Are you a food nazi?

Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

"Egg white omelette" -- good
"Muffin" -- bad
"Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
"Side of fruit" -- good

Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".
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  • hdlb
    hdlb Posts: 333 Member
    Nope. If its not going in my mouth, or my kids mouth, then I don't care. I don't even worry about my husbands choices, hse a big boy, he can order what he wants.
  • Acg67
    Acg67 Posts: 12,142 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".

    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly
  • BigBrunette
    BigBrunette Posts: 1,543 Member
    Nope. I can barely calculate my own calories, let alone someone else's.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".

    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    No, I should clarify that I am also taking into account nutritional content.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Why is a muffin bad?

    Food isn't inherently good or evil...just because it may be calorie dense doesn't make it "bad"...or just because it has fat doesn't make it "bad." Fat is in fact a very important macro nutrient. Achieving your calorie goals = good; achieving your macro goals = good. Going over calorie goals = bad; not meeting macro goals = bad.

    Also, whole egg omelette = good; egg white omelette = FTW
  • stumblinthrulife
    stumblinthrulife Posts: 2,558 Member
    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    ^This. And making a judgement on someone else's choices when you have no clue of their circumstances and calorific (never mind nutritional) needs.
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
    Nope. If its not going in my mouth, or my kids mouth, then I don't care. I don't even worry about my husbands choices, hse a big boy, he can order what he wants.

    Exactly!!!
  • i seem to be watching other overweight people eating the wrong things, and think "hmm you really dont need that" and i know that's wrong but it just pops into my head.
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    Don't hate.
    easy-blueberry-muffins_large_zps5fd6ed1f.jpg
  • Acg67
    Acg67 Posts: 12,142 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".

    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    No, I should clarify that I am also taking into account nutritional content.

    Then why is an egg white omelet good, when the whites alone have less nutrition than a whole egg?
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Why is a muffin bad?

    Food isn't inherently good or evil...just because it may be calorie dense doesn't make it "bad"...or just because it has fat doesn't make it "bad." Fat is in fact a very important macro nutrient. Achieving your calorie goals = good; achieving your macro goals = good. Going over calorie goals = bad; not meeting macro goals = bad.

    I understand the importance of macro nutrients.
    I would rather get the necessary nutrients from something that is less "calorie dense" than say, a muffin.
    Apparently I was making the presumption (which could not be proven or disproven since I didn't speak with the woman), that some people may think full-size muffins are a low- calorie, healthy choice which they are not.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie)


    Sorry, I didn't get past this part. WHY NO PIE?
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    ^This. And making a judgement on someone else's choices when you have no clue what their circumstances and calorific (never mind nutritional) needs.

    Yup. How do you know it isn't their one treat meal for the week? You're being judgmental about things that aren't even your business.
  • JeneticTraining
    JeneticTraining Posts: 663 Member
    Nope nope! I just enjoy my food hehe
  • Iron_Duchess
    Iron_Duchess Posts: 429 Member
    No. Who am I to criticize other people's choice? I don't know every little thing that happens in their daily life, and maybe that muffin was the best choice they had at that particular time. Darn, I want a carrot or zucchini muffin now with a large latte... :tongue:
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".

    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    No, I should clarify that I am also taking into account nutritional content.

    Then why is an egg white omelet good, when the whites alone have less nutrition than a whole egg?

    It's higher not only in calories but also in cholesterol and she didn't have your lean muscle mass to work it off.
    You can eat a much different diet than an older woman.
    But true, I don't know her HDL/LDL ratio.
  • _DaniD_
    _DaniD_ Posts: 2,186 Member
    Did anyone else read this post in the voice of the green m&m?
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    Did anyone else read this post in the voice of the green m&m?

    thank god!! i thought i was the only one.
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    ^This. And making a judgement on someone else's choices when you have no clue what their circumstances and calorific (never mind nutritional) needs.

    Yup. How do you know it isn't their one treat meal for the week? You're being judgmental about things that aren't even your business.

