Z. Class that causes me marriage stress part II.
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Something else is wrong in your marriage and you don't seem to care, or to want to find out what it is and fix it.
Oh sure you went with her to say you tried it. But you had no intention of really trying.
So get off the computer and go find out what is wrong before she leaves you for one of those hot Latin zumba guys.
...those hot Latin zumba guys are gay.
I hope these posts are strictly for our amusement. Because they are funny as hell, but it would make me incredibly sad if any of this is true.
Honestly I may use fancy pants words to describe stuff but this is sadly 100% true.0 -
Yea I aggre this is sad, sure did you do it in a colorful way, yea, but you talk so mean about your wife, MAN! and I cheecked out your profile and saw how much you lost and how pretty and skinny your wife is and I think huh> wow she stuck by your side when you were over weight and you treat her like this, and let her be bashed by countless woman who say "I WOULD NEVER DO THAT" they get all high on themselves at your wifes expense, I have a feeling your wife isn't so sad that you didn't do that class as much as she is sad that you don't seem to respect her, so she is yearning your love and respect, but you are acting like a little boy so she does without, yea I find that funny! NOT!
I'm not talking mean about my wife, I've many a times stated I married above my paygrade. I've always stated most likely I did something and eventually she'll tell me. She's just not ready to yet!
As for the weight loss, kind of an insult slam there. You ever think I wasn't fat when she married me? I did play football and was in pretty good shape.
As for the creative writing I've literally embleshed none (besides the workout clothes, I DIDN'T really need sunglass, but they were really dang bright! Oh and she may of only tried on 9-10 pairs of workout pants. )
As for not respecting her, My wife and I have been through a LOT together. We got married way to young and learned a lot along the ways. To say I don't respect her is a gross gross oversight. I try to please my wife to the best of my god given abilities. She even knows about these posts, she doesn't like it but she doesn't mind either. It's not like I'm going around and telling her immediate family or friends. She knows that I do this to get things off my chest, I used to hold a lot in and would blow up with anger. Now I play light on a lot of things, a personality trait is far from disrespect. You choose to see the bad, I'm choosing to see the good. I never posted this to have people say.. "OMG, SHE'S CRAZY." (Even though she'd be the first to admit it and laugh at it once it's all said and done. She knows she has a very very very hot temper.)
So before you judge, lighten up a bit. Life is funny, I can laugh at myself and the things around me. If it makes you feel better my next update will be about something stupid I did once. That way there can be no bashing of the wife, who if you noticed when I post I defend.
Also as for your comment for me not giving Zumba a try, I did give it an honest try. I laugh a lot, I'm one of THOSE guys.. I laugh when I'm nervous, but more importantly I have a really hard time being serious.
In closing. Thanks for your input, I am probably a dirt bag of a man, I do respect my wife, I've never once talked about divorcing her, my wife and I have way too many funny episodes like this. Usually from a prank I decide to pull.
Smile and laugh in life :-D0 -
Yea I aggre this is sad, sure did you do it in a colorful way, yea, but you talk so mean about your wife, MAN! and I cheecked out your profile and saw how much you lost and how pretty and skinny your wife is and I think huh> wow she stuck by your side when you were over weight and you treat her like this, and let her be bashed by countless woman who say "I WOULD NEVER DO THAT" they get all high on themselves at your wifes expense, I have a feeling your wife isn't so sad that you didn't do that class as much as she is sad that you don't seem to respect her, so she is yearning your love and respect, but you are acting like a little boy so she does without, yea I find that funny! NOT!
I'm not talking mean about my wife, I've many a times stated I married above my paygrade. I've always stated most likely I did something and eventually she'll tell me. She's just not ready to yet!
As for the weight loss, kind of an insult slam there. You ever think I wasn't fat when she married me? I did play football and was in pretty good shape.
