15 year age difference in dating.

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  • tabinmaine
    tabinmaine Posts: 965 Member
    Dude she wants to see you EVERY weekend.

    Sleep with her and lose her number.

    WAY too much commitment right there bud. You can do better.

    :flowerforyou:

    you are a real peach...... so typical....

    Maybe she wants to ROCK his world each weekend..... and then not have to see him week days....

    Does she sound "clingy" now, like you were implying ?
  • KodAkuraMacKyen
    KodAkuraMacKyen Posts: 737 Member
    Dude she wants to see you EVERY weekend.

    Sleep with her and lose her number.

    WAY too much commitment right there bud. You can do better.

    :flowerforyou:

    you are a real peach...... so typical....

    Maybe she wants to ROCK his world each weekend..... and then not have to see him week days....

    Does she sound "clingy" now, like you were implying ?

    I think they were being sarcastic. At least that's how I read it.
  • fstephanie4
    fstephanie4 Posts: 196 Member
    Age is just a number. What is the worse that can happen? It doesn't work out? Go for it. Don't let opportunities pass you by.

    ^^^ This!
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Mrs. Robinson. lol jk. I mean...if this is what you want? I don't think the age difference is a big deal. I don't have a good vibe from her though. I am just going to be honest with you. But, if you want to pursue her then it is your choice ultimately.

    You've met her?!
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    When I was in my early 20's I dated somebody in their late 40's.... Went really well and I loved it! Only reason we split is because he wanted more serious but I was too young to get that serious and settle down. I still enjoyed having too much fun

    h75478EEE:tongue:
  • SlimSharonSlim
    SlimSharonSlim Posts: 85 Member
    Hi, Don't even go there (it's wrong on so many levels) a couple of year's either way should be enough :) I mean a 16yr old with a 31yr old (see what I did there - could of said 15 & 30) or a 50 yr old with a 65 yr old YAK !!! - just my opinion folks - don't reply to me ok lol
  • melinda200208
    melinda200208 Posts: 525 Member
    I think it's fine if thats what you want. But, you have to think if you want kids in the future. Obviously you will not be able to have kids with her in the future.....but like you said it isn't anything serious. So, on that note, Have Fun! Go with the flow.
  • 8 years ago, I was attracted to a woman at work 16 years younger, but felt that was way too creepy, even though lots of people thought we seemed perfect for each other. On Thursday, we celebrate our 4th anniversary. You never know.
  • nhsoprano
    nhsoprano Posts: 129
    lol
  • GurleyGirl524
    GurleyGirl524 Posts: 578 Member
    There are 11 years between my husband and me. We have never really thought a lot about it and have been married for 21 years.
  • MM_1982
    MM_1982 Posts: 374
    Dude she wants to see you EVERY weekend.

    Sleep with her and lose her number.

    WAY too much commitment right there bud. You can do better.

    :flowerforyou:

    you are a real peach...... so typical....

    Maybe she wants to ROCK his world each weekend..... and then not have to see him week days....

    Does she sound "clingy" now, like you were implying ?

    This sounds pretty ideal to me. We work hard during the week and like our private down time from M-Thurs. Then go out all weekend, go to bars, events, dinners, and rock each others world every Friday and Saturday night. Perfect.

    Yeah, I'm definitely going for it. Meeting up again this weekend for date #2. I'm not going to rush anything, just going to let it happen.
  • dodihere
    dodihere Posts: 490
    Not even noting the age, but a serious weekend only relationship is the way to go. Do it.
  • Begood03
    Begood03 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I agree, go with it. And enjoy it for as long as it lasts.
  • MM_1982
    MM_1982 Posts: 374
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?
  • Hellbent_Heidi
    Hellbent_Heidi Posts: 3,669 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?
    :laugh: WOW..its hard to judge how she'll react - all depends how she feels about things not going any further with you two.

