You dont get a second date.....

StrongAndHealthyMommy
StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
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what a person has to do to don't get a second date with you????

to me.... If the person is a smoker I wont date him again... (and of course... If I know before we date that he smokes, he wont even get a first date with me)
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  • Textmessage
    Textmessage Posts: 387 Member
    If they turn out to be a man. I hate when people hide important details.
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
    If they turn out to be a man. I hate when people hide important details.

    you sound like it already happened to you
  • Textmessage
    Textmessage Posts: 387 Member
    If they turn out to be a man. I hate when people hide important details.

    you sound like it already happened to you

    That's none of your business.... >_>
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    If she can't handle her firearms
  • VeganSurfer
    VeganSurfer Posts: 383 Member
    If they are racist, homophobic or if they eat meat. Luckily for me, my fiancé isn't any of the aforementioned :love:
  • Cait_Sidhe
    Cait_Sidhe Posts: 3,150 Member
    Be a jerk and/or hate animals of any sort.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    She has to have a penis bigger than mine...
  • ashlinmarie
    ashlinmarie Posts: 1,263 Member
    If they tell me they respect Tom Brady as a quarterback or if they idolize any rapists or dog killers....
  • BadKnee150
    BadKnee150 Posts: 19
    If you lie about having kids. I did lots of online dating, lots of guys would say "no kids" on there profile & in person would say that they didn't want people to not go out on a date with them because they had kids. I felt sorry for the kid who's parent was willing to date someone who didn't want them to have kids. Don't care if you have a kid, but be proud of it & date someone who is okay with it, not someone who was "trapped")
  • Claire_x90
    Claire_x90 Posts: 94
    have direction and plans for the future.
    I don't mean a 5 year plan or something but I'm sick of 'cruisy' guys. Know what you want and go after it!
  • sgtdub555
    sgtdub555 Posts: 692
    If you are a vegan no second date. We did not climb to the top of the food chain to eat the bottom. Just kidding sort of.

    If you are rude or have that "you are better then everyone else" attitude.
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    no sense of humor, takes life too seriously, mean-natured.
  • LittleMissDover
    LittleMissDover Posts: 820 Member
    If you don't put out....
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    if you smell funny.
  • PaleoChocolateBear
    PaleoChocolateBear Posts: 2,844 Member
    If you're a card carrying member of the kkk.

    Wish some ppl would put that in dating profiles.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,227 Member
    If he chews with his mouth open, is racist, homophobic, overly political, or is rude to any of the staff where we have our first date.
  • Sumo813
    Sumo813 Posts: 566 Member
    If they spell 'ridiculous' with an 'e' in it... yeah... that would pretty much seal their fate.
  • Sumo813
    Sumo813 Posts: 566 Member
    If you are rude or have that "you are better then everyone else" attitude.

    This.

    Be humble. Don't be a snob.
  • AmyMgetsfit
    AmyMgetsfit Posts: 636 Member
    spit...it makes me gag.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    If they discuss their opinions on things.

    If they tell me how something makes them feel.
  • askeates
    askeates Posts: 1,490 Member
    being mean, rude, aggressive and possessive on the first date... come on now! It's one thing to be a tough guy, but acting like that is just not attractive at all!
  • BeachGingerOnTheRocks
    BeachGingerOnTheRocks Posts: 3,927 Member
    If they discuss their opinions on things.

    If they tell me how something makes them feel.

    You kid, but I'm pretty serious on these.

    No talk of - politics, psychological stuff, childhood abuse, saving the world from hunger, what our kids would look like, marriage, angry exes, why SUV drivers are killing the planet, bioavailability of the nutrients in rice......

    The list is pretty long. Unless he's really, really hot. Then he should just smile and not talk at all.

    First dates are for having fun, doing something interesting, and not unloading the cargo van of baggage we all carry. Save all that for the third date.
  • irishblonde2011
    irishblonde2011 Posts: 618 Member
    Being rude to other people..if we are at dinner and he is rude to the staff. Bye bye.
    Manners cost nothing.
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    It's been so long since I've had a first date...and the only date I really remember sucking was the only date I ever had with a person I met online. He was super fun to talk to online and he was even a radio DJ that was a great talker (and one of the rare cute ones), but in person...snoozefest. They've got to just be themselves flaws and all, I much prefer this to any fakeness whether online or in person.

    Random sidenote, I am so glad I don't have to date anymore!
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    1. Not offering to pay. I will split it but if he doesn't make a move for his wallet at all and expects me to cover the whole thing, I'm out, I'm not your mommy.

    2. Being rude or not tipping any waitstaff.

    3. Saying they want to have kids. I can't any more, and don't want to, so if you are looking for someone to sire you an heir, look elsewhere and don't let me get too attached before I find out.

    These things, and probably more too, will make me delete your number.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    It's been so long since I've had a first date...and the only date I really remember sucking was the only date I ever had with a person I met online. He was super fun to talk to online and he was even a radio DJ that was a great talker (and one of the rare cute ones), but in person...snoozefest. They've got to just be themselves flaws and all, I much prefer this to any fakeness whether online or in person.

    Random sidenote, I am so glad I don't have to date anymore!

    You and Hubby should still date. Especially as G grows older. It gets too easy to get caught up in the kids and drift apart i fyou don't maintain that date night with the spouse.
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    Someone who is trying too hard. Worst date I was ever on was with a woman who was totally trying to impress me, and she just wasn't being relaxed or herself.

    ALso, negativity. I am on a date to get to know you, and what you like to do, not to hear about how everything sucks, and how downtrodden you are.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    If they're jerks to the waitstaff. Screw that.
  • jeffryjirraf
    jeffryjirraf Posts: 179 Member
    If they are difficult to talk to, it is really off putting
  • Penny_Lane_
    Penny_Lane_ Posts: 163
    I don't know. I haven't had any bad first dates yet. I'll be back...

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