getting a FR rejected...
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That's what i do.:ohwell:How do you know that a FR gets rejected? Do you get a notification? Or do they tell you they are rejecting you?
No, there's no way to tell whether it was rejected or just allowed to sit in their queue because they feel bad about hitting the "decline" button.
36 FR's with no message from people I never interacted with. I just let them sit there.
OMG...the OCD in me screamed bloody murder when I read that! Just the thought of them sitting there.....*shiver*
Hahaha, I had the same reaction :laugh:
you desensitize... I have about 37 pending... ones that had messages that I think are awesome, but I already have so many that I am losing people... and I don't wanna reject them... so that red 37 glares at me, and the red banner on my home page yells at me to address the problem... and I try to ignore.
It kinda makes me sad how I have to decline so many that its becoming an instinct to hit decline just out of habit0 -
FYI: Someone had to point this out to me. If you're using the app as opposed to the website, you won't see the person's profile message. Therefore, you will have never seen the note saying "FRs without messages will be declined", yadda-yadda. I verified this is true with the Android app. Since then, I'm a little more lenient with incoming FRs.
That's what i do.:ohwell:How do you know that a FR gets rejected? Do you get a notification? Or do they tell you they are rejecting you?
No, there's no way to tell whether it was rejected or just allowed to sit in their queue because they feel bad about hitting the "decline" button.
36 FR's with no message from people I never interacted with. I just let them sit there.
This is actually not true. I use the Android app.
If you tap on the request, it will take you to the message or say "no message provided."0 -
allright, that's it, this thread did not go as I intended (DID NOBODY READ MY MESSAGE IN THE POST???!!!!)
next person that FR's gets DENIED. Even if I get joffed.0 -
Just about all my FRs are rejected, so I just let people FR me because I don't reject anyone.0
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it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
Just curious, but do you see any sentences in my profile that may be reducing the number of FRs I receive?0 -
it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
Just curious, but do you see any sentences in my profile that may be reducing the number of FRs I receive?
yes, its "jofjltncb6"0 -
it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
Just curious, but do you see any sentences in my profile that may be reducing the number of FRs I receive?
NO.0 -
Ohhh ... and ya gotta keep in mind what you may have said in your FR!
For instance, if you say something like "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd like to ____ you in the ____! ... she didn't reject you hun ... she just never got it!!
Try resending it with a modified "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd love to make sweet love to you in the forest!" ... she's sure to get it and accept you then!! :flowerforyou:0 -
allright, that's it, this thread did not go as I intended (DID NOBODY READ MY MESSAGE IN THE POST???!!!!)
next person that FR's gets DENIED. Even if I get joffed.
I don't even remember what that means.0 -
After posting on this earlier that I had never had a FR denied, I must say...I'm pretty sure it just happened. I...I...don't know what to do...to the person who did not love me back, YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!
*runs out of the thread crying hysterically*:sad:0 -
it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
Just curious, but do you see any sentences in my profile that may be reducing the number of FRs I receive?
yes, its "jofjltncb6"
Hey, you managed to spell it correctly...
...so I'm assuming they can too.
Random letters and a number...it's all the rage in MFP usernames.0 -
allright, that's it, this thread did not go as I intended (DID NOBODY READ MY MESSAGE IN THE POST???!!!!)
next person that FR's gets DENIED. Even if I get joffed.
I don't even remember what that means.
From http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Joffed
"Having flirtacious behaviour with a member of the same gender before indulging into hot, steamy and passionate gay sex before one member licks the male penis for 17 minutes before claiming that they have been 'Joffed'"0 -
it may be the sentence in your profile that you are mainly on MFP for entertainment - people think you aren't serious then....
Just curious, but do you see any sentences in my profile that may be reducing the number of FRs I receive?
The fact that you don't like people is a plus in my book, lol.0 -
Ohhh ... and ya gotta keep in mind what you may have said in your FR!
For instance, if you say something like "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd like to ____ you in the ____! ... she didn't reject you hun ... she just never got it!!
Try resending it with a modified "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd love to make sweet love to you in the forest!" ... she's sure to get it and accept you then!! :flowerforyou:
If he makes sweet love in the forest...does it make a sound?0 -
The best rejections are the ones who are friends with everyone but you and you get to see them everywhere and be reminded over ... and over ... and over ... about how you just weren't good enough for them ... it's like an emotional rollercoaster around here man!!! :sad:
Srsly?!!!:laugh:0 -
Ohhh ... and ya gotta keep in mind what you may have said in your FR!
For instance, if you say something like "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd like to ____ you in the ____! ... she didn't reject you hun ... she just never got it!!
Try resending it with a modified "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd love to make sweet love to you in the forest!" ... she's sure to get it and accept you then!! :flowerforyou:
is that true? is the FR sent censored or not sent at all??0 -
allright, that's it, this thread did not go as I intended (DID NOBODY READ MY MESSAGE IN THE POST???!!!!)
next person that FR's gets DENIED. Even if I get joffed.
I don't even remember what that means.
It's what I outta do to macincali with blanks filled...0 -
Ohhh ... and ya gotta keep in mind what you may have said in your FR!
For instance, if you say something like "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd like to ____ you in the ____! ... she didn't reject you hun ... she just never got it!!
Try resending it with a modified "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd love to make sweet love to you in the forest!" ... she's sure to get it and accept you then!! :flowerforyou:
If he makes sweet love in the forest...does it make a sound?
it makes a weeping sound, i think.0 -
Ohhh ... and ya gotta keep in mind what you may have said in your FR!
For instance, if you say something like "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd like to ____ you in the ____! ... she didn't reject you hun ... she just never got it!!
Try resending it with a modified "Hi! My name is Noob! I'd love to make sweet love to you in the forest!" ... she's sure to get it and accept you then!! :flowerforyou:
If he makes sweet love in the forest...does it make a sound?
No only rough packaging of fudge0 -
LONG LIVE THE MODERATOR!I'm confused as to how accepting a FR is now considered a RULE.
I'm also confused as to how declining a FR is now being compared to cyber bullying.
A reportable offense, to be sure.
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