As for the creative writing I've literally embleshed none (besides the workout clothes, I DIDN'T really need sunglass, but they were really dang bright! Oh and she may of only tried on 9-10 pairs of workout pants. )
As for not respecting her, My wife and I have been through a LOT together. We got married way to young and learned a lot along the ways. To say I don't respect her is a gross gross oversight. I try to please my wife to the best of my god given abilities. She even knows about these posts, she doesn't like it but she doesn't mind either. It's not like I'm going around and telling her immediate family or friends. She knows that I do this to get things off my chest, I used to hold a lot in and would blow up with anger. Now I play light on a lot of things, a personality trait is far from disrespect. You choose to see the bad, I'm choosing to see the good. I never posted this to have people say.. "OMG, SHE'S CRAZY." (Even though she'd be the first to admit it and laugh at it once it's all said and done. She knows she has a very very very hot temper.)
So before you judge, lighten up a bit. Life is funny, I can laugh at myself and the things around me. If it makes you feel better my next update will be about something stupid I did once. That way there can be no bashing of the wife, who if you noticed when I post I defend.
Also as for your comment for me not giving Zumba a try, I did give it an honest try. I laugh a lot, I'm one of THOSE guys.. I laugh when I'm nervous, but more importantly I have a really hard time being serious.
In closing. Thanks for your input, I am probably a dirt bag of a man, I do respect my wife, I've never once talked about divorcing her, my wife and I have way too many funny episodes like this. Usually from a prank I decide to pull.
Smile and laugh in life :-D
Well this makes me think differently, all I read was people prasing you for this and being all, "oh I am so much better then your wife" blah blah blah so I wanted to show another perspective,
I don't mean to offend you about my comment on your weight, all I know is there are a lot of shallow woman out there and it seems you got a good one, cause I know a LOT of lady's that would leave their man if he got big,
As far as being a jerk, heh! I can be a ragging B word and my hunny can be a jerk, it's all good as long as you treat your honey with love in real life,
I guess I just got sick of hearing all the other girls puffing themselves up at the expense of your wify0 -
Yea I aggre this is sad, sure did you do it in a colorful way, yea, but you talk so mean about your wife, MAN! and I cheecked out your profile and saw how much you lost and how pretty and skinny your wife is and I think huh> wow she stuck by your side when you were over weight and you treat her like this, and let her be bashed by countless woman who say "I WOULD NEVER DO THAT" they get all high on themselves at your wifes expense, I have a feeling your wife isn't so sad that you didn't do that class as much as she is sad that you don't seem to respect her, so she is yearning your love and respect, but you are acting like a little boy so she does without, yea I find that funny! NOT!
I'm not talking mean about my wife, I've many a times stated I married above my paygrade. I've always stated most likely I did something and eventually she'll tell me. She's just not ready to yet!
As for the weight loss, kind of an insult slam there. You ever think I wasn't fat when she married me? I did play football and was in pretty good shape.
As for the creative writing I've literally embleshed none (besides the workout clothes, I DIDN'T really need sunglass, but they were really dang bright! Oh and she may of only tried on 9-10 pairs of workout pants. )
As for not respecting her, My wife and I have been through a LOT together. We got married way to young and learned a lot along the ways. To say I don't respect her is a gross gross oversight. I try to please my wife to the best of my god given abilities. She even knows about these posts, she doesn't like it but she doesn't mind either. It's not like I'm going around and telling her immediate family or friends. She knows that I do this to get things off my chest, I used to hold a lot in and would blow up with anger. Now I play light on a lot of things, a personality trait is far from disrespect. You choose to see the bad, I'm choosing to see the good. I never posted this to have people say.. "OMG, SHE'S CRAZY." (Even though she'd be the first to admit it and laugh at it once it's all said and done. She knows she has a very very very hot temper.)
So before you judge, lighten up a bit. Life is funny, I can laugh at myself and the things around me. If it makes you feel better my next update will be about something stupid I did once. That way there can be no bashing of the wife, who if you noticed when I post I defend.
