My boyfriends calls me fat.
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If he is cheating on you, why are you still with him?0
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Dump him and move on. You deserve better.0
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I can't dignify this question with a response because it's just too ridiculous.0
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You're all probably going to say "Leave him!" You know what, I should! I'm 99% sure I'm going to! We fight because he's made me insecure with his cheating habits and when I get jealous, I'm the "Fat *****". "Stupid *****". I'm not dealing with that anymore! Nor am I ever going to get called fat again! I'M 176 POUNDS! I'M 5'5! OKAY! I'M ****ING FAT! But I'll lose that. It's 100% possible to lose every inch of fat! But his human decency will forever BE ****!
You go girl. Today you have realized that you deserve better than that. That takes strength! I'm proud of you :flowerforyou:0 -
you should call him single.
is that better than calling him a dbag...which he is.0 -
So whats your question?0
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Leaving is a whole hell of a lot easier than waking up several years later and realizing you should've broke up with him years ago! Run away as fast as you can. Avoid the break up drama by moving out when he's not home (This requires strategic planning and help from motivated friends) , leaving a note, and changing your number! You will feel awesome to be free and single!:flowerforyou:0
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Uhmmmm.... You aren't even fat..... Lol don't let what he says have any affect on you. He is not worth your time. :-) LEAVE HIM!!!0
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You deserve much better, everyone does.0
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you should call him... a cab.TOPIC: My boyfriends calls me fatget ready for an onslaught of all my favorite break up songs.
irreplaceable--beyonce
here i go again on my own--whitesnake
i will survive--gloria gaynor
what doesn't kill me makes me stronger--kelly clarkson
I'm a survivor keep on surviving--destiny's child
never ever getting back together, like ever-- taylor swift
look up all these lyrics print some of them on your phone's text drafts to read now and then.
make a playlist of these and more songs. anyone else got more suggestions for this smart girl. her decision is made she just needs the right tools.0 -
You date asshats. Trade up.0
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Put on a pair of boots and sing the song... "These boots were made for walking!" This is a great way to lose some quick weight... Drop him like a hot potato! You'll feel so much lighter.
You need to ask yourself some important questions...
Why am I staying in this relationship?
What am I afraid of?
How would my life benefit from leaving?
I feel like we often times make decisions based on fear... fear of being alone, fear we won't meet anyone better, fear that he will move on and be happy and you'll be alone and unhappy. Just face those fears. Like others have said... treat yourself well. It is time to love yourself the way you would like to be loved by someone else.
Two other suggestions...
Take some time off from relationships and date yourself (I know sounds silly)
See a counselor and heal yourself from these men so you don't attract the same jerks
Good luck. Let us know how it goes.0 -
Kick his bum to the curb. You can lose weight but he will always be cheater.0
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Yes, leave him. What's worse: Being completely unhappy IN the relationship OR being briefly unhappy when you break up?
Even though he is an *kitten*, you may still miss him when you break up, but you will get over that! It's natural to grieve a relationship, even if it isn't the best one.
Leave him, and focus on yourself! You deserve so much better!0 -
my ex husband treated me that way also and I kicked him to the curb. you are the same weight as me. your not fat by any means
feel free to add me0 -
instead of wasting your time posting on this forum, you should be taking all of his stuff and putting it on the front lawn.. and hope it starts to rain
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You're all probably going to say "Leave him!" You know what, I should! I'm 99% sure I'm going to! We fight because he's made me insecure with his cheating habits and when I get jealous, I'm the "Fat *****". "Stupid *****". I'm not dealing with that anymore! Nor am I ever going to get called fat again! I'M 176 POUNDS! I'M 5'5! OKAY! I'M ****ING FAT! But I'll lose that. It's 100% possible to lose every inch of fat! But his human decency will forever BE ****!
yeah... so... you're with him why?0 -
You don't want to be treated like crap and get a disease right? Just leave. Tons of lovely men in this world.0
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Sounds like a keeper!0
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Please work on your self esteem and self worth!! Being alone is 10,000x's better than being with someone who doesn't value you, cheats on you and who you allow to break you down. The way I see this, it's not your boyfriend's fault: it's YOUR fault for staying with him. You are allowing him to treat you in this way when he's shown you over and over again what is true colors are but yet you haven't got the courage to leave him, or something inside of you likes being treated poorly and taken for granted.
Understand that you deserve better and it's not up to him to change anything, and he probably won't and doesn't have to. But it IS up to you to change the situation and leave his sorry *kitten* because you're worth more than that.0 -
I'm convinced anyone who calls their SO bad names doesn't really love them. My boyfriend has never said anything nasty to me and I could never fathom calling him anything mean. We have disagreements and we talk about it, but there is never any reason to hurl hurtful words at someone if you love them.
This was a fav song of mine, doesn't pertain to your situation really...but..fun video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_0ulNpvrRU 0 -
When I read the title all I could say was 'your boyfriend is a ****' but I'm glad that you're sure you're going to get rid of him because you sure as hell deserve better than that! 0
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Get as far away from him as possible.0
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It's your call not mine.
Though if he's treating you bad then leave.
How do you know he's not being honest or looking out for your well being?
People can mistake criticism for honesty.
Just saying.0 -
instead of wasting your time posting on this forum, you should be taking all of his stuff and putting it on the front lawn.. and hope it starts to rain
or cut his clothes in little pieces and throw them on the lawn. or pour bleach on them first. just sayin'.
Disclaimer: i swear I have no personal relationship with lisa left eye. swear. super swear.0 -
Don't leave this man.....PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE !!!!! (then you can remove yourself) :flowerforyou: :laugh:0
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Ive always told my fiance that if he cheated, i wouldnt leave-but id slowly poison him and probably end up getting him fired and alienated from his family so he would die sick, broke, and alone.
happy to report he is in perfect health and not cheating.0 -
Woah. Only one boyfriend called me a *****, and it was AFTER I dumped his lame *kitten*. It doesn't sound like either of you cared enough about each other (in your case rightfully so). Why cause more pain? Move on, spread love.0
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I forgot, thanks for reminding me women are SOOOO PERFECT. (This comment isn't to the OP).
in my fiances defence-if i ever cheat, he is allowed to poison me slowly too.0
get ready for an onslaught of all my favorite break up songs.
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