My boyfriends calls me fat.
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99% sure you're going to leave him? Make it 100%. Look at it this way, the longer he's with you the worse he'll treat you. As long as you're w/him, you have about a 0% chance of finding anyone better. Tell him it's over & you never want to have anything to do w/him ever again. But when you break it off, make it permanent...don't answer his texts/emails/phone calls, don't send him texts/emails/phone calls, if he shows up at the door don't open it or talk to him, and if he shows up in person somewhere else then ignore him & leave if he gets rude. Living well is the best revenge. Get healthy & happy for YOU, and learn to be happy without a significant other, before looking for a new bf.0
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If he doesn't respect you, and keeps you down, dump his *kitten* immediately.0
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I can tell you from experience that no matter how many people tell you to dump him and that he doesn't deserve you, you have to realize that for yourself before you'll do it. That being said, no girl deserves to be treated like that. He needs you to be vulnerable and feel like nobody else will want you, that way you won't leave and he'll always have someone to take care of his needs. Trust me, you deserve better. And it would be better to be alone for a while than it is to be with someone like that.
My ex was an alcoholic and told me I was fat and I was lucky to be with him. Looking back I now realize HE was the lucky one. I was with him for 2 years and I should have broke up with him the first week. It took 8 years of being single, but I found my "prince charming". He treats me like I deserve (better than I deserve some days!).
You deserve to be told you're beautiful and perfect the way you are. He'll support you if you want to get healthy but won't tell you that you need to. You deserve to be happy.0 -
You're all probably going to say "Leave him!" You know what, I should! I'm 99% sure I'm going to! We fight because he's made me insecure with his cheating habits and when I get jealous, I'm the "Fat *****". "Stupid *****". I'm not dealing with that anymore! Nor am I ever going to get called fat again! I'M 176 POUNDS! I'M 5'5! OKAY! I'M ****ING FAT! But I'll lose that. It's 100% possible to lose every inch of fat! But his human decency will forever BE ****!
This sounds like an abusive relationship! Leave him now before I have to go Shoot him for you!
Looks like you have your "Inspiration" to help you get slim....
See him in a year and tell him to KISS IT! :flowerforyou:0 -
Her vagina is broken?is it just me thinking why does he feel the need to cheat in the first place?
I would too in that case
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Yawnnnn
I should try this tactic when making my next topic. Since you all get baited so damn easy0 -
IM GOING TO LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET ABOUT GUYS... HE DOES THAT **** BECAUSE HE IS INSECURE... LEAVE HIS *kitten* I BET MY BOTTOM DOLLAR HE COMES BACK WITH A MILLION SORRYS...AND JUDGEING BY YOUR PROFILE PIC, YOUR NO WHERE NEAR FAT... HES A *kitten*... YOUR BEAUTIFUL0
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He cheats on you, but you're angrier that he calls you fat?0
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You should totally marry this guy.
I see what you did there.0 -
He does this **** because she LETS HIM. Lets see, if this is true he has already cheated on her and he calls her a fat ****? The problem is with her inability to leave someone who is mentally abusing her. Telling her to leave him isn't going to do ****, she is to ****ed in her own head. She hasn't left him by now she probably enjoys this treatment. Or she would be doing something about it, other then baiting people to tell her what is common sense.IM GOING TO LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET ABOUT GUYS... HE DOES THAT **** BECAUSE HE IS INSECURE... LEAVE HIS *kitten* I BET MY BOTTOM DOLLAR HE COMES BACK WITH A MILLION SORRYS...AND JUDGEING BY YOUR PROFILE PIC, YOUR NO WHERE NEAR FAT... HES A *kitten*... YOUR BEAUTIFUL
Oh he has cheated on you and is verbally abusive? Tell us again how you have to come to a calorie counter website to get advice on relationships?0 -
You're all probably going to say "Leave him!" You know what, I should! I'm 99% sure I'm going to! We fight because he's made me insecure with his cheating habits and when I get jealous, I'm the "Fat *****". "Stupid *****". I'm not dealing with that anymore! Nor am I ever going to get called fat again! I'M 176 POUNDS! I'M 5'5! OKAY! I'M ****ING FAT! But I'll lose that. It's 100% possible to lose every inch of fat! But his human decency will forever BE ****!
Girl, please do yourself the biggest favor and DUMP HIM!!! Then work hard on losing the weight you want to lose to feel healthier FOR YOURSELF! And then in a year when you look all hot and he comes crawling back...don't even give that jerk a SECOND of your time! The best revenge is just to live a healthy, happy life!0 -
leave him, obviously0
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He does this **** because she LETS HIM. Lets see, if this is true he has already cheated on her and he calls her a fat ****? The problem is with her inability to leave someone who is mentally abusing her. Telling her to leave him isn't going to do ****, she is to ****ed in her own head. She hasn't left him by now she probably enjoys this treatment. Or she would be doing something about it, other then baiting people to tell her what is common sense.IM GOING TO LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET ABOUT GUYS... HE DOES THAT **** BECAUSE HE IS INSECURE... LEAVE HIS *kitten* I BET MY BOTTOM DOLLAR HE COMES BACK WITH A MILLION SORRYS...AND JUDGEING BY YOUR PROFILE PIC, YOUR NO WHERE NEAR FAT... HES A *kitten*... YOUR BEAUTIFUL
Oh he has cheated on you and is verbally abusive? Tell us again how you have to come to a calorie counter website to get advice on relationships?
