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HaleyJoAnn
HaleyJoAnn Posts: 50
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So my man and I are getting married next June and the best man is already thinking about an awesome bachelor party... obviously the first thing that comes to my head is... strippers... I told my finace that I really do not want him to be going to a strip club. He respects me and he won't go to one but he wants to know why. Honestly, I know he wont be interested in them and will still love me :smile: But I just don't like the fact that he will be starring at naked girls :ohwell:

What are your thoughts? Guys and Women!
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  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
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    Hey - as long as he is coming home for dessert I dont care how his motor gets revved!
  • OnTheWayToPerfection
    OnTheWayToPerfection Posts: 115 Member
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    I didn't want my husband going to a strip club or any of that, unless I was there. I see it as respect.

    We went to a strip club on our honeymoon.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
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    No strip club? Is it cool then if he just orders a few to dance in a hotel room then?
  • JacquelineD35
    JacquelineD35 Posts: 279 Member
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    I personally do not have a problem with that (getting ready to get yelled at) As long as he is not going to be taking one back to his place/hotel/motel/back seat of the car. That's just me but if it bothers you and you let him know this then he should respect your wish if he has already agreed to do so.
  • DixiedoesMFP
    DixiedoesMFP Posts: 935 Member
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    Why are you asking us? He wants to know why YOU don't want him to go, not a bunch of strangers on the internet.
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
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    My wife says she doesn't care where I get my appetite, as long as I eat at home.
  • slyder432
    slyder432 Posts: 475 Member
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    Insecurity comes to my mind.
  • sheepysaccount
    sheepysaccount Posts: 608 Member
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    As long as he doesn't do anything stupid, but is only looking, who cares? I think the female body is something beautiful he should enjoy. Would you rather he looks at women in skimpy on the internetz?
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
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    He's coming home to me. Not to them. They're doing their job. And any man that's going to sleep with a stripper... don't you want to know that BEFORE you get married?
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
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    Oh, and my wife doesn't care if I go to a strip club. We've gone together a couple of times.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
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    There are only two kinds of girls in this world.. one's who let their men go to strip clubs and one's who don't. Think about it.
  • drmerc
    drmerc Posts: 2,603 Member
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    He can still have hookers and blow right?
  • LadyIvysMom
    LadyIvysMom Posts: 391 Member
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    My husband did not go to see strippers for his BP for a few reasons. First off, he said that's someone's daughter and even though he respects the right for women to do whatever they want with their bodies, he would not ever want his own daughter (he does not even have a daughter lol) being a stripper. Also, his wedding party included a gay man, two married men whose wives did not want them seeing strippers and an underage kid who would not have been able to get into the club anyway. Lastly, he doesn't think they are very fun places to hang out. They're expensive and usually the ones around here attract some sketchy characters. He ended up going to a place where he and his friends could do some sort of indoor racecar thing and play video games.

    He came home from his BP with two little plastic guitars and two little princess necklaces that he won with his arcade tickets to give to my toddler neices lol
  • poshcouture
    poshcouture Posts: 610
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    My wife says she doesn't care where I get my appetite, as long as I eat at home.

    ^^ This.
  • lizzyliz79
    lizzyliz79 Posts: 43 Member
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    My husband went to the strippers for his bachelor party and I helped him pick dried candle wax out of his armpit hair when he got home! (He was up on stage lol). I don't feel at all that it's disrespectful and I trust him 100%! It's a fun time with his buddies and who am I to tell him what he can and can't do! How is it disrespectful for him to see other women naked? Do you get upset when he watches porn too?
  • JacquelineD35
    JacquelineD35 Posts: 279 Member
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    it's about trust, if your S/O is going to cheat they will cheat no matter what the situation is.
  • islandnutshel
    islandnutshel Posts: 1,143 Member
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    It's about seeing people with respect as whole human beings. When we lose that it is easy to justify almost anything.
  • terrappyn
    terrappyn Posts: 324 Member
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    He can go all day long if he wants. No matter to me either way. I also enjoy a night at the strip club once in a while with friends. :) Its a good time!
  • ajohn252
    ajohn252 Posts: 158
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    I think it all just depends on your relationship.
    Some people are cool with it, some are not (I also happen
    to be one of those people). If he knows you're not
    okay with it he should be equally as okay not doing it
    for your sake because I'm guessing you would do the
    same for him if he was uncomfortable with a situation.
  • ster81
    ster81 Posts: 249
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    it's going to happen, might as well give him the green light and let him do it. During one of my friends bachelor party, his fiance at the time said "no strippers". Peer pressure, alcohol, and getting clowned on by his friends made it happen anyways. Now he has to lie about it for the rest of his life hoping she'll never find out.

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