Do you have a type?

_castiel
_castiel Posts: 30
My friend was talking to me today about how some people tend to go for certain types of people when dating. I tried to insist I didn't have a "type" but when she asked me to list qualities I liked in someone I was dating, I realized I was listing the qualities of my current boyfriend. And the girlfriend I had before him. Hm...

So what's your type?

I'll start: brunette, tall, nerdy, and funny. And preferably someone who likes me back!
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  • LaLouve_RK
    LaLouve_RK Posts: 899 Member
    Dont really have a "type".... it goes with what my body and mind will get the crush on!
    Yet... I'll never go for the feminine type of guy....
  • micheabr
    micheabr Posts: 72
    I used to have a type then realised that having a type wasn't doing me any favours. I'm willing to give anyone a chance :)
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    My friend was talking to me today about how some people tend to go for certain types of people when dating. I tried to insist I didn't have a "type" but when she asked me to list qualities I liked in someone I was dating, I realized I was listing the qualities of my current boyfriend. And the girlfriend I had before him. Hm...

    So what's your type?

    I'll start: brunette, tall, nerdy, and funny. And preferably someone who likes me back!

    tall (over 6ft) and dark... i have never slept with a blonde guy....!
  • GrabacrPD
    GrabacrPD Posts: 94 Member
    Someone with ambition and a career!

    Looks wise, someone who looks after themselves but doesn't have to be super athletic.

    More about personality in someone who enjoys life!
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    The type I prefer: thin, sparkly eyes, cute smile, good intellect, liberal, dedicated, free in themselves, comfortable and secure.

    The type I usually get with: psychotic, completely mental, should probably be sectioned for the good of society.
  • KimberlyDCZ
    KimberlyDCZ Posts: 525 Member
    I like a shy guy myself.
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    Female, pulse and can cook...I am hoping one day that I can open up and not be so dang picky...

    Dang and forgot - "won't unfriend me when I send pics of my junk"
  • sweetchildomine
    sweetchildomine Posts: 872 Member
    I don't think I have a type but I somehow always end up with blondes.

    Go figure.
  • ZealousMissJJ
    ZealousMissJJ Posts: 454 Member
    I certainly have a 'type' I'm attracked to:


    sexy, confident, strong, empowered, great sense of humor, intelligent and empathic/feels me well


    If I would purely go for looks it would be blond, blue/green eyes, scruffy, strong. The thing is that for me the inner part seems to be far more important. A guy can open their mouth, but when they're superficial or just on a whole other level I'll lose interest.
  • mrdexter1
    mrdexter1 Posts: 356 Member
    both women i ve had a relationship with are gentle kind ,loved by all who meet them, outgoing and fun to be around and beautiful. others were just "time passers" and i always knew from the off those wouldnt develop into a relationship and they would fall by the way.
  • SenseiCole
    SenseiCole Posts: 429 Member
    Tall, strong (body and mind), loving, supportive, there for me and the kids, enjoyed cuddles

    see the guy standing next to me in for pic, I got all of the above



    anyone can add me
  • Nutella91
    Nutella91 Posts: 624 Member
    mine is Asian. I have the biggest Asian fever, i wouldn't date a white or a black guy no matter how charming, handsome or smart he is.
    Asian guys don't really go for white girls though :(
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    Female, pulse and can cook...I am hoping one day that I can open up and not be so dang picky...

    I can cook so don't need that. Finding someone that meets the other two criteria is hard though.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    At least 9/10 ( not a what would you rate me 9/10 but a real 9/10.)
    Brunette
    Ideally 6"0 ( will accept 5"11)
    Eyes with larger than average limbal ring light blue in colour.
    Fairly intelligent.
    Good boobs and bum.
    Good flexibility.
    Athletic build with good genes for possible offspring production.
    Decent salary.
    Loves bacon.
    Knows how to squat, deadlift and bench with perfect form.
    Has a very high libido.
  • kxxooo
    kxxooo Posts: 434 Member
    Female, pulse and can cook...I am hoping one day that I can open up and not be so dang picky...