    My intent was not to judge.
    I was only thinking that I would not be comfortable eating that for myself.
    I guess my thread title was mis-leading.
    Sheesh, people put the big guns away...
  • dressagester
    dressagester Posts: 53 Member
    This sounds like the dietary equivalent of the AA term, "taking someone else's inventory." It's avoiding addressing your situation.

    Also it's really judgy and gross.
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Too lazy!
  • Cr01502
    Cr01502 Posts: 3,614 Member
    I thought the green M&M's were supposed to make you horny.

    Not angry!
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Don't hate.
    easy-blueberry-muffins_large_zps5fd6ed1f.jpg

    Dayum boy, them's some tasty muffins.
  • Melissa11412
    Melissa11412 Posts: 145 Member
    I used to do that a lot....when eating in restaurants, at the grocery store, on the running trail

    I'm learning to realize that I do not know the circumstances of anyone's situation -

    - the person overindulging in the restaurant may have busted their booty all week in the gym and in the kitchen and is having a treat meal

    -the person that has a lot of processed food in their grocery cart may have teens/hubby/wife etc at home who does not want to eat healthy like the shopper

    - the person walking on the running trail may be just back on the trail after surgery, a heart attack, etc and they may be grateful that they can still walk

    When I think of these situations like this, it enables me to bring the focus back on me....to "mind my own business" so to speak and let them off the hook.....because when i was where they were (and I was) i sure didn't want anyone's judgement on me
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie)


    Sorry, I didn't get past this part. WHY NO PIE?

    It was tempting...:wink:
  • JessieJanie
    JessieJanie Posts: 428
    Did anyone else read this post in the voice of the green m&m?

    I did!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    I thought the green M&M's were supposed to make you horny.

    Not angry!

    I'm not angry.
    Everyone else jumped on my case.
    Wow!
  • 1ConcreteGirl
    1ConcreteGirl Posts: 3,677 Member
    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    ^This. And making a judgement on someone else's choices when you have no clue what their circumstances and calorific (never mind nutritional) needs.

    Yup. How do you know it isn't their one treat meal for the week? You're being judgmental about things that aren't even your business.

    My intent was not to judge.
    I was only thinking that I would not be comfortable eating that for myself.
    I guess my thread title was mis-leading.
    Sheesh, people put the big guns away...

    Thinking about what someone else is eating in terms of good and bad is judging. Maybe you didn't mean to judge, but that's what it was.

    Not that there's anything wrong with the nutritional content of a muffin, provided it fits into your overall macro goal for the day.

    Thinking about food in terms of good and bad is actually called orthorexia. You might want to look it up to be more aware next time. :flowerforyou:
  • littlebudgie
    littlebudgie Posts: 279 Member
    Do you find yourself mentally calculating others's calories?

    We went out to Baker's Square for lunch yesterday (no, I didn't have any pie) and I overheard a woman ordering:

    "Egg white omelette" -- good
    "Muffin" -- bad
    "Bran muffin" -- slightly redeemed, but still high in fat and calories, not worth it
    "Side of fruit" -- good

    Part of me is thinking "you are going overboard with this calorie counting business".
    Another part of me is thinking "it's good that you are becoming more and more aware of nutrition and are able to make healthier choices".

    It's bad since you are simply equating calories with a food being good or bad which is silly

    No, I should clarify that I am also taking into account nutritional content.

    Then why is an egg white omelet good, when the whites alone have less nutrition than a whole egg?

    It's higher not only in calories but also in cholesterol and she didn't have your lean muscle mass to work it off.
    You can eat a much different diet than an older woman.
    But true, I don't know her HDL/LDL ratio.

    Dietary cholesterol plays a minimal role in blood cholesterol levels. Admittedly, for some people with already high cholesterol levels it can make a difference (although not necessarily), but for most people a whole egg is going to make zero impact.
  • seena511
    seena511 Posts: 685 Member
    i think i understand where you're coming from...not TRYING to judge other people, but can't help but think about whether or not it's a choice that YOU would make for YOURSELF and then projecting it onto the other person. i do find myself doing it, at the gym as well, but i'm trying to break that habit because i need to stop comparing myself to other people and just focus on me.