People in abusive relationships don't stay because they like the abuse. They often don't think they deserve any better, amongst other reasons, but never because they enjoy the abuse.0 -
You're not aloneIs anyone else finding it odd that this is in the "Introduce yourself" section?0 -
Lose him!0
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Ive always told my fiance that if he cheated, i wouldnt leave-but id slowly poison him and probably end up getting him fired and alienated from his family so he would die sick, broke, and alone.
happy to report he is in perfect health and not cheating.
Wow that is a bit over the top isn't it? Have you been cheated on before? I just can't understand anyone saying stuff like that. You are perfect I suppose and don't mind if someone does similar stuff to you if you f up? If I was him I would have run long ago incase you imagined he did what you said.
bahaha-no! Its a running thing with us.
he couldnt poison me-i do all the cooking and bring his plate to him
We've been together since we were both 15-there are absolutely no worries with us
but in all serious op, now is a good time to throw his stuff into the yard.
We have also been together since we are 15 too and now are 47 and I never told him I would poison him. Might have thought of it for a second lol.
This reminded me of this quote...
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Whether or not you lose the weight, he's always gonna cheat. Once a cheater, always a cheater, no matter what he says. Lose him. Period.0
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First of all, you're not fat. You're posts title says "My BOYFRIENDS call me fat". Sounds like you should not only dump this controlling loser, but rethink the type of guys you are going out with and demand some respect.
You sound sch a nice person why can't all men be like u I know how this girl feels. Xx0 -
He cheats on you, but you're angrier that he calls you fat?
This.0 -
Good gravy. I assume he has a perfect body? Maybe he needs a big fat foot in *kitten*. Insults do not motivate. You deserve better!0
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If that's you in your avatar pic, you're not fat. Do leave him honey. You deserve SO MUCH better.0
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Simple solution: dump his *kitten* and come play with me, you look yum in your profile pic0
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My good friend has dated nothing but verbally abusive *kitten* for like 10 years now. When she gets a nice normal guy she says they are boring. I told her one day that I think she loves the chaos and she agreed.
He does this **** because she LETS HIM. Lets see, if this is true he has already cheated on her and he calls her a fat ****? The problem is with her inability to leave someone who is mentally abusing her. Telling her to leave him isn't going to do ****, she is to ****ed in her own head. She hasn't left him by now she probably enjoys this treatment. Or she would be doing something about it, other then baiting people to tell her what is common sense.IM GOING TO LET YOU IN ON A LITTLE SECRET ABOUT GUYS... HE DOES THAT **** BECAUSE HE IS INSECURE... LEAVE HIS *kitten* I BET MY BOTTOM DOLLAR HE COMES BACK WITH A MILLION SORRYS...AND JUDGEING BY YOUR PROFILE PIC, YOUR NO WHERE NEAR FAT... HES A *kitten*... YOUR BEAUTIFUL
Oh he has cheated on you and is verbally abusive? Tell us again how you have to come to a calorie counter website to get advice on relationships?
People in abusive relationships don't stay because they like the abuse. They often don't think they deserve any better, amongst other reasons, but never because they enjoy the abuse.
Her boyfriedn isn't hitting her he is talking crap to her, and more then likely she is giving it right back to him. Its probably not healthy for either of them.. Also he has already cheated on her....so she sorta should of left him already because of that.0 -
Haha!Ive always told my fiance that if he cheated, i wouldnt leave-but id slowly poison him and probably end up getting him fired and alienated from his family so he would die sick, broke, and alone.
happy to report he is in perfect health and not cheating.
Wow that is a bit over the top isn't it? Have you been cheated on before? I just can't understand anyone saying stuff like that. You are perfect I suppose and don't mind if someone does similar stuff to you if you f up? If I was him I would have run long ago incase you imagined he did what you said.
bahaha-no! Its a running thing with us.
he couldnt poison me-i do all the cooking and bring his plate to him
We've been together since we were both 15-there are absolutely no worries with us
but in all serious op, now is a good time to throw his stuff into the yard.
We have also been together since we are 15 too and now are 47 and I never told him I would poison him. Might have thought of it for a second lol.
This reminded me of this quote...0 -
Then call him your ex- boyfriend0
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Sounds like your biggest problem is the giant *kitten* who calls you fat all the time.
Getting rid of him will jump start your loss.
Good luck, now go find yourself.0 -
You can lose over 100 lbs. in one day just by ditching that douche. Trust me, you will feel a lot lighter afterwards.0
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And you're absolutely right. Leave the SOB!!!0
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respect yourself - leave0
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