually physically stalked, internet bullied, or sexually harassed.
Unless there's more to the story. Someone telling you you're beautiful on the internet can be annoying and inappropriate, but you really have to look at intent to call it stalking or sexual harassment.
^ This. Once that person stalks you quietly to figure out your classes, what times you work, etc., and starts writing you letters about kidnapping you and locking you in a castle, THEN that's stalking.
Castle you say?
Yes! Then you'll bring me precious things and show me how beautiful I am and keep me all to yourself. I wish this was a guy really into saving Peach, but instead it was a 65 year old Lebanese man.
Wow, that's messed up. How little game does a man have to have when he can own a castle and still have to be a creeper?0
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