What's the meanest thing someone said to you?

When are you due? Yes, four times in a month....this is when I decided it was time for a change. I started running and went from 165lbs to 130 in less than a year. I guess sometimes a mean comment is what I need to get motivated.

I had the pregnant thing for a few months, mind you my baby was only 8wks old, aren't you still suppose to have a pregnant pooch by then?? I didn't take any offence to that by my husband did, he was very offended:laugh: :laugh:

The one that has impressed my memory the most was when I was in high school, I wasn't huge but not tiny either, I went into a little shop and I had the owner bluntly take the clothes off my hands that I was going to try on and said "no,no, no,no! to small for you"
Thank you very much, just made my day.......:laugh:

"You'll never know what true love is until you have children." Or "your own children."

My husband and I are infertile. At this point, even if we could have children we wouldn't. So, I guess I will never know what love is.

Oh, I get that kind of thing all the time and it bugs me! I once had a co-worker tell me I might as well just kill myself now if I wasn't going to have kids!

My mother said to me (after I had run away from home, and then came back on Christmas Eve) - "I don't know how the hell any man could pay to sleep with a fat pig like you."

I love my mom. She's not a toxic mother like so many here seem to have. I don't know why that came out of her then, especially since only a few hours before, she'd told me it was the happiest Christmas Eve she'd ever had, because I was back home. I guess the shock of finding out what I'd done while on the street, really got to her and she had to say SOMETHING. I don't know.

I was 10years old at school and a boy in my class said to me (in front of everyone).....
"you're so fat, you can't even fit through the doors at Jenny Craig"
There was no need for him to say this!

That has stayed with me for years.

A few come to mind:

1. in middle school walking to buses at the end of the day and boys are singing to me (to the tune of Pretty Woman) Twinkie Woman walking down the street, I went home and cried.
2. In high school me and friends going out on a group date (my date was a blind date) and I was described by one one of the boys to my date as " she looks kinda like a WWF wrestler", found that out later in the night.
3. I come from a family of large women and my Grandfather says to me at a family reunion..."Wow, why are you sooo big, don't you plan to do something about that?"
4. In the breakroom at work, full of coworkers, a "friend" that I had just gone out to lunch with, says to someone "If you don't shutup, I am gonna have D sit on you cause she will crush you". That one burned.

All of these I am reading are so horrible, and it sucks to be on the receiving side of any of them. :grumble:

I always tell my staff in training, "Before you ask when it's due, be very, very sure....." and to remember that "They" are entitled to be treated with dignity, no matter how annoying they may be.

It helps (it also helps if *I* remember these things too when sorting out the mess my nurse made of my appointment book (etc) 'This Time!')

I don't know if this really classifies as mean to me anymore, but at the time it certainly seemed mean. A younger sister and I were visiting family in Alabama and my aunt was wanting to take some family pictures so we stood up with everyone, and she comes up to me and pulls me out of the picture telling me I am to fat and will ruin the picture of everyone else. Yes, these are not her exact words to me as it's been 45 years now, but I still remember and to this day I won't have my picture taken.

I don't know what I weighed at that time, but my family has always referred to me as the amazon due to my being taller O a lot taller) then the rest of my sisters and weighing more. Today I am 5'7 and weigh 160, and one sister, last summer called me tubby/. At what point does love override perfection?

This has been a hard topic to read.

My Grandma: Oh, you've been losing weight!
Me: Yeah, I have, thanks for noticing! *beaming with pride*
Grandma: Good thing it all came from your boobs!

I was utterly shocked. For her information, it was NOT from my boobs (which I am very proud of). They've actually gotten proportionally BIGGER. God. I also didn't like when she told me I was becoming a "lovely young lady" because she "was worried wouldn't"

My ex (who also lied to me, stole money from me, used me and turned out to be gay which I figured out anyways), once told me he didn't want to date anyone with bigger arms than him (maybe that says something about YOU and your puny arms!). He also broke up with me because of my weight, yet we still lived together because I was basically supporting him (I guess I had other issues at the time too..... :-/) I've learned a lot from that situation, though! But I've heard he's still a loser! lol