    Good luck with that. If there's "nothing to lose", then go for it, but tread carefully (and protect your genitals) if you decide to ask her about her daughter!
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    stop writing the plots of porn movies most probably ~ "I've banged the MILF and now I'm gonna bang the hot daughter!"

    I'm only jealous.
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    I'm 24 and my husband is 37 this summer, it's all good :)
  • theCarlton
    theCarlton Posts: 1,344 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?
    Why would a 22 year-old "babe" be interested in you? Nice of you to assume she wants you.
    Did you just say "out of bounce"?
  • mariapuhl
    mariapuhl Posts: 529 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    As a 22 year old, if my Mom would set me up with a guy, I would be automatically turned off.

    Second, if I found out she had been going out with him, and set me up with him, I'd think that's disgusting and be pissed at my mom and definitely wouldn't go out with the guy.

    If I started going out with a guy and found out he'd been with my mom, I'd barf, then be done with him.

    So no, bad idea.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    Just bang the daughter,
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    You are either a troll or the greatest space-waster of a man known to history.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

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  • DontStopB_Leakin
    DontStopB_Leakin Posts: 3,863 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?
    I have a feeling her daughter would object.


    Just a hunch.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    BWAHAHAHAHA! You think her personality was a dud. Oh, I'm gonna peeee....


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  • Crankstr
    Crankstr Posts: 3,958 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    This turned my stomach.
  • She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

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  • Emma_Problema
    Emma_Problema Posts: 422 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    You are either a troll or the greatest space-waster of a man known to history.

    If you aren't a troll, which I'm hoping you are, I wish this post could be tattooed on your back (it wouldn't fit on your forehead) for all the world to see. You, sir, make me want to puke. Congrats.
  • AllonsYtotheTardis
    AllonsYtotheTardis Posts: 16,947 Member
    ** UPDATE **

    Renee and I went out two more times, but I decided it wasn't going to work. Turns out she was somewhat of a dud in the personality department when I really got to know her. She wasn't smiley, lighthearted, flirty, and upbeat.. I found her to be quite a downer.

    We had a nice talk and will remain friends (Facebook friends at least).

    She has a daughter who's 22 and a certified babe. Would it be out of bounce if I asked Renee to hook me up with her daughter? Being totally serious here.. though I think that'd totally piss her off, which wouldn't be good. But what do I have to lose?

    What would the men and women of MFP do?

    I'm going to go out on a limb and say that the mother was equally impressed with you.
  • Hendrix7
    Hendrix7 Posts: 1,903 Member
    LOL in on this.

    You dun goofed now OP, prepare for some rage!
  • lizziebeth1028
    lizziebeth1028 Posts: 3,602 Member
    I was out and about 2 weekends ago and met a girl at a local bar. I knew when I approached her, that she was considerably older. She was very attractive, so I really didn't care too much. I introduced myself and worked my way into her group of friends. We ended up talking most of the night and exchanged numbers and had a nice kiss as we left the bar and went our separate ways.

    Last weekend we met up for dinner and had a fantastic time. She was funny, flirty, and great to talk to. She sent me a friend request on FB and found out that she's turning 46 in two weeks (I'm 30). I knew there was a big age difference, but it doesn't affect me as much as I think it should.

    She's basically my ideal woman. She's very high maintenance looks (stylish, tanned, in shape, big boobs, etc), but is looking for a very low maintenance relationship. She's very straightforward with me and says she wants something committed, but pretty much a "weekend relationship". We're both very busy professionals and have hectic work/workout/gym routines, so this totally works for me.

    I know I could go out and meet a 25 year old and have a traditional type of relationship. But, this traditional dating thing does appeal to me that much at this stage in my life. I have zero interest in anything very serious (marriage, kids) in my life at this point, so I think this arrangement works for me.

    What kind of experience (good or bad) does everyone have in dating someone considerably older? I'd be interested in hearing other guys experience with this type of situation.


    My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me. We've been in a happy committed relationship for almost 5 years now. It's been the best relationship of my life!