Need a male opinion
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Well... I'm not a male... but I'll answer anyway.
1st one = cute, girly, flirty.
2nd one = sexy, vavoom!
My answer: 2nd one.0 -
2nd0
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I almost through my phone away for you
Id go with the first. Though I am old fashioned and more attracted to "beautiful" then "hot" if that makes any sense. 0 -
it has to be the second dress but if your going out for the night then the phone is switched off as its just 2 of you ant they do say 3 is a crowed lol have a good night0
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So, you don't want to have to tell him, you want him to just do it automatically, right? This is why men and women don't understand each other. Lol. Just tell him, and he'll leave it at home or something. If you don't say anything, it's just a night out. He's going to pull out the phone. Then, youll be upset or disappointed. He wont know whats wrong and youll be seething because he cant figure it out. Lol. Trust me. Tell him.
Oh, and I like #2.
I'm a girl, but yes this guy is right. Talk to him about it. Wear number 2 and if his phone rings, take it and "hide" it in your dress and tell him this is what he's suppose to be looking at.
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Girl here- but if it was my hubs he'd say #2.. from this angle #2 makes you look like you've got a bit more up top- and that'd always be the winner for him.
Oh and I like #2 better too!
Either way those shoes are sexy enough for anything. .. But I don't know if men think that way.. :laugh:0 -
Looks like someone's fishing 4 attention from the public that she's not getting @ home . . .0
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Ummmmmm not male but put on some nice underwear and a pair of heels, put the first dress on go and stand in front of him and say "honey which one do you prefer, this one..." (point to dress) "or this one?" then strip off in front of him and put the second one on!!! That should do the trick but repeat if necessary!!!!0
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Four pages of answers and not one obvious and most truthful answer. If you truly want your husbands attention on you and not the stupid phone, don't wear either dress. The no-dress approach is a 100% guarantee eye on you choice!
On that note, I hate cellphones. Having one makes people think I am available 24/7. When I choose to not use the stupid thing people go crazy wondering what happened to me and try even harder to get in touch with me! I also hate the fact that I can do so much with my phone that I have to fight the feeling that I should be "working" all the time.
Could not agree more on the cellphone.....one of the worst inventions ever!0 -
So, you don't want to have to tell him, you want him to just do it automatically, right? This is why men and women don't understand each other. Lol. Just tell him, and he'll leave it at home or something. If you don't say anything, it's just a night out. He's going to pull out the phone. Then, youll be upset or disappointed. He wont know whats wrong and youll be seething because he cant figure it out. Lol. Trust me. Tell him.
Oh, and I like #2.
Have to say I agree here. I would much rather have a lady share with me the way she would like the mood of the evening to be than try to guess or worse, place only my own slant on the evening.
Both dresses look amazing, kudos to you and all the hard work you did to get there!! That being said I like #1, I think it would be incredible if you, after sharing your feelings for the mood for the evening, shared with him the accessibility part of it
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Not a man but Definitely Dress 2!
Have fun!!!0 -
are you standing in the bathtub? lol0
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Depends on where you are going, somewhere relaxing - 1st dress, somewhere a little more up class - 2nd dress.
Either one you look stunning in though.0 -
Is this a serious question on a diet/fitness site right now? Whenever other women write posts like these people are generally very quick to point out the attention-seeking behavior. Of course she looks great, but come on guys!
It's called fun, PeggySue.
No harm, no foul....0 -
btw, not to single anyone out for attention but earlier in this thread there was a very lovely looking 72 year old lady who responded positively. I thought that was incredibly awesome!0
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POINT MADE! HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD! 6 KIDS AND A LACK OF ATTENTION! BOY, SOMETHING GONE WRONG???
Looks like someone's fishing 4 attention from the public that she's not getting @ home . . .0 -
WELL, WRITTEN! I thoroughly enjoyed the read!!!
So the hubby and I are going out this weekend without the babies for the first time in a year. I would very much like him to leave his cell phone in his pocket. Now I know some of you are going to say "Well then just ask him to stay off of his cell phone". I am female though and what I really want is not just for him to put the cell phone away, I want him to want to look at me instead of his cell phone. With that in mind: Which of these dresses should I wear? Tight and cleavage showing or kinda flowing at the bottom to tempt him with easier access?
After reading your post and the comments that followed I was interested in your story so I went to your page and followed your link to the Huffington post article. I can sympathize with being the "ugly one" among syblings, but rest assured you were never ugly. Still we carried those little hurts around with us like little scarlet letters forever. I'm getting close to my goal weight now too and little things like being cold (I live in Georgia) and not having the seatbelt cut into you are those little unexpected side effects of being thinner.
You describe your husband as "wonderful" and I sure he is. He obviously loved you at your original weight and I'm sure he still loves you now. You spent a lot of time recently focused on yourself and on your children, but now is the time to refocus on your relationship. He may have felt left out of the process you went through (that's how my girlfriend feels sometimes), or perhaps he doesn't fully understand why you felt you needed to make this change. If he feels disconnected from you a little then he may use his phone as a way to distract himself from that fact when the two of you are alone. Heck, It's been a year so may he's just out of practice!
As far as the dress goes, it doesn't matter which one you wear because he'll think you are beautiful in either one. All you have to do is remind him that you're still the same woman he fell in love with. That eye contact you talk about wanting? Make sure you get it from him and when he does just smile. It will all come back to him. Don't force him to give up his phone, make him want to.
Have fun!
Thanks!0 -
sorry i was looking at my phone.
hehe...anyway, #2.0 -
Both dresses look amazing. A dinner privately exchange the phone in his pocket with your panties. My wife did this on our 5th year aniversary torchuring me until the check finally came and we got to the car.0
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So, where is the update from the OP? Which dress did she wear? Did she communicate to him her wishes regarding the phone either directly or indirectly and how did that go? Inquiring minds and all.....0
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second one for sure0
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I just wanted to chime in and say we need more of these threads!0
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I have a uterus, but want to answer anyhow. I like #2. And if he takes out the phone, gently grab it from him and put it in your purse without another word...
No, don't put it in your purse. Put it in your cleavage and tell him he can get it later. I like the second one. Shows your curves more. Good luck and have fun!0 -
2nd Dress0
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Well someone asked for an update. Last night went very well and I am happy to report the only time the phone came out of his pocket was when we got a little lost and needed a bit of gps assistance. I went with dress 2 and he loved it I didn't talk to him about it ahead of time but he either remembered past conversations or it is possible my friend Tara who is his best friend delivered the message. Either way it went very well and I am thankful to all of you for the advise and opinions! 0
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*applause*0
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I like the second one and I think it is great you have lost 100 pounds!!
that's a lot of weight to shed!0 -
yep, i can see why its number 2, i d wear that myself !!0
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Yes! I picked second dress too and happy for that but we still need more info about the rest of the night ro should we just guess?0
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I'm sure the next date will be even better!0
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