Cougar's and MILF's
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Older men for me all the way.
Younger men are typically not interesting to me and yes the hard bodies are nice but intelligence, experience and substance are aphrodisiacs for me.
ETA: The brain is an erogenous zone too you know.0 -
Older men for me all the way.
Younger men are typically not interesting to me and yes the hard bodies are nice but intelligence, experience and substance are aphrodisiacs for me.
ETA: The brain is an erogenous zone too you know.
THIS! Thank you!!0 -
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My former husband was 2 years older than me and we were married for 12 years. My fiance is 8 years younger than me. But I don't consider myself a cougar or whatever because I'm not with him due to his age. In fact, he chased me for awhile because the age difference bothered me. Until eventually I gave in because we just clicked and had so much in common it was crazy. I think it works because I don't look nor act my age and he acts older than what he is, so it balances out lol.0
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So, if you want to hook up with an older woman go for it, just don't get attached and get your heart broken.
And get all the money and gifts that you can
If a woman has to pay a young man to stick around..well..that's just pathetic! Same goes for older man/younger woman.
The most common business arrangement in human history, some people like to add a marriage title to it (not saying all marriages are like that).
Adding a marriage title to it doesn't make it less pathetic. The only reason arrangements like this happen is when the woman feels powerless to create the life she wants for HERSELF, so she compromises and sells herself to the highest bidder. Empowerd women with healthy self esteems do NOT do this. Men with strong sense of worth also do not do this. A real man wants a partner to share his life with, not just a piece of eye candy to show off so he can feel good about himself. If two consenting adults enter into and arrangement/marriage like this then so be it, but lets call it what it truly is...PROSTITUTION.
I love it you just called out a lot of stay at home moms who chose to marry a man with a good job cause he can provide for her and the kids she wants to raise. Also men with a strong sense of worth tend to be alpha males and they are the biggest offenders cause they love trophy wives as it helps showcase their so called self worth. Not sure what you are using to define a real man or what constitutes one in your mind.
Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other. Once the gap widens then the relationship becomes based on a party bring youth or wealth to the arrangement that according yo your definition is "prostitution". The exception is if they share a passion for something together and that isn't partnership that is shared preference that makes coexisting pleasant and enjoyable. Example for the latter would be a love for dogs or horses or arts.0 -
I would date someone younger than myself depending on their personality, but wouldn't want to have a giant age difference.0
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I'd say it's a thing. Most of the guys who approach me are younger. I've dated a few, but not seriously.
I don't care what other people do, but I personally feel more comfortable with guys my own age. There's something to be said for life experience, shared references, energy levels, all that.0 -
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So, if you want to hook up with an older woman go for it, just don't get attached and get your heart broken.
And get all the money and gifts that you can
If a woman has to pay a young man to stick around..well..that's just pathetic! Same goes for older man/younger woman.
The most common business arrangement in human history, some people like to add a marriage title to it (not saying all marriages are like that).
Adding a marriage title to it doesn't make it less pathetic. The only reason arrangements like this happen is when the woman feels powerless to create the life she wants for HERSELF, so she compromises and sells herself to the highest bidder. Empowerd women with healthy self esteems do NOT do this. Men with strong sense of worth also do not do this. A real man wants a partner to share his life with, not just a piece of eye candy to show off so he can feel good about himself. If two consenting adults enter into and arrangement/marriage like this then so be it, but lets call it what it truly is...PROSTITUTION.
I love it you just called out a lot of stay at home moms who chose to marry a man with a good job cause he can provide for her and the kids she wants to raise. Also men with a strong sense of worth tend to be alpha males and they are the biggest offenders cause they love trophy wives as it helps showcase their so called self worth. Not sure what you are using to define a real man or what constitutes one in your mind.
Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other. Once the gap widens then the relationship becomes based on a party bring youth or wealth to the arrangement that according yo your definition is "prostitution". The exception is if they share a passion for something together and that isn't partnership that is shared preference that makes coexisting pleasant and enjoyable. Example for the latter would be a love for dogs or horses or arts.
It's one thing to marry a man with a good job. It's quite another for his $$ to be the main factor in your attraction and desire for him. it's one thing for a man to desire a woman who is physically attractive, quite another for her physical beauty to be the main reason he wants her. That is not love. If he loses his money, she's gone. If she gets old and loses her physical beauty, he's gonna be looking for someone new. These "arrangements" are as old as time, but they ARE prostitution. A woman should establish herself first, and choose a partner based on compatibility and love. If they make the decision TOGETHER that when kids come along, she will stay home and raise the children and live on one family income, that is a decision they make as a couple. For a woman to ASSUME that it's her "right" to have a man support her is ludicrous.