    Baby your mine!

    Haha
    Love u Harvo! Kx
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    Female, pulse and can cook...I am hoping one day that I can open up and not be so dang picky...

    I can cook so don't need that. Finding someone that meets the other two criteria is hard though.

    I can cook very well but during ball season it is tough...I work games mon-sat and some are double headers and I drive up to an hour each way on a few games. As far as the second part of your original post...I cannot believe we have not met each other at therapy ot while out at the club....
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
    Normal sized with nice hair a great smile. Huge boobs too, LMAO.
  • kxxooo
    kxxooo Posts: 434 Member
    At least 9/10 ( not a what would you rate me 9/10 but a real 9/10.)
    Brunette
    Ideally 6"0 ( will accept 5"11)
    Eyes with larger than average limbal ring light blue in colour.
    Fairly intelligent.
    Good boobs and bum.
    Good flexibility.
    Athletic build with good genes for possible offspring production.
    Decent salary.
    Loves bacon.
    Knows how to squat, deadlift and bench with perfect form.
    Has a very high libido.

    Too funny!
    OK not 9/10
    Blue eyes
    intelligent.... and attitude
    bum disappearing... boobs there forever
    Too old but athletic.... haha
    cooks bacon like a pro and prosciutto and pancetta, eats it too
    Weights... no probs
    Libido is just for my lover and I to know

    ...bottom line good luck! Kx
  • kxxooo
    kxxooo Posts: 434 Member
    LOVE bald men!
    but European dark always

    all about attitude.
    May not have a type...

    and sexy as hell!
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    At least 9/10 ( not a what would you rate me 9/10 but a real 9/10.)
    Brunette
    Ideally 6"0 ( will accept 5"11)
    Eyes with larger than average limbal ring light blue in colour.
    Fairly intelligent.
    Good boobs and bum.
    Good flexibility.
    Athletic build with good genes for possible offspring production.
    Decent salary.
    Loves bacon.
    Knows how to squat, deadlift and bench with perfect form.
    Has a very high libido.

    You just described my last girlfriend exactly. Although I don't think her brunetteness is natural and I've never seen her deadlift form. Probably aren't many more who check everything on that list. I don't regret a lot but I regret messing that one up. Arsebiscuits.
  • coliema
    coliema Posts: 7,646 Member
    I like a hard working man, with dirty hands.
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
    Breathing!!!
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I like a hard working man, with dirty hands.

    WHA? You mean wearing latx gloves when working on my car or in the garen to keep my hands nice and soft is a bad thing...I thought you loved me for who I am .....:sad:
  • patentguru
    patentguru Posts: 312 Member
    Attitude: Takes defeat as a lesson. In response, figures out what when wrong and improves. Applies to all aspects of life.

    Honesty: I can tolerate a few lies now and then. But need honesty when it comes to certain issues.

    Competitive: I need a challenge.

    Confidence (very different from arrogance).
  • sam308lbs
    sam308lbs Posts: 1,936 Member
    mine is Asian. I have the biggest Asian fever, i wouldn't date a white or a black guy no matter how charming, handsome or smart he is.
    Asian guys don't really go for white girls though :(

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  • MudRunLvr
    MudRunLvr Posts: 226 Member
    I like pretty, dark haired women and breakfast food.
  • sam308lbs
    sam308lbs Posts: 1,936 Member
    Breathing!!!
    picky much ?

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  • thecakelocker
    thecakelocker Posts: 407 Member
    -can put up with me
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    I tend to gravitate to bald men. The quiet type who are not the life of the party.
  • erickirb
    erickirb Posts: 12,294 Member
    I def don't have a type. I've dated women/girls, that were 6" shorter than me to 4" taller. I've date from 6 years younger to 3 years older. Blonds, brunettes. Some were athletic, others not so much. Some outgoing other much more reserved. Personality is what really matters (obviously attraction first, or I wouldn't get to know their personality though)