Harsh opinions wanted!!!

Not everyone is hitting on you. Some people are just nice. Don't flatter yourself.

As Roseanna Roseanna Danna Said..... "Nevermind"

oooh ooh ooh i think i figured it out!.......they want to take you home - not to have sex with you, but to see that glorious bathroom mirror that you take your pictures in front of.

so many people are mean...ugh....most people's perception of themselves is not congruent with how others see them, and i think she was looking at ways to improve herself because she knows she isn't perfect.

I really have no idea what this thread is about.

:indifferent: Me too. I came in here to give a harsh opinion. Now I'm all like WT??? :grumble:

whatever you decide in life, let contraceptives be involved.

Dumb thread

Ok, so I've noticed that since I've lost weight, I can't go out without anyone trying to take me home. Now, I have mixed feelings about this and it's not limited to guys. My.girlfriends also try (I'm not offended and actually flattered). My ordeal is that I don't truly believe that it's because I'm attractive. I've met beautiful girls who are overweight who get attention and, have friends worth awesome bodiesv and terrible faces and bad attitudes. All of whom get hit on. I want to be the total package so I would greatly appreciate any critism to ground me and give me something to work toward. I'm being conscious about who I am and trying not to become a *kitten* while I lose weight like I've seen do many times before. I want to ground myself and start humble.

Okay. So I don't even know where to start here. I would never make comments of this nature under normal circumstances. But you did just throw a slow pitch over home plate, so naturally I feel inclined to swing at it.

I don't know what your intent was with this topic, other than to hear people tell you you're hot and wonderful and whatever. This isn't going to be that response. My response would be that you need to quit trying to feed your self esteem from the opinions of others. Otherwise, life is going to suck when you're forty and nobody's interested in feeding your shallow ego. Looks are only gonna get you so far in life. When those are gone, you'd better have something to back it up. Based on the arrogance of the comments above, I don't believe you currently do. So you might want to work on this in your free time instead of hanging out at bars where darn near anyone could get picked up if the hour is late enough and the guys are desperate enough.

And if you're worried about becoming one of those *kitten* while you lose weight, I'd suggest running your posts past an honest friend (preferably an overweight one) before you put them on MFP. Because you really are coming off as an incredibly shallow, narcisistic person with zero self esteem looking for someone to tell you how pretty you are.

Honestly? I'd rather be me fat than you skinny. And that's my harsh opinion.

My strike was for saying what I did to my now husband on our first date. Sooooooo I think the strikes can be a variety of things. :laugh:

But they frown upon being mean too.

I don't think it has anything to do with the way you look. Maybe it's that you are more confident. A lot of guys like confidence in a girl for a relationship, but if they're just wanting to get in your pants they look for the most emotionally vulnerable woman they can find. Just don't go around thinking you are better than everyone else and everything should be fine.

This I agree with totally!

This entire thread is a really transparent plea for attention. Hows that for harsh