romantic advice?

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  • anybeary
    anybeary Posts: 188 Member
    I also like the advice to comb my hair. Eeeee! You guys are great.
  • anybeary
    anybeary Posts: 188 Member
    To be clear, I haven't had romantic feelings for this person for ten years. We've KNOWN each other as acquaintances for that long, but we've only been close for about three years.

    I also think the person who said that just because I've told him what I think of him doesn't mean he knows that means I want to be more than friends. Friends compliment each other, right? Point well taken. I often think I've said something more meaningful than what the person actually heard.
  • sPaRkLiNgLYFE
    sPaRkLiNgLYFE Posts: 609
    if he hasn't tried to pursue something more with you then he probably only sees you as a friend or sister. men usually go after what they want.
  • ElyseL1
    ElyseL1 Posts: 504 Member
    i had to ask my husband out. men are obtuse at best. lol
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    I also like the advice to comb my hair. Eeeee! You guys are great.

    I wish you would have said this earlier. Someone reported me for doing that. I thought it was clearly an outdoor beach or someplace picture and rather funny/cute. I'm glad you took it the way I intended it OP. Good Sport! :flowerforyou:
  • 0xbalthamosx0
    0xbalthamosx0 Posts: 154 Member
    Total friendzone
  • Cadori
    Cadori Posts: 4,810 Member
    Tell him. I was in a similar situation and told him. We've been married 8 years and have two kids.
  • Brianna72994
    Brianna72994 Posts: 887
    Go up to him, say "I like you, wanna do something about it?".
    Either he'll say yes and you'll get together, or he'll say no and you'll continue a friendship.
  • foxro
    foxro Posts: 793 Member
    Maybe he's just shy and needs you to take the first steps. Not all guys are aggressive, and wait for the girl to make the move.

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