What should I do with my boyfriend for his birthday?

JessicaPasieka
JessicaPasieka Posts: 149 Member
Alright. So my boyfriends' birthday is coming up on May 11, and I'd really like to give him a great day. I've already planned a very romantic and quiet/intimate dinner for us at a really fancy restaurant. And I've booked a room in a highrise hotel for us, with strawberries, champagne, candles etc. The whole works, for the evening. I'd like to do something for him in the day time, though. I want to do something different like a helicopter ride of our city or a hot air balloon ride. Unfortunately, those are Incredibly expensive and I'm already spending about $600 on the room and dinner. Any unique suggestions?
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  • SirZee
    SirZee Posts: 381
    LOL. This is a joke, right?
  • cjburke12
    cjburke12 Posts: 45 Member
    Be careful asking that question!lol
  • scribega
    scribega Posts: 159 Member
    Sounds great so far. For the earlier part of the day just do something simple (walk in the park, picnic lunch). Sometimes guys just like simple. Think about what he likes to do and go from there.
  • NutellaAddict
    NutellaAddict Posts: 1,258 Member
    Two words. apple pie
  • traceytwink
    traceytwink Posts: 538 Member
    Hahahahahaha really you need to ask, may be you need to go look at a few websites for inspiration ????
  • Does it have to be fancy? Maybe just take him out to lunch and for a couple of drinks. Find something the two of you can do together? Heck, take him to the zoo or something. It's cheap and you can spend time together.



    Or maybe something a little more intimate, as everyone else is suggesting that.. Makes my zoo idea look pretty lame :huh:
  • matt2442
    matt2442 Posts: 1,259 Member
    I agree with her^ go to the zoo
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    I have a different idea, it does not cost any money, and I think he'll appreciate it more too.
  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member
    The hotel with champagne, strawberries, candles etc are more girl oriented.. but since you got it I guess enjoy.. but the night sounds good.. dinner, place to go, maybe a decent gift he wants.. thats about it... nothing crazy... helicopter ride or air balloon thats all things he should be doing for you as those are more female birthday things to do.
  • danasings
    danasings Posts: 8,218 Member
    You have a video camera on your phone, right?
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    Wait, is your boyfriend a woman? Because it sure sounds like you're trying to seduce a woman
  • IronMikeFox
    IronMikeFox Posts: 458
    You have a video camera on your phone, right?

    I likes the way you think! Could I get you to call my wife and plant that thought in her head?!?!?
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Wait, is your boyfriend a woman? Because it sure sounds like you're trying to seduce a woman

    Lol that was my thought, as well.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
    Intimate dinner, Ok, and expensive room mm-hmmm, and strawberries Check.

    Ok, now that you've got everything you want....what are you planning on doing for him?
  • libbybond
    libbybond Posts: 36
    watch the military channel -
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    Take him to lunch. Wear a skirt with no panties under it. Makes sure he knows this.
  • SaBh93
    SaBh93 Posts: 114 Member
    zoo if the weather permits, or museum. Have fun exploring- it's really a lot of fun!
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  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
    I'm sorry you already spent the money. Next year here is a suggestion.

    X-box/Playstation
    6-pack
    you get on your knees in front of him without his pants on wile he plays COD or tomb raider. Make sure he has a headset on for live play.

    Your welcome.
  • _Timmeh_
    _Timmeh_ Posts: 2,096 Member
    In the words of Jeff Foxworthy " I'd like a beer and I'd like to see something naked "
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    Alright. So my boyfriends' birthday is coming up on May 11, and I'd really like to give him a great day. I've already planned a very romantic and quiet/intimate dinner for us at a really fancy restaurant. And I've booked a room in a highrise hotel for us, with strawberries, champagne, candles etc. The whole works, for the evening. I'd like to do something for him in the day time, though. I want to do something different like a helicopter ride of our city or a hot air balloon ride. Unfortunately, those are Incredibly expensive and I'm already spending about $600 on the room and dinner. Any unique suggestions?

    so now that you have planned what YOU want for his birthday you are asking us what you should do for what HE wants?

    maybe ask him that....

    but good job on planning your part! :flowerforyou:
  • Ivian_
    Ivian_ Posts: 276 Member
    Ohhhhh I know this one!


    Nudity. And lots of the o-face!
  • EatClean_WashUrNuts
    EatClean_WashUrNuts Posts: 1,590 Member
    I dont know...roleplay...cumdumpster, sounds like fun
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    Take him to lunch. Wear a skirt with no panties under it. Makes sure he knows this.

    No bra would be a nice touch too....
  • scrapmonkey
    scrapmonkey Posts: 104 Member
    I think it really depends on the man - some men are romantics and would appreciate the gestures you have already described. Others are not terribly so, and would rather be left with their guy friends to play paint ball or go to a strip club. Think about what YOUR boyfriend really likes doing most that he doesn't get time to do.
    One of the favorite gifts I got my husband one year for his birthday was a massage and pedicure. Why? Because he was working ridiculous hours at the time and was finally able to relax and get away from everything, and because he had (and still has) horrible feet because of his cerebral palsy. His boss actually called while he was getting the massage and I answered it and told the boss he was unavailable - that was the cherry on top for him. My husband also appreciated when I gave him flying lessons (he always wanted to learn how to fly), even though he could never use them. Just look to what his true wishes and dreams are and you can't go wrong. It doesn't have to be expensive - maybe you could be the one to give the massage, or it just might be something that he just wants to go out and do that he would like you to join him on that you never had before...
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I think he might definitely put out if you do all that.

    Just make sure there's some scented candles and a trail of rose buds leading to a nice warm bath for him to get into after dinner.
  • azzkikin
    azzkikin Posts: 458 Member
    manaja twa and have him watch, you'll know right there and then if it's love of not. If not you might be able to get your money back on the room for that night. Good Luck :smokin:
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    u sound so selfish, the hotel, dinner and strawberries are obviously for u. Just give him a hummer while he watches ESPN and he will be cool.
  • Alex_is_Hawks
    Alex_is_Hawks Posts: 3,499 Member
    menage a trois and have him watch, you'll know right there and then if it's love of not. If not you might be able to get your money back on the room for that night. Good Luck :smokin:


    fixed it for you!
  • azzkikin
    azzkikin Posts: 458 Member
    menage a trois and have him watch, you'll know right there and then if it's love of not. If not you might be able to get your money back on the room for that night. Good Luck :smokin:


    fixed it for you!

    Thanks. I knew someone would