Establishing herself that is well and dandy and possible in places like the US and other developed countries. Countries were you wake up and the sky is the limit and you can chase dreams. But for about 2 billion of the women of this planet that is not the case, their main objective is to survive and lead a decent life. So calling them prostitutes for playing the cards they were dealt is very harsh.
I think it's more ludicrous to equate a woman who used her beauty and youth to land a well established husband who can take care of her, to a woman sadly due to circumstance is forced to use her youth and beauty to pleasure strangers on a street corner.0 -
truth.
So, if you want to hook up with an older woman go for it, just don't get attached and get your heart broken.
And get all the money and gifts that you can
If a woman has to pay a young man to stick around..well..that's just pathetic! Same goes for older man/younger woman.
The most common business arrangement in human history, some people like to add a marriage title to it (not saying all marriages are like that).
Adding a marriage title to it doesn't make it less pathetic. The only reason arrangements like this happen is when the woman feels powerless to create the life she wants for HERSELF, so she compromises and sells herself to the highest bidder. Empowerd women with healthy self esteems do NOT do this. Men with strong sense of worth also do not do this. A real man wants a partner to share his life with, not just a piece of eye candy to show off so he can feel good about himself. If two consenting adults enter into and arrangement/marriage like this then so be it, but lets call it what it truly is...PROSTITUTION.
I love it you just called out a lot of stay at home moms who chose to marry a man with a good job cause he can provide for her and the kids she wants to raise. Also men with a strong sense of worth tend to be alpha males and they are the biggest offenders cause they love trophy wives as it helps showcase their so called self worth. Not sure what you are using to define a real man or what constitutes one in your mind.
Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other. Once the gap widens then the relationship becomes based on a party bring youth or wealth to the arrangement that according yo your definition is "prostitution". The exception is if they share a passion for something together and that isn't partnership that is shared preference that makes coexisting pleasant and enjoyable. Example for the latter would be a love for dogs or horses or arts.
It's one thing to marry a man with a good job. It's quite another for his $$ to be the main factor in your attraction and desire for him. it's one thing for a man to desire a woman who is physically attractive, quite another for her physical beauty to be the main reason he wants her. That is not love. If he loses his money, she's gone. If she gets old and loses her physical beauty, he's gonna be looking for someone new. These "arrangements" are as old as time, but they ARE prostitution. A woman should establish herself first, and choose a partner based on compatibility and love. If they make the decision TOGETHER that when kids come along, she will stay home and raise the children and live on one family income, that is a decision they make as a couple. For a woman to ASSUME that it's her "right" to have a man support her is ludicrous.
Establishing herself that is well and dandy and possible in places like the US and other developed countries. Countries were you wake up and the sky is the limit and you can chase dreams. But for about 2 billion of the women of this planet that is not the case, their main objective is to survive and lead a decent life. So calling them prostitutes for playing the cards they were dealt is very harsh.
I think it's more ludicrous to equate a woman who used her beauty and youth to land a well established husband who can take care of her, to a woman sadly due to circumstance is forced to use her youth and beauty to pleasure strangers on a street corner.
sadly, the most some women can ever hope to aspire to in life is finding a man who will be able to feed & clothe her and her children, and will treat her with respect. if the husband and wife are both aware of and agreeable to what each are bringing to the table then that is their private business and it isn't our place to judge.0 -
Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other.
I'll have to tell my husband that he's been prostituting himself for the last 15+ years, according to you self-professed relationship experts, since we are considerably more than three years apart in age.
YOU might feel like a prostitute if you marry someone that much older than yourself, but that doesn't make it the rule for ALL couples.0 -
COUGARS...MILFS....in need of alittle Hispanic heat.....come get me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:devil:0
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Did someone call?0
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Don't mind me, just here for the Cougars and MILFs.0
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Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other.
I'll have to tell my husband that he's been prostituting himself for the last 15+ years, according to you self-professed relationship experts, since we are considerably more than three years apart in age.
YOU might feel like a prostitute if you marry someone that much older than yourself, but that doesn't make it the rule for ALL couples.
Quoting what I said out of context and attributing what the other person said to me, I LOVE IT.0 -
So, if you want to hook up with an older woman go for it, just don't get attached and get your heart broken.
And get all the money and gifts that you can
If a woman has to pay a young man to stick around..well..that's just pathetic! Same goes for older man/younger woman.
The most common business arrangement in human history, some people like to add a marriage title to it (not saying all marriages are like that).
