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I can see that. I can understand it to an extent.
With stuff like this though, I just look at it as: those two people aren't right for each other.

There are guys who will accept it and respect the fact. Actually, I know a few guys who feel the same. It all depends on the person.

Agreed.

Sorry to hear that you get overlooked because of that. I say good for you - stick to your convictions!

Why don't you have sex? The problem isn't that guys can't wait until you are in a committed relationship. The issue is if you got married, would it be bad or boring sex? Once a month? Never allowed to see you naked? Too risky. I could wait for a month or three but after that, its time to put out or find someone new.

I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.

If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.

LOL! Love this:flowerforyou:

I think it actually has more with the intent of both people. If you are dating with the intent to start a committed, monogamous relationship, then it’s ok to wait.

The last girl I had feelings for, we both wanted to take things slow and we did. We fooled around pretty heavy, and even got naked, there just wasn’t any home runs. The self-control added to a lot of the attraction in my opinion. For me, I’m looking for that type of relationship and don’t mind waiting…for a while. That’s not to say I would be up for waiting for marriage…but I would definitely be up for waiting until we can both honestly look one another in the eyes and tell each other we love each other and mean it whole-heartedly. I’ve had my wild crazy fun, and I’m glad to have made it thru them and still be disease free….I’m actually at the point now where I’d rather wait, get to know someone, and ask them to share blood test results…because when you know your partner is clean, you can really get freaky and have some awesome peace of mind. Because guess what folks, it’s not like when you go fishing, you can’t just throw it back once you catch it!

Now, on the flip side, both men and women date with no intention of having a commitment, so they are the ones that likely want to hop in the sack soon.

Just remember, eating and exercise isn't the only health you folks need to look out for....be safe in the sack too!

We need way more information. You might be hyping yourself up if you think you're the most amazing chick ever.

Not saying you are, but you might be using the no-sex thing as an excuse. Maybe you have bad breath?

I think it actually has more with the intent of both people. If you are dating with the intent to start a committed, monogamous relationship, then it’s ok to wait.

The last girl I had feelings for, we both wanted to take things slow and we did. We fooled around pretty heavy, and even got naked, there just wasn’t any home runs. The self-control added to a lot of the attraction in my opinion. For me, I’m looking for that type of relationship and don’t mind waiting…for a while. That’s not to say I would be up for waiting for marriage…but I would definitely be up for waiting until we can both honestly look one another in the eyes and tell each other we love each other and mean it whole-heartedly. I’ve had my wild crazy fun, and I’m glad to have made it thru them and still be disease free….I’m actually at the point now where I’d rather wait, get to know someone, and ask them to share blood test results…because when you know your partner is clean, you can really get freaky and have some awesome peace of mind. Because guess what folks, it’s not like when you go fishing, you can’t just throw it back once you catch it!

Now, on the flip side, both men and women date with no intention of having a commitment, so they are the ones that likely want to hop in the sack soon.

Just remember, eating and exercise isn't the only health you folks need to look out for....be safe in the sack too!

LOVE all of this

No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT

Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.


Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin

Wait. I thought you were dating some guy with kids. So how are you overlooked? Maybe post some more cryptic threads and we can figure out your drama.

Are you sure you aren't sending mixed messages? That can make guys pass you by as well....