Be honest
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I want to look good naked!0
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All my friends are thin and pretty. I don't want to be the fat friend anymore, embarrassed to go anywhere or do anything with them and feeling like I get invited out of pity.0
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>Be honest, why do you work out?
To help lose weight, but even more so to strengthen my heart. Diabetics have an significantly increased chance of dieing from a heart attack, even if they've got good glucose control, and low cholesterol, so I do what I can to have a healthy heart.0 -
I exercise for many reasons, mostly for the ability benefits (I am a dancer), but I make health my main focus because that prevents injury. And also focusing on appearance just feels like a slippery slope into an unhealthy attitude about myself and my life values. The health benefits of exercise are about much more than weight. When the people closest to me hear that I am doing well with my fitness they say that makes them very happy to hear because they know that exercise contributes most of all to my mental health. And it is a mental attitude. When I am fit and exercising I feel healthy and have more energy for everything, including my children (it has nothing to do with weight for me).0
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I showed my kids how to put kids first and myself last. I put myself first now. Of course they are grown and out of the house now. Worst parenting skill ever.0
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To look better naked. I think I look good naked already, I just want to look amazing all over!
OH and I feel a hellava lot better when I'm training. Body's loose, muscles are strong. Confidence and mood are both enhanced.0 -
I am in no way comparable to you - started with a BMI of nearly 50. I will admit, though, that my biggest motivator was the fear that I was building such bad habits into my kids. I saw them sitting a lot, reading, and eating the same things I ate as a teen...that started all of this! Of course, I am doing it for me...and to be honest, I am working hard at it because I have really started to see this as an evil in my life...but the kickstarter was wanting to help form better futures for my kids.0
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A few reasons, and depending the day any of them could be the main reason but I think it is the combination of them all:
1. The fun of competitive sport.
2. Training in the gym improves sport performance if done correctly.
3. The numerous health benefits.
4. Improves appearance.
5. It is a good way to kill time and meet people with something in common.
6. The pump I feel from a good workout that I don't think can be achieved from anything else.0 -
Honestly, It's all for da womens.0
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I want to look good and be healthy, etc. but this is nothing new. I've wanted this for many years. It wasn't until my daughter said something to me that I became motivated and actually REALLY started this "journey." This is also the first time I've succeeded. So yes she really has been my drive.0
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Mainly to look good and not get diabetes.0
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I *might* run a lot to spend time alone (i.e. away from my kids )
And, well... I like when my husband can toss me around a little :blushing:0 -
I don't have children. I'm doing this for me, me and me. Overall, I'm more interested in my physical and mental health than the way I look, but the changes I have seen have been a welcome side effect!
I just realised one day that I couldn't get away with my unhealthy eating habits forever and I didn't want to end up with chronic disease. I love life too much to have it cut short by something I can control (to a point). Hopefully, the changes I have made will help alleviate the effects of nearly a decade of not so good choices, but I can say I tried and my life is so much more enjoyable now. It was great before, it's even more awesome now!0 -
I want to look good, and eat healthy since my family all seem to be having heart attacks lately. I just hope to be a good healthy role model for my daughter.0
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I work out for ME---and myself, and I!0
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I love the workout high and I like looking lean and toned. And of course I like being stronger and faster and not out of breath all the time! Looking good naked fits in there too... And of course like everyone says, I wanna be able to eat that little goodie and not have it hurt me later!0
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I'm with you! I am totally working out for myself, and don't feel the list bit guility for doing it. Some people who use their kids for an excuse to doing everything could POSSIBILY be insecure at what people may think of them as a parent. Not me, proud mother, but I need my time and confidence too.0
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I just started going to the gym this week. When I told one of my co-workers she said “ oh that’s good, your son needs you healthy”.
Be honest, why do you work out?
She was just trying to be nice... even if she wasn't. Her heart was in the right place.
Why do I work out? To look good. As simple as that. I'm not hiding that fact, either. (See my profile.)0 -
Well, I am pretty obese, so at this point I really AM doing it for my health more than looks, and especially to be there/be a better example for my kids. I'm pretty shocked that a co-worker would say that to you though. It's not like you had that much to lose - certainly not a health-threatening amount. And even if you did, it's a pretty tactless comment to make - like a backhanded compliment, suggesting you're somehow less of a parent if you're not fitting into a size 6 or less. I'd say as much to them, honestly. People just need to think before they open their mouths and let stuff like that out of them.0
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There are a variety of reason for me.
I mean, of course part of it involves the vanity aspect, but looking good is just the byproduct of me aiming for other goals, like: a) being healthier, b) feeling good, and c) conditioning for things like playing soccer and running. I partially tore my ACL years ago, but I'm too competitive and enjoy the fun of playing sports way too much to give them up, so I try to keep my weight down and my body conditioned so that I'm not fatigued enough to let my somewhat-weakened knee fail me again because of me being out of shape.
In the end, though, I simply enjoy working out. Some people like fishing or playing video games. I legitimately enjoy pushing myself and the feeling of accomplishment when you're done. To borrow from Nike's brilliant ad campaign right now…I love trying to "find my greatness"0 -
My kids played a role sure, I want them to see their mom healthy. But it was an escape for me. I was in a miserable relationship and I found that working out and focusing for once on myself made me happy and I eventually gained the courage and self esteem to leave a bad situation before my kids got hurt .
Now my motivation is about how I feel when I workout and eat healthy. How my friends have been inspired and how I can wear cute clothes I always wanted and look good doing it.0 -
To be honest, I'd say its about equal parts staying healthy to be there for my kids and wife and looking good.0
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I meant to quote the first comment, but I messed up. lol My kids made me fat too. lol I was a size 5, had a little four pack going on before I had my first. It took me 2 years to loose weight and get back in shape after her. We welcomed our 2nd this March so I'm back at square 1. I just want my body back after the sacrifice. lol BUT I love my kids and wouldn't trade them for the world.
I do it mainly for myself. I want to feel great and look good. I have two kids to keep up with I don't need to be huffin and puffin AND I have a closet full of beautiful wardrobe that cost me a lot of money just waiting for me to wear it again.0 -
I work out cus it makes me feel good but I also work out because I hope my kids mainly my daughter will see this and catch on. I say this because she is built like me and without working out and eating healthier choices, she will ended up like me, and I don't wish for her to. So yeah part of me does this for my children. I want them to live by example.0
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To look hot and mack dudes. Are there other reasons?
No no other reasons :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: No seriously, no to take medication and to feel good0 -
I work out so that I can be un-fat. Then I will work out to be strong for things like acrobatic sex and riding my motorcycle.0
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To look good and feel good.0
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to be more confident. my self esteem is really low. to prove all the people that called me fat, and be like nah. i look better than you.0
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To look hot and mack dudes. Are there other reasons?0
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I do it because I feel incredible after my workout. I constantly beat myself up, because i'm leaving my daughter in gym's childcare, or with my husband almost daily (for about 45 min or less). I continue to tell myself that a happy momma equals a happy family. But it's hard to get over the guilt. Anyone else feel this?0
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