why do I seem to attract weirdos and stalkers?
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it is. it so is.
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ditto's so let's just get this over with. OP you are beyond beautiful and that's why sadly you cannot plaster your face all over social media without driving normal men completely mad and into stalker like behavior. you are the only one with this problem because you are officially the hottest girl on MFP, kik, twitter, tweeter, and the like. please put a fake pic like mine so the rest of us average women can at least have a chance at feeling normal and not eclipsed by your obvious and unnattainable and elusive beauty.0 -
ditto's so let's just get this over with. OP you are beyond beautiful and that's why sadly you cannot plaster your face all over social media without driving normal men completely mad and into stalker like behavior. you are the only one with this problem because you are officially the hottest girl on MFP, kik, twitter, tweeter, and the like. please put a fake pic like mine so the rest of us average women can at least have a chance at feeling normal and not eclipsed by your obvious and unnattainable and elusive beauty.
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I think it's not just the men. This place crawls with a ton of psycophants. Reality is so distorted here.
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To answer the question why, in a more serious way, all I can say is that there are lots of people in the world and some of them are weirdos and stalkers. There are lots of attractive people in the world and they don't all get stalked or creeped on the same way or with the same frequency... some get more, some get less. Same goes with the "unattractive" people. Stalking isn't necessarily about the level of attraction but a desire for power and control, similar to rape. Those of us who experience unwanted attention and/or harassment have this card dealt to us in this life and there's something we need to learn from and/or experience. We're all dealt different types of difficulties, so this is just one of them. I tend to see everything as a potential lesson and opportunity for learning. Maybe it's about how I conduct myself. Maybe it has to do with learning about power and control. Maybe it has to do with learning to empower myself and make different choices. I don't believe in coincidences really. I've had 2 situations of actual stalking in my life. One was more on the mild side and the other was one where I was saving letters for the police, just in case. I know it can be frightening to experience this. I've learned to be more cautious and careful in life, in a way... you never really know what drives people or what can trigger freaky behavior. Good to remain aware and smart.0
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It's all fun and games til they start following you IRL. -.-0
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It's nice to see at least one decent reply in this thread.To answer the question why, in a more serious way, all I can say is that there are lots of people in the world and some of them are weirdos and stalkers. There are lots of attractive people in the world and they don't all get stalked or creeped on the same way or with the same frequency... some get more, some get less. Same goes with the "unattractive" people. Stalking isn't necessarily about the level of attraction but a desire for power and control, similar to rape. Those of us who experience unwanted attention and/or harassment have this card dealt to us in this life and there's something we need to learn from and/or experience. We're all dealt different types of difficulties, so this is just one of them. I tend to see everything as a potential lesson and opportunity for learning. Maybe it's about how I conduct myself. Maybe it has to do with learning about power and control. Maybe it has to do with learning to empower myself and make different choices. I don't believe in coincidences really. I've had 2 situations of actual stalking in my life. One was more on the mild side and the other was one where I was saving letters for the police, just in case. I know it can be frightening to experience this. I've learned to be more cautious and careful in life, in a way... you never really know what drives people or what can trigger freaky behavior. Good to remain aware and smart.
80% of the replies in this thread strike me as the "Well, why are you trying to get attention, obviously it's your fault" variety. Which, uh... ew.
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It's all fun and games til they start following you IRL. -.-
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Lol, answering back is setting you up.
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It's called the Internet - this happens lol0
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You say this.. One year later?? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:IBTL0 -
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Nope. No one said legoman.0
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