Also as for your comment for me not giving Zumba a try, I did give it an honest try. I laugh a lot, I'm one of THOSE guys.. I laugh when I'm nervous, but more importantly I have a really hard time being serious.
In closing. Thanks for your input, I am probably a dirt bag of a man, I do respect my wife, I've never once talked about divorcing her, my wife and I have way too many funny episodes like this. Usually from a prank I decide to pull.
Smile and laugh in life :-D
Well this makes me think differently, all I read was people prasing you for this and being all, "oh I am so much better then your wife" blah blah blah so I wanted to show another perspective,
I don't mean to offend you about my comment on your weight, all I know is there are a lot of shallow woman out there and it seems you got a good one, cause I know a LOT of lady's that would leave their man if he got big,
As far as being a jerk, heh! I can be a ragging B word and my hunny can be a jerk, it's all good as long as you treat your honey with love in real life,
I guess I just got sick of hearing all the other girls puffing themselves up at the expense of your wify
Well I did make her supper tonight ;-)0 -
Yea I aggre this is sad, sure did you do it in a colorful way, yea, but you talk so mean about your wife, MAN! and I cheecked out your profile and saw how much you lost and how pretty and skinny your wife is and I think huh> wow she stuck by your side when you were over weight and you treat her like this, and let her be bashed by countless woman who say "I WOULD NEVER DO THAT" they get all high on themselves at your wifes expense, I have a feeling your wife isn't so sad that you didn't do that class as much as she is sad that you don't seem to respect her, so she is yearning your love and respect, but you are acting like a little boy so she does without, yea I find that funny! NOT!
I'm not talking mean about my wife, I've many a times stated I married above my paygrade. I've always stated most likely I did something and eventually she'll tell me. She's just not ready to yet!
As for the weight loss, kind of an insult slam there. You ever think I wasn't fat when she married me? I did play football and was in pretty good shape.
As for the creative writing I've literally embleshed none (besides the workout clothes, I DIDN'T really need sunglass, but they were really dang bright! Oh and she may of only tried on 9-10 pairs of workout pants. )
As for not respecting her, My wife and I have been through a LOT together. We got married way to young and learned a lot along the ways. To say I don't respect her is a gross gross oversight. I try to please my wife to the best of my god given abilities. She even knows about these posts, she doesn't like it but she doesn't mind either. It's not like I'm going around and telling her immediate family or friends. She knows that I do this to get things off my chest, I used to hold a lot in and would blow up with anger. Now I play light on a lot of things, a personality trait is far from disrespect. You choose to see the bad, I'm choosing to see the good. I never posted this to have people say.. "OMG, SHE'S CRAZY." (Even though she'd be the first to admit it and laugh at it once it's all said and done. She knows she has a very very very hot temper.)
So before you judge, lighten up a bit. Life is funny, I can laugh at myself and the things around me. If it makes you feel better my next update will be about something stupid I did once. That way there can be no bashing of the wife, who if you noticed when I post I defend.
Also as for your comment for me not giving Zumba a try, I did give it an honest try. I laugh a lot, I'm one of THOSE guys.. I laugh when I'm nervous, but more importantly I have a really hard time being serious.
In closing. Thanks for your input, I am probably a dirt bag of a man, I do respect my wife, I've never once talked about divorcing her, my wife and I have way too many funny episodes like this. Usually from a prank I decide to pull.
Smile and laugh in life :-D
Well this makes me think differently, all I read was people prasing you for this and being all, "oh I am so much better then your wife" blah blah blah so I wanted to show another perspective,
I don't mean to offend you about my comment on your weight, all I know is there are a lot of shallow woman out there and it seems you got a good one, cause I know a LOT of lady's that would leave their man if he got big,
As far as being a jerk, heh! I can be a ragging B word and my hunny can be a jerk, it's all good as long as you treat your honey with love in real life,
I guess I just got sick of hearing all the other girls puffing themselves up at the expense of your wify
Well I did make her supper tonight ;-)
that's really nice! I bet she felt really special!0 -
I found me a workout shirt that is perfect to wear to the gym. It's got the dayglo colors that run around the arm pits. Now my arm pitts can look like they smell at the gym.. NUCLEAR!0
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I remember reading your original story and I'm glad I spotted this one too.
