My Online BF Dumped Me Because I'm Fat :( :( :(

quirkytizzy

I think, when all is said and done, the fact that the OP is still holding onto the phone in hopes he'll get back in touch with her shows she is only doing this to herself:



You're only hurting yourself at this point.

MyM0wM0w

I think, when all is said and done, the fact that the OP is still holding onto the phone in hopes he'll get back in touch with her shows she is only doing this to herself:



You're only hurting yourself at this point.

Very much this!

PLUS the fact that after all the things he said you kept chasing him all the way to his hotel AND called/emailed him after. I'd block his emails, toss his cell phone down a sewer grate, and write it off as a learning experience. Then do some serious work on your self esteem so this never happens again.

Stellar76

When dating someone online, there is a fine line between being obsessed and being in love. 9 times out of 10, you think you are in love but you really are just addicted to the attention and the way the other person makes you feel. That is why it is so easy for people to get "Catfished".

Yes, I guess you are right.

Stellar76

I'm still a little scared at the OP stating she was scared he'd escape from her.


Really..... hand back his phone...otherwise your down for theft & leave him the hell alone or your down for stalking as well.



Escape?????? No wonder he looked like he wanted to leave & on his own.

THIS. I mean think about it. It doesnt sound the least bit creepy to anyone? I know he was a complete jerk, but she is just as messed up as he is.

And face it. The ONLY reason she still has his phone, is that she is hoping that he will come get and and she can see him. And THAT scares me too. If I were him, as messed up as he is, would you go back to get your phone? No way. She might chain you up or lock you in a basement.

I am all for meeting online, thats how I met my husband. Actually met him on myspace a long time ago. We have been together 6 years, married for 3, and still doing pretty good. I dont think the online part of this story is the whole issue. I think they both have some serious mental issues they need to work out ALONE before they try to be with someone else.

And you made all these stories in your head? Do you even understand the whole story? Or you're just a hateful person who bash people on the internet?

49erfan200

the guy seems unstable did you a favor

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