Do you guys like a girl that flirts??

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  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Let me spoil this party for you though - after a couple of 3 beers, even gesturing for a salt shaker is flirty and sexy. Just sayin'
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    as a single guy I LOVE IT WHEN WOMEN MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!! it shows confidence and personal power!! I will do ANYTHING for a woman who pursues me...really

    how YOU doin'?
  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    eyelash batting, showing skin, showing big mouth, holding phallic items, hair flips. You can do it!
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    ... and of course the old bend and snap. google it.
    lol bend and snap huh? ok next time I see him I am sooo going for it... Life is short so I might as well grab me a bit of it!! maybe not the bend and snap though lmao!! :laugh:
  • StarChanger
    StarChanger Posts: 605 Member
    I think flirting is a natural born talent. Some people have it, some don't. Even now, married and overweight, I flirt unconsciously, constantly...and it still works. Of course the end game is much different, now that I'm happily married, but getting a genuine smile out of a man makes my day...and I'm sure it goes in reverse. Mind you, there is a BIG difference between "flirting" and slutting it up, not that either is a bad thing, in the right context....
  • Cupcakehippiemommy
    Cupcakehippiemommy Posts: 457 Member
    Obvi I am not a dude BUT I say go for it. Why have the what if lingering in your mind? The worst thing that could happen is you guys become friends right? I ALWAYS made the first move, again nothing to lose,,,
    Good luck doll and I hope more men respond and give you the perspective you are looking for on this question :)
  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    Let me spoil this party for you though - after a couple of 3 beers, even gesturing for a salt shaker is flirty and sexy. Just sayin'
    Lol I'll keep that in mind and I'll bring beer next time :wink:
  • Markguns
    Markguns Posts: 554 Member
    I like girls........ Eh umm what was the question? :bigsmile: :glasses:
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    I have flirted my way out of many situations. Flirting paid for my groceries during my senior year in college and also almost every drink I have when I go out. Not silly when done well.

    I have to travel, quite frequently in my occupation, and I usually sit alone either at the bar or a small booth and tend to grab a quick (as healthy as I can find) meal from the local sports bar, or hotel bar.

    I don't know if it is a trend or what, but I've been "sent" over many drinks by women in the past. Now I don't drink anymore (not since 2011), and it always feels awkward to have to "send it back"...I'm married and nothing would happen anyway, but it does make me feel good that the gesture has been given so many times.
  • maiaroman18
    maiaroman18 Posts: 460 Member
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  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    Obvi I am not a dude BUT I say go for it. Why have the what if lingering in your mind? The worst thing that could happen is you guys become friends right? I ALWAYS made the first move, again nothing to lose,,,
    Good luck doll and I hope more men respond and give you the perspective you are looking for on this question :)
    Thanks I appreciate that.. I have had the same thoughts about the what if's..
  • Shr3dded
    Shr3dded Posts: 232
    Yes and no, if she flirts and shows initial interest, yes it's good. But if she seems too flirty, as in, pursues me more than I pursue her, I lose all interest.

    Where's the fun in the hunt if there is no chase?
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
    If it isn't natural, don't do it.


    ^^ Agreed. I'm way too silly/goofy to be flirty, and I'm pretty sure I come across as being constipated more than anything else.

    Good luck though! :flowerforyou:
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    We like it when you flirt with US. When it's with everyone it's just meh.
  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    I like girls........ Eh umm what was the question? :bigsmile: :glasses:
    Lol too funny :wink:
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Like this:

    "Would you like to go out for dinner/a drink/movie sometime?"

    Him: "Yes"

    or possibly

    "No". If he says no, big deal, so what? Forget him and try someone else.

    Don't over-complicate it. It's really that easy. Most men enjoy being asked out!
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    Where the hell is my salt shaker...
  • Willowana
    Willowana Posts: 493 Member
    Ex bf's always accused me of being too flirty. All I was really doing (honest, cross my heart) was just smiling, joking, and being friendly in an open, receptive way. I got accused of flirting with servers, concierge staff, people in the check out lanes... Over the years, I've become a very extroverted introvert.

    So I guess flirty is open to interpretation. From my experience, men often think normal everyday things like smiling and joking are flirty.

    In which case, I'm so f'n dirty...
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Where the hell is my salt shaker...

    Last I saw it in Margaritaville.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Personally, I'm a terrible, awkward flirt. But I like to banter, and guys seem alright with that.
  • Mad_Dog_Muscle
    Mad_Dog_Muscle Posts: 1,251 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!
  • Thadreamer87
    Thadreamer87 Posts: 47
    I like girls that flirt. It shows shes showing an interest.
  • sarahg148
    sarahg148 Posts: 701 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!


    And how do you KNOW they aren't looking to jump you???
  • Willowana
    Willowana Posts: 493 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!

    Huh....I kinda wanna jump you now. What's the magic words? "Let me sit in your lap, Big Daddy?"
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    It depends on scope. A flirty girl is great... unless she insists on flirting with everyone all the time. That gets old in a hurry.

    Since I don't believe that extreme was what you were talking about, carry on with your original plan.
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!

    Huh....I kinda wanna jump you now. What's the magic words? "Let me sit in your lap, Big Daddy?"

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  • Willowana
    Willowana Posts: 493 Member
    ^^Guess the humor is lost on some.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!

    Huh....I kinda wanna jump you now. What's the magic words? "Let me sit in your lap, Big Daddy?"

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    who farted?
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I have flirted my way out of many situations. Flirting paid for my groceries during my senior year in college and also almost every drink I have when I go out. Not silly when done well.

    lol this is why my license hasn't been suspended yet, all the times i have been pulled over for speeding and never get a ticket for it. flirt away mama!
  • d9123
    d9123 Posts: 531 Member
    Its fine and can be fun when taken for what it is.... just flirting. I have many female friends that may flirt with me, but I know they are not looking to jump me! <sadly>!!!

    Huh....I kinda wanna jump you now. What's the magic words? "Let me sit in your lap, Big Daddy?"

    u wot mate?
  • raychulj
    raychulj Posts: 458 Member
    What is flirting anyway. I get accused of it even when I'm just goofing around and being friendly.

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