Wives/Girlfriends and Gentlemens Clubs......

pawnstarNate
pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
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ok, here's the deal....My wife has mentioned several times over the course of the past few months that we should get a sitter for the kiddos and go to a strip club. What does that mean?

A little wifey background....she's the jealous type, if I comment about how another woman looks, it better be a derogatory comment or I'm in the doghouse for a day or two. So, I don't get it......who's going to get in more trouble at a strip club....me or her?
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  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    If she's the jealous type, the strip club is not the place to take her.


    Although, in my experience, women get FAR MORE attention than men at strip clubs. Maybe this is one of those ridiculous lady tests.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    What does that mean?

    Did you ask her?
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    GO!!!! HAVE FUN!!!
  • FitFlipRunner
    FitFlipRunner Posts: 66 Member
    Yeah ask her. "closed mouths don't get fed"
  • erinfog
    erinfog Posts: 95 Member
    i like strip clubs so i would go with my husband. we both appreciate the female body and i'm not really jealous. but idk it seems like a trap if she's a jealous person. or maybe she's just trying to get over her insecurities. ask her.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    That is a very odd request from a jealous woman.

    I'd totally go, but I don't have a jealous bone in my body.
  • magj0y
    magj0y Posts: 1,911 Member
    easy.

    ask your friends where the worst strip club is and take her there. some strip clubs don't care what you look like while others hire only people with great bodies with dancing skillz.

    maybe she wants to see how a lapdance is done so she can do that for you?
  • 4x4play
    4x4play Posts: 200 Member
    I would just ask her. I would go to the strip club with my man!
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I enjoy going to the strip club with my SOs however I am not the jealous type. I once went to a club with another couple who had major insecurities and it ended horribly!!
  • TraciStivers
    TraciStivers Posts: 116 Member
    i like strip clubs so i would go with my husband. we both appreciate the female body and i'm not really jealous. but idk it seems like a trap if she's a jealous person. or maybe she's just trying to get over her insecurities. ask her.

    Agreed, it wouldn't be unusual for some. But if she is jealous, that would throw up all kinds of red flags. Maybe she is considering or curious about being with a woman. Don't suggest that, because she'll just read all kinds of stuff into it. But try to find out why she has a sudden interest.
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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  • SarahSmiles2004
    SarahSmiles2004 Posts: 66 Member
    If she's the jealous type, the strip club is not the place to take her.


    Although, in my experience, women get FAR MORE attention than men at strip clubs. Maybe this is one of those ridiculous lady tests.

    I would honestly ask her before going to the strip club and if she is completely 100% ok with going and realizing there will be pretty ladies and you WILL be looking at them - I mean come on, who can't stare at those places? - then go. I went with my bf and we had a blast. I definitely got more attention than he did. It was fun, enjoyable and just that. FUN...it's not for finding a new gf/wife or bf/husband. it's just eye candy and a way to get "going" if you will.
  • embercakez
    embercakez Posts: 141
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.

    this...and maybe she is lookin' for a little lady lovin?
  • JohnMessmer
    JohnMessmer Posts: 536
    The single most possessive woman I know, loves going to the Strip Club with her husband. I can't explain it, but they have invited my wife and I on multiple occasions. I say, if she wants to go and you want to go, then go and have fun.
  • still_crafty
    still_crafty Posts: 682 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.

    this...and maybe she is lookin' for a little lady lovin?

    I'm looking for some lady lovin . . . how YOU doin? :flowerforyou:
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.

    What happen to "just break up"?
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    I'm sure there are a million and one things you could do together that would have better outcomes than that.
    Get creative.....what would you like to do with her?
    What will matter a year from now?
    Times spent together is important...how you spend your time is important.

    I went rollerblading at a new rec trail with my husband last night, then we went to a Greek restaurant with a great atmosphere last night. Great fun, great food, great conversation.....and we are smiling at each-other today.

    Can't wait for the next date.
  • peachhunting
    peachhunting Posts: 59 Member
    Just don't head to the ATM and leave her alone for 30 minutes while your in VIP
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.

    this...and maybe she is lookin' for a little lady lovin?