Whilst I know I should write something serious and constructive, I just can't. It's too hilarious.
Ditto. Fantastic laugh.
I can't believe you actually did Zumba!!! Man that's so beyond the call of duty. And I can't believe the response you're getting from some women here. Sheesh. You were prepared to make a complete pratt of yourself just to please her and you still get nothing but s**t here from some.
I can only assume it's some kind of deflection of their own issues.0 -
And by the way in neither part 1 or part 2 did I ever see you dissing your wife. I think some folk just don't get your humour. Personally I think you should write for a living! :laugh:0
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I love your writing! Thanks for sharing...
I wouldmt be caught dead in a Zumba class lol.. It's too bad your wife doesn't know what she's missing out on by not lifting. I wouldn't trade it for anything!0 -
U see Jr...should of done the Date night of Salsa and set up a specific day just for her to go to the gym to Chat Nd continue on to it usual gym routine with no problem. Thanks for the update! Great story0
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Props on the zumba!!!!!!!!!! I don't know of many men that would.
When I read both to my husband, he just laughed, as well as i. We don't work out together, as a matter of fact, he games while I work out so we don't usually have the debate about it. We do find other things to do together, and after almost 4 years, (we have been together that long, married almost a year in Sept) and a child later (we have a 6 month old), i learned it was okay to have my own thing to do. All i can say is to let her come around and tell you what is up, keep us updated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0 -
The hubs and I had a good laugh over this. thanks!0
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no offense but your wife sounds like a total loon.0
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"Just thought you guys would like an update."
You thought wrong. I can't even believe I wasted my time reading that.
And yet, you wasted MORE of your apparently SUPER IMPORTANT TIME by adding a reply that was not only rude, but also degrading to you. Your comment, I'm sure, didn't bother the writer one bit. Hence, you should reply to your own comment that you're angry because you wasted MORE of your time replying, and then reply to that reply that you shouldn't have given yourself the time of day, and that you're so disgusted by the time/waste ratio. Also, It makes me think maybe this makes you upset because you're one of those women too. Doing ZUMBA is fine, but manipulating someone into doing it with you is not. -Rant Complete-0 -
I thought this was hilariously funny, lol. Sorry you had a bad experience in zumba and I hope your wife forgives you soon!0
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That is amazing. Good on you for trying to go, not many men would have. I'm sorry that she's pissy it didn't turn out how she wanted, but hey, you tried to warn her. At this point, she has no one but herself to blame.
As far as the shopping goes...*shrug* I may try on one or two pairs of workout pants if I'm not sure what size I'm in, but I have a hard time being picky about something like that. It's like saying "These leggings look bad." They are tight as tight can get, if things don't look good, it isn't the fault of your pants...
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Lol. Loved part 1 and 2. Hilarious! Myself and the partner used to go to the gym together but went our own ways and met up in the jacuzzi. Now we are at separate gyms so I can walk there instead of being dependant on him for taking me. I love having my own space and he's happy to have his. He will join me on bring a friend days though.
He's not been going for a while and I've been going around 5 times a week. I'm trying to encourage him to go but he's not biting. Our whole psychological states are so much better when we both exercise. I would be happy for him to join my gym if he wanted to. The classes are better. But when I lift or do my hiit I cannot talk! Headphones on and I'm in the zone. He's the same.
I'd love to spin and body pump with him, but I love doing it alone too and meeting townspeople
Having your own space is a good thing. My partner seems insecure as I'm losing more and more, thinking this is happening on your end. Maybe just do something to show her how much you love her.
Hilarious reads though, you should definitely blog!
Zara :-)0 -
Also cannot believe some people's responses on here. If they read all your threads it is very very clear that you do respect and love your wife very much, why else would you go to Zumba? Lol0
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