Why do people.......

Reason #1: Getting unsolicited advice backfires for me.
To answer this same question for at least the 4th time, it's because some people (myself) don't like getting unsolicited advice. I'm doing the best I can and I barely making it as is. If I tried to do everything perfectly, it'd stress me out. To make the stressed out situation worse, I'm a stress binger. Basically my world works like this:

1.Open diary
2. Receive one comment like "Looks good but you should eat less sodium"
3. Start lying because I think people are watching me
4. Binge from stress of being watched plus other life stresses (medical school)
5. Quit because I get frustrated.

Sounds exaggerated? For you it probably is. For me, this is a very unpleasant reality that I am coping with. I am a messed up person. I accept this and do what I can to work around it.

Reason 2: I just find it creepy to know I can be watched

Again, probably not most people's first reaction. However, I just get this eerie vibe whenever I think about the idea that a total stranger can see what I'm eating. If you don't great for you. I'm not you and you're not me. Go for the open diary hip hip hooray just leave me out of it.

Reason 3: No one on this forum can agree on what is "the best" and people love to "help" when you're not doing what has worked for them.

Vegan, low carb, no carb, high carb, high protein, low protein, starvation, vegetarian, earth friends meat eater, low sodium, supplements everywhere, lean shake, skinny girl, no alcohol, no pork, no red meat, no fish, paleio, whole grains, portion control, binge days, more veggies, more fruit, no wheat, gluten free, weight watchers, soy free, almond, milk, whole milk, raw diet, no juice, no soda, no sugar, low calorie, eat more to weigh less, no splenda...

:sad: MAKE IT STOP MY HEAD HURTS!

The only thing we have all agreed on so far is that drinking water is probably a good idea.

If I strictly advice from just three of those listed above all at once, I could have a diet that is totally impossible for me and probably unhealthy because it would involve eating nothing.

Reason 4: Why would I open myself to being judged if I know I won't like it?

Just yesterday a girl started a topic complaining all her friend's ate crap and that because they did they would never get anywhere. Aside form the fact that this is not my experience (I ate ice cream and lost 10 lbs, oh lordy!), Just reading the post stressed me out. I replied a few times to the topic and then realized that it was better for me to just let it go because it was not worth it.

Other people on this forum have received mail to the effect of "had a cocktail last night? YOU'LL BE FAT FOREVER!"

I don't like being judged for what I eat. I try very hard to to judge others for what they eat. Therefore, opening my diary to a potential problem doesn't seem like a good decision to me.

Reason 5: I'm not a people person.

I have friends on this website. I like hearing their silly little comments and laughing with them about life. However, when it comes to goal setting for exercise and weight loss, I have a VERY VERY internal locus of control. I don't want help because only I can do this.

TL:DR: Because I don't want too.

Edited because I was being rude to the OP. I apologize.

That's just it -- I don't want advice, and I don't want my diary to be scrutinized. I've heard awful stories here about people's diaries being picked apart by strangers. Not my cup of tea.

Bc I eat the same thing every day, lol

Don't be a whiney baby because someone comments that you're eating garbage, but want the body of a god.

If you want the body of a god, eat like a god.

If you just want to loose weight then just eat less and slightly smarter.

Otherwise, stop cryin'. Esh. Get realistic ideas if what your body/weight/ and food do for each other. They should line up.

I have mine open to friends, but I recently turned off the postings to my wall when I "complete" a day, because, frankly, the "good jobs" are pretty much useless to me, especially when I know I didn't do such a great job, and I only really want advice if I ask for it, although I do appreciate it when it is offered. I don't tend to peruse other people's diaries at all unless asked to. Just my own personal preference... I know what I am supposed to be doing. If I don't do it, I know that, too. I realize that some people don't, and if they ask for help, I will gladly give it, but for ME, being offered unsolicited advice puts me on the defensive, because of my OWN issues, so I try to avoid that as I can while I work through said issues...

if that even makes sense. lol...

I have mine open to the public. I love advice from friends and others... even if they don't exactly match what I find works best. Some advice works... some doesn't. Right now... I have a GREAT set of friends, who is very supportive (even if they don't eat the same way). Right now, I follow the doctor's orders of 1500 calories a day. Sometimes I eat a few of my exercise calories back... but, I never eat them all back (or anywhere close).

who wants cake

I personally don't see the need to keep my diary open. I have found MFP fairly easy since I started and have stuck to my calories and have been losing. If I was struggling or needed constant advise I would consider keeping it open. However I hate the idea of people looking at my diary and offering suggestions especially if I have not asked for it, Some people might appreciate this and it might motivate them. However I am the type of person who would probably become a bit defensive and it could put me off the site as it reminds me of appointments with the dietician where I had to show my food diary. Everyone is different.

I don't share mine because I eat low fat raw vegan 80/10/10 style and most people don't understand it and take it upon themselves to criticise and tell me it's dangerous, I don't get enough x y or z, or I eat too much a b or c, I don't eat any so-called 'high quality protein' i.e. rotting animal flesh etc etc etc.

I don't need the hassle. I'm here for support and encouragement, not criticism and phoney advice from self-proclaimed experts. My time is better spent doing things other than justifying myself to a bunch of nosey strangers.

Each to their own I say.

I personaly don't want advice on my day to day food diary. If I want advice about something I will then post a topic for everyone to see. What works for some people may not work for me and visa versa.