    That has crossed my mind because she has mentioned "you'll have to pay for my lap dance". Anywho...it was mentioned again last night and I just kind of laugh it off and say...Whatever. Will probably have to have a lil talkie with her about it and see if she's serious or not
  • workhardplayhard
    workhardplayhard Posts: 41 Member
    that sounds like a trap......
  • GamerGurl729
    GamerGurl729 Posts: 286 Member
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    Definitely this!

    If she's jealous don't take her there. She's probably testing you in some way. Women are manipulative like that.
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    If she's the jealous type, the strip club is not the place to take her.


    Although, in my experience, women get FAR MORE attention than men at strip clubs. Maybe this is one of those ridiculous lady tests.

    This.

    I don't take issue with couple's going to strip clubs, but if your wife is the jealous type, that sounds like a minefield for you.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    It's a trap! Go ahead and tell her YOU know where one is and see!
  • PittShkr
    PittShkr Posts: 1,000 Member
    ok, here's the deal....My wife has mentioned several times over the course of the past few months that we should get a sitter for the kiddos and go to a strip club. What does that mean?

    A little wifey background....she's the jealous type, if I comment about how another woman looks, it better be a derogatory comment or I'm in the doghouse for a day or two. So, I don't get it......who's going to get in more trouble at a strip club....me or her?

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  • alladream
    alladream Posts: 261 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.


    Nah, I can't go along with this comment as being true all the time: when I used to feel insecure about a partner, I would want to go everywhere with them, pretty much to 'make sure' they weren't being 'bad' somehow. I outgrew it, but it is a really common tactic of abusers and controlling partners. So, if a partner wants to 'do everything' with you and it isn't just for the fun you have together, it is often so they can know what you are doing.
  • slackerwoman
    slackerwoman Posts: 261 Member
    If she's the jealous type, the strip club is not the place to take her.


    Although, in my experience, women get FAR MORE attention than men at strip clubs. Maybe this is one of those ridiculous lady tests.

    I totally agree with this statement. I'm curious though as to why she would even suggest it if she is the jealous type unless she has a girl/girl fantasy. My husband and I enjoy going to them from time to time but I am not the jealous type and I enjoy watching the girls give him a lapdance. For some reason it turns me on. LOL. But I also like the girls giving me lap dances too. :)
  • millions0fpeaches
    millions0fpeaches Posts: 195 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.

    this...and maybe she is lookin' for a little lady lovin?

    I'm looking for some lady lovin . . . how YOU doin? :flowerforyou:
    *ahem* EIGHT DAYS.

    I like going to the titty bars, but I'm not really a jealous chick either. Never went with my ex husband though, but it was because he didn't want to... Good luck to you sir.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    She can't be too jealous if she wants to go to a strip club with you.


    Nah, I can't go along with this comment as being true all the time: when I used to feel insecure about a partner, I would want to go everywhere with them, pretty much to 'make sure' they weren't being 'bad' somehow. I outgrew it, but it is a really common tactic of abusers and controlling partners. So, if a partner wants to 'do everything' with you and it isn't just for the fun you have together, it is often so they can know what you are doing.

    I got the impression from the OP that the wife suggested going in the first place, not that she just wants to tag along.
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
    ok, here's the deal....My wife has mentioned several times over the course of the past few months that we should get a sitter for the kiddos and go to a strip club. What does that mean?

    A little wifey background....she's the jealous type, if I comment about how another woman looks, it better be a derogatory comment or I'm in the doghouse for a day or two. So, I don't get it......who's going to get in more trouble at a strip club....me or her?

    God this is one of my fantasies!!! maybe she is trying to live a little on the wild side. Maybe she thinks it is one of your fantasies? I'd ask for clarification...I've made it clear to my bf, I want to go with him to a strip joint and get turned on with him...but he has to take it out on me...I don't want to end the night thinking he wants the stripper more than me. If he can deliver on that we're going to have an awesome time...lol So, get her to tell you how the date is supposed to go then make it come true...sounds like hella fun to me.

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