How far up/down from your age would you date?

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  • peachfigs
    peachfigs Posts: 831 Member
    I'm 21. I wouldn't date any younger, and would go up to about 30.
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    18-39
  • tonytoo
    tonytoo Posts: 307
    as a 46 year old, 28+
  • sbbhbm
    sbbhbm Posts: 1,312 Member
    30 to 40. I'm 34. I usually prefer younger than though; I've never actually dated anyone older than me.
  • wtw0n
    wtw0n Posts: 1,083 Member
    Older than me, so 27+.
  • Z_I_L_L_A
    Z_I_L_L_A Posts: 2,399 Member
    35-45, I'm 46
  • ObtainingBalance
    ObtainingBalance Posts: 1,446 Member
    Around 20-28

    I'm 19.

    I don't like younger.
  • MRL1107
    MRL1107 Posts: 74
    I'm 26 and I never date people younger then me. I always feel like they are on a completely different path in life then me. I'd date someone 26-35.
  • Sethswife316
    Sethswife316 Posts: 14 Member
    My late husband was 18 years older than me. My current husband is 7 years younger. Blessed twice, so age makes no difference to me.
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    If I were dating again I'd do the half your age plus seven rule....so 25 - 40 is about right, maybe older depending on how well she takes care of herself \m/
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    My husband is 6 years younger than me and I never dated or thought about dating anyone that much younger before ... keep your options open folks and don't rule out someone based on age alone ... says the 40 year old woman with the 34 year old husband, :smooched:

    Cashback!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    32-42 and I'm 35.
  • xALEXANDROx
    xALEXANDROx Posts: 3,416 Member
    30-45...im 35
  • DirtyTrickster
    DirtyTrickster Posts: 202 Member
    0 up - down to 22 - forever :)
  • 01gringo
    01gringo Posts: 5
    34........to .........55

    I'm 45
  • 20 - 30!! I'm 22. :)
  • moxiecowgirl
    moxiecowgirl Posts: 291 Member
    I'm 39. I can barely tolerate guys my own age, so I probably wouldn't date any further down than about 35. As for the high end, my ex husband is 60, and my current boyfriend is 58. I don't think I'd go higher than 60, though.
  • gsager
    gsager Posts: 977 Member
    My boyfriend is 18 years younger than me, when we're through, I'm through. Could never imagine dating a man my age.
  • sullus
    sullus Posts: 2,839 Member
    17 - 70
  • seths_wife
    seths_wife Posts: 76 Member
    24-35 (I'm 22 )
  • DanaHerro
    DanaHerro Posts: 186 Member
    I'm 35. I don't dig younger men but holy HELL do I like older men. 40-50. YUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • springs47
    springs47 Posts: 82 Member
    I'm 25...I'd say 18 (as long as they were out of high school) to 35. Maybe up to 40...it depends.
  • PibblesRun
    PibblesRun Posts: 236 Member
    I mainly like older men. Ive only dated one guy my age. He was an *kitten*, nuff said. My husband is 40...im 30 Hes almos 11 years older than me. I dated a guy 16 years older than me, I was 20 he was 36. I dont think I would date anyone older than my parents though...just couldnt get past that weirdness.
  • geebusuk
    geebusuk Posts: 3,348 Member
    If I'm attracted to them, then I'm attracted to them.

    Girls under 20 don't tend to have the maturity I like (but that doesn't mean some don't - I've got on pretty well with various less-stereotpyical uni students in the last few years - and further, that's not suggesting I'm in any way 'mature' myself :-P) and generally I wouldn't go much over my own age of 33 - but I certainly wouldn't care about a number if the other stuff was right.
  • LaviMc
    LaviMc Posts: 355 Member
    I've only dated one younger guy and he was only 8 months younger than me. I prefer older guys and the oldest guy I dated was 15 years older than me when I was 20 (though, I only thought he was 10 years older than me... translation: HE LIED). So, I'd say, 30-40 (I'll be 32 in July).
  • TheWiseCat
    TheWiseCat Posts: 297
    If I'm attracted to them, then I'm attracted to them.

    Girls under 20 don't tend to have the maturity I like (but that doesn't mean some don't - I've got on pretty well with various less-stereotpyical uni students in the last few years - and further, that's not suggesting I'm in any way 'mature' myself :-P) and generally I wouldn't go much over my own age of 33 - but I certainly wouldn't care about a number if the other stuff was right.

    18 and 19 year olds have the maturity that I like ;)


    (Hint: physical maturity)
  • tzig00
    tzig00 Posts: 875 Member
    I dated someone 5 years younger and on the flip side thought of dating someone 19 years older (until he turned out to be a racist crazy guy).
  • bsuew
    bsuew Posts: 628 Member
    Happily married to a man that is 8 years my senior. Never dated someone much younger.
  • redheaddee
    redheaddee Posts: 2,005 Member
    My age or older. I ain't got time to train a new puppy. Unless the bank roll ends in millions, then age is no matter. :laugh:
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I'm 30. Strangely enough, most of the guys I have dated have either been younger (by as much as 3 years) or older by 5 to 10 years.

    Being more self-aware now and more sure of what I am looking for, I would say I prefer 5+ years older as a general rule. That is not to say I wouldn't date someone younger or closer to my own age. I know not everyone fits the stereotypes. But these days, it seems that guys resist becoming adults until they're in their late 30s.