What's the meanest thing someone said to you?

Ive been with my husband for almost 12 years. His mother has ALWAYS made comments about my weight. And shes a bigger lady. I have always ignored them and tried to be polite. Well on our wedding day, when im in my dress and think i feel beautiful (as every girl wants to feel on her wedding day) she turns to me, pats my stomach and says "it looks like you have a baby in there". For the first time ever I couldnt bite my tongue, i turned around, patted her stomach and said "well if im having a baby then you must be having twins!" and turned and walked away. Makes me so sad that she hurt my self esteem like that on my wedding day, the worst day to do that to a girl. And 2 yrs later i had a baby. She came to visit when my daughter was 6 weeks old. She told me that i needed to put myself on a serious diet, yada yada yada. Seriously? My kid is 6 weeks old, get off my back. I'll be seeing her for thanksgiving in a few weeks for the first time in a year. Interested in hearing what she says when she sees ive lost 90 lbs.

I can't remember anything off the top of my head. Just typical fatty comments. Really only as a kid. I haven't had anyone say something flat out rude or hateful about my body size since high school.

I've had some pretty embarrassing things said to me, always being the "big girl" I never "got used to it" like most people do. For a while, I used to use humor as a way to cop with my own weight. I couldn't look at myself in a full length mirror naked & be happy & STILL can't, even after loosing 30lbs!
I remember this specific event the summer of 2011 I went on a family vacation, we stopped at a local Walmart to check it out & walking in, there were 3 younger kids, in high school I would say maybe 9th or 10th grade standing by the front door, as I walked in I heard one say (& I was wearing a knee length white dress) "she looks like a giant marshmallow" & the others snickered at the comment. I was so embarrassed and angry! I also remember another even that really kicked me where it hurt, jump starting my weight loss, was when I was pregnant with my daughter & her father & I weren't together. He, for some reason, told another girl her body was "bangin" when she said "and your baby moms isn't?" (she assumed we were still together) he said "not really" well, that hit home from me, specifically because him & I were together for about a year, well, he didn't see me fully naked EVER until I was about 6 months pregnant! He always told me that my body size didn't matter & that he loved me for me, then turns around and bashes me, knowing how hard I was on myself about my own weight, not only that but knowing how many things I had tried to do to loose weight; from being a vegetarian to almost starving to death.
Now, 2 years later, I have lost 30lbs (since Jan. 1st 2012) just simply by changing my diet & exercising regularly! That's all I did. That's it! Pretty simple. I am not to my goal weight, I've got about 50lbs left to go until I reach my goal, but WHEN I do, I know I will be happy again.

I'm not TRYING to be mean, but I will rub my fiance's belly and say "buddha belly".....for me, it's just a term of endearment..he calls me a cow like ALL the time.

My mother once told me that if she had gotten pregnant with me one year later, she would have aborted me. (I was born in '72, one year before Roe v. Wade)

I told her I would have fully supported her choice because then I wouldn't have had to have her as a mother. *sigh*

bump.

"Holy *kitten* what happened to you!? You used to be hot."

My wife told me once that her worst fear in life was that our son was going to grow up and be just like me.

FMN.

That's horrible

The day I returned to work from maternity leave (5 wks pp.) A regular customer asked me when I was going to have the baby......I was really thin before getting pregnant....I was so close to crying and I seriously almost wanted to find a new job where no one knew I was thin before...I still see that guy and always ignore him.

My ex said many mean things to me such as: 'your belly (gesturing exaggerated belly) makes me want to puke' 'you look like a whale' 'i'm ashamed walking around with you' Mind you, I was between my normal weight and 20 pounds over.

This Halloween, at a costume store, the girl working there suggested that they had a plus size section...The costume I wore was a large and fit me perfectly...

Apart from recieving a load of the usual fat guy jokes, I also had:
' Are you wearing your dads shirt ? ' (those school uniform shirts)
' My parents weigh less than you '

"You'll never know what true love is until you have children." Or "your own children."

My husband and I are infertile. At this point, even if we could have children we wouldn't. So, I guess I will never know what love is.

Can't remember the meanest things someone said to me.
If we rely on what people say to us in order to achieve happiness its
going to be one hell of a sad life.
Dr Wayne Dyer quote : "I don't care what other people think it's none of my business"

If this fails then try to add humor. Couple of years back I was in a fast food eatery
with my girlfriend who was 15 year younger than me. ( 42 and 27)
An elderly woman while laughing said that CHILDREN normally like this meal.
So I replied well what about OLD people like you what do they like. hehehe

my parents used to tell me "Erika, if you don't lose weight, boys aren't gonna like you."

As a Hungarian I'd like to apologize for the Hungarian lady. But I can't say I'm surprised lol we are very direct and to the point but it's not meant to be insulting. It's just the way ppl in Europe are. It's practically the first thing ppl comment on after not seeing you for a while. Usually a nice thing like oh you've lost weight but the older generation will comment on weight gain too. My Husband's Turkish great aunt told me at dinner after knowing me for a day that at my age she was only 50kg and decided to help me out by telling me not to eat too much bread lol thanks! Oh and someone had to translate for us so that was awkward. And I wasn't even big I was 5'9" and 145.