Adding a marriage title to it doesn't make it less pathetic. The only reason arrangements like this happen is when the woman feels powerless to create the life she wants for HERSELF, so she compromises and sells herself to the highest bidder. Empowerd women with healthy self esteems do NOT do this. Men with strong sense of worth also do not do this. A real man wants a partner to share his life with, not just a piece of eye candy to show off so he can feel good about himself. If two consenting adults enter into and arrangement/marriage like this then so be it, but lets call it what it truly is...PROSTITUTION.
I love it you just called out a lot of stay at home moms who chose to marry a man with a good job cause he can provide for her and the kids she wants to raise. Also men with a strong sense of worth tend to be alpha males and they are the biggest offenders cause they love trophy wives as it helps showcase their so called self worth. Not sure what you are using to define a real man or what constitutes one in your mind.
Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other. Once the gap widens then the relationship becomes based on a party bring youth or wealth to the arrangement that according yo your definition is "prostitution". The exception is if they share a passion for something together and that isn't partnership that is shared preference that makes coexisting pleasant and enjoyable. Example for the latter would be a love for dogs or horses or arts.
It's one thing to marry a man with a good job. It's quite another for his $$ to be the main factor in your attraction and desire for him. it's one thing for a man to desire a woman who is physically attractive, quite another for her physical beauty to be the main reason he wants her. That is not love. If he loses his money, she's gone. If she gets old and loses her physical beauty, he's gonna be looking for someone new. These "arrangements" are as old as time, but they ARE prostitution. A woman should establish herself first, and choose a partner based on compatibility and love. If they make the decision TOGETHER that when kids come along, she will stay home and raise the children and live on one family income, that is a decision they make as a couple. For a woman to ASSUME that it's her "right" to have a man support her is ludicrous.
What planet do you live on? Women always go for the best provider, the more the better, it is written in your DNA. After you have established yourself, are you gonna go for the guy who lives in his mom's basement because your compatible?0 -
MILF's and Cougars FTW!!!0
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When I was 23 I hooked up with lady friend who was 58.
Nothing new.0 -
i've dated a busker and turned down a millionaire.What planet do you live on? Women always go for the best provider, the more the better, it is written in your DNA. After you have established yourself, are you gonna go for the guy who lives in his mom's basement because your compatible?
i must be a man!0 -
i've dated a busker and turned down a millionaire.What planet do you live on? Women always go for the best provider, the more the better, it is written in your DNA. After you have established yourself, are you gonna go for the guy who lives in his mom's basement because your compatible?
i must be a man!
Not a man, just a fool :-P0 -
but a happy fool ;-)
i've dated a busker and turned down a millionaire.What planet do you live on? Women always go for the best provider, the more the better, it is written in your DNA. After you have established yourself, are you gonna go for the guy who lives in his mom's basement because your compatible?
i must be a man!
Not a man, just a fool :-P0 -
The misuse of apostrophes is slowly killing me. :sad:0
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I would, and I did, and married him (he's 7 years younger, so technically that doesn't qualify me as a cougar, but whatever).Would you go for a younger guy?
Women outlive men anyway, so if you get them younger, you have more time together 0 -
I've dated 13 years older than myself. It was veeerrrry fun. I don't really think that age had much to do with it though. Really it got in the way. Hard to date someone when they have a daughter old enough for you to date as well. But that's just a whole lotta nother kinky.
You're gonna hate me for saying this though.. there is the problem with aging when the older ladies don't take care of themselves and start showing their age. It can become a problem.
Recently I found a photo of the X-Girlfriend and whoa did she go downhill.0 -
what is you're problem? :-pThe misuse of apostrophes is slowly killing me. :sad:0 -
younger men? oh hells no!
i like to look. they look nice, all young & full of vitality.
but i get a buzz of attraction from someone having authority, experience, etc.
i just can't look at a guy who is closer to my kid's age and see them as a sexual possibility.
DITTO!!!! I like them having the confidence to have control over situations and take charge.0 -
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More power to those women who aspire to be cougars. But as a guy who's well past the "cub" stage, let me just offer that experience and maturity do count for something.0
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Marriage to be a partnership in the manner you described the two adults have to be within three years at most from each other.
I'll have to tell my husband that he's been prostituting himself for the last 15+ years, according to you self-professed relationship experts, since we are considerably more than three years apart in age.
YOU might feel like a prostitute if you marry someone that much older than yourself, but that doesn't make it the rule for ALL couples.
Quoting what I said out of context and attributing what the other person said to me, I LOVE IT.
I wasn't paying close attention to who'd said what. I had thought you'd said: "The most common business arrangement in human history, some people like to add a marriage title to it (not saying all marriages are like that)" earlier, and the latter part was in response to that.
I apologize for the apparent mis-attribution.0 -
The misuse of apostrophes is slowly killing me. :sad:
Your just being sensitive. You should'nt be though. Its' okay.0
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