Do you guys like a girl that flirts??

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  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    But what if there is that, "I keep catching you looking at me, then you turn your head, as I notice" shizz going on.
    What does that even mean?
  • TriShamelessly
    TriShamelessly Posts: 905 Member
    I like girls. Period. :bigsmile:
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    how YOU doin?

    Haha.....are you flirting with me sir?? **bats eyelashes**
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    But what if there is that, "I keep catching you looking at me, then you turn your head, as I notice" shizz going on.
    What does that even mean?

    If you're both doing that, there's a mutual attraction (or maybe a booger....hard to tell)....somebody has to grow some kahunas and say hey!
  • CrazyTrackLady
    CrazyTrackLady Posts: 1,337 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    But what if there is that, "I keep catching you looking at me, then you turn your head, as I notice" shizz going on.
    What does that even mean?

    Do guys look at women even if the woman doesn't notice them looking?
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    But what if there is that, "I keep catching you looking at me, then you turn your head, as I notice" shizz going on.
    What does that even mean?

    Do guys look at women even if the woman doesn't notice them looking?

    Always...all guys take scant glances at women...can't really help it.
  • Yes but when the girl does it with every guy, then hell no that is a big turn off.
  • robin68562
    robin68562 Posts: 116 Member
    Everything has changed now and all the old rules are no longer relevant ...Girls flirt all the time with me and its great and more power to them!

    I can see why! Slight smile, eyebrow raise and look away!
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    If it isn't natural, don't do it.
    kinda what I think. If I flirted I think it would be so awkward for me it would show..

    The irony for me is I'm an *kitten* of a girl and that would make them go after me more!

    So I agree, if it's not natural, don't do it. Whether it be a guy or gal, when people try too hard, it makes me cringe and verp in my mouth.
  • d9123
    d9123 Posts: 531 Member
    If it isn't natural, don't do it.
    kinda what I think. If I flirted I think it would be so awkward for me it would show..

    The irony for me is I'm an *kitten* of a girl and that would make them go after me more!

    So I agree, if it's not natural, don't do it. Whether it be a guy or gal, when people try too hard, it makes me cringe and verp in my mouth.

    you know what makes me cringe? mirror shots
  • laddyboy
    laddyboy Posts: 1,565 Member
    I love a woman that flirts...it' shows confidence.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    I can say for sure, i not into girls that flirt with everyone.

    id say if you are trying to let him know, come on softly.

    I think straight forward from a non committal angle is best.

    "you know theres this great _______* that I've been meaning to go to, I thought maybe we could go together?"

    in this one sentence you make it clear that you like him without coming on too strong, but it makes it easy for either party to save face if it turns out that if hes not into you.

    * stands for waffle house, restaurant, bar, art gallery, sports event, whatever you are into. it would also help if you have something in common. that helps.



    thats how I do business.

    Brilliant. I plan on using these tools, since I am the worst at figuring this out, on my own.
    :flowerforyou:

    That's not subtle, that's pretty straight forward in my opinion.

    "I'm going dancing tonight down at XYZ bar. I love dancing and I can shake my hips and butt like no other. I understand it's a real turn on to guys, but I don't really have anyone to watch me do it. Oh well, at least I'll have fun anyways grinding away on my girlfriends."

    Now THAT is how you get a man's attention.

    that really doesn't work for me.
  • Geez, I hope so.
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  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    Ehhhh.....Id personally go with none of the above. To me, flirting is simply introducing myself and from there, it's not about a zingy one liner....it's about body language and conversation. It's much less about what I say and more about how I say it. Details people!! :)

    But what if there is that, "I keep catching you looking at me, then you turn your head, as I notice" shizz going on.
    What does that even mean?

    If you're both doing that, there's a mutual attraction (or maybe a booger....hard to tell)....somebody has to grow some kahunas and say hey!

    eyebrows.gif

    Ahhhhh. Eye Contact.
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
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    You CANT be sers, right now!!

    :noway: :huh: :yawn:
    It took me a minute to realize I was on the wrong thread!
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    I get a kick out of flirty girls...my wife however doesn't :angry:
    I read filthy lol
  • FiftyandGettingBetter
    FiftyandGettingBetter Posts: 611 Member
    I love to flirt, so why not a girl that flirts?
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    I get a kick out of flirty girls...my wife however doesn't :angry:
    I read filthy lol

    You psychic or something? :tongue:
  • We like it when you flirt with US. When it's with everyone it's just meh.
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    Exactly...seems to be my understanding as well!
  • chantelp89
    chantelp89 Posts: 590 Member
    We like it when you flirt with US. When it's with everyone it's just meh.
    I'm a one guy at a time girl. I like to make you feel special
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    We like it when you flirt with US. When it's with everyone it's just meh.
    I'm a one guy at a time girl. I like to make you feel special

    yay I'm not the only one :)
  • Doodlewhopper
    Doodlewhopper Posts: 1,018 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him
  • I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.

    you can get crabs in your eye. guess how I know that.
  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    I can say for sure, i not into girls that flirt with everyone.

    id say if you are trying to let him know, come on softly.

    I think straight forward from a non committal angle is best.

    "you know theres this great _______* that I've been meaning to go to, I thought maybe we could go together?"

    in this one sentence you make it clear that you like him without coming on too strong, but it makes it easy for either party to save face if it turns out that if hes not into you.

    * stands for waffle house, restaurant, bar, art gallery, sports event, whatever you are into. it would also help if you have something in common. that helps.



    thats how I do business.
    great advice thanks!!
  • I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.

    you can get crabs in your eye. guess how I know that.

    Welllll, you aren't supposed to throw YOUR own panties at yourself :flowerforyou: How did that work out for you?
  • nikilis
    nikilis Posts: 2,305 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.

    you can get crabs in your eye. guess how I know that.

    Welllll, you aren't supposed to throw YOUR own panties at yourself :flowerforyou: How did that work out for you?

    ooooh..... burn. lol I enjoyed that haha.
  • sherri85
    sherri85 Posts: 148 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him
    lmao ok!!
  • craigmandu
    craigmandu Posts: 976 Member
    I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.

    So much for "Beating around the bush"....or maybe that's exactly what it is! :bigsmile:
  • I do like girls that flirt.
    Thanks for that answer I am really serious!! I have a guy who I would like to go out with but I have no idea how to let him know Im interested..

    Throw your panties at him

    Works every time, trust me.

    So much for "Beating around the bush"....or maybe that's exactly what it is! :bigsmile:

    Got to make it clear.