What's the meanest thing someone said to you?

I had an old fart one time ask me to roll down my window and when I did, he said "Just wanted to tell you how ugly you are. And how does your car keep moving with all that load it has to move around." I told him to go **** off and have a heart attack. Yeah mean of me to say but he was an *kitten* and what he said was uncalled for. I didn't do anything to him.

wow, some people are just plain idi-tic! remember, what goes around comes around.

A client came into my office a few weeks ago and said, "You're putting on weight, are you expecting?" I said no and stop talking to me, and he wouldn't let it go. This was after I'd lost 4.5 lbs my first week on MFP too.

I have a few the most recent was from a 'Professional" so she called her self.... I went in for some severe female issues and she all she could come up with was, "You are 300 pounds with all the hormones what do you expect!" with her tone and look I could have reached across her desk and slapped the sh** out of her. To make matters worse just so happened there was a big problem and I had to get surgery. I did get a second opinion and found one of the best GYN EVER. Dr Gabriel.... He's awesome.

Then also all the snide comments.. " You would be soo beautiful if you would just loose weight." _ REALLY I thought I would be ugly that's why I never did, LOL.

Or as a child " Your gonna be as big as the side of the house."
" Your gonna get as big as your granny."
"Once on the lips forever on the hips."
- At that time I was like 12 or 13 for real?

But these comments do hurt and affect us for a long long time.

There are several.
Here are a few that come to mind.

My dad got to the point that he tried to put both my brother and I on a soup diet and force us to go "walking" after school every day. My dad has always been very thin and athletic and I think I was 12, so I didn't walk as fast as he did...he was like several yards away...that wasn't so bad.

My bestfriend's cousin used to call me Samamoth, my name is Samantha....come to find out he actually had a crush on me, and after I lost a ton of weight he didn't really want anything to do with me.

When I was in first grade, I wasn't huge but I was starting to pack on the weight...well, I was in an after school day care and the older boys called me thunder woman and when I walked they act as if the world was shaking...and they'd fall to the ground yelling and screaming..

when i was in high school i was shy fat and ugly, every single morning i'd walk into homeroom and a girl would say the same thing every day without fail, "you are the ugliest most disgusting person i've ever seen, i don't know why you even bother getting out of bed in the morning, you should just kill yourself"

That was over 10 years ago now and i can still hear it as if it was yesterday, i don't think it's something i will ever forget

OMG! I thought we were all a bit nicer than that here in Brissy :mad:

Ex-boyfriends are just the worst.
Him: "so you're extremely kind, put everyone else first and are always thinking about how to make life easier for your friends.... you're so boring. why am i dating you? there's nothing interesting about you as a person."

Text while he's at a high school volleyball competition (he's a college coach and was scouting): the girls here have such nice *kitten*! let's get you on a program when I get back so that you'll have one too!

I'm a 28 year old law student... I'm never going to have the *kitten* of a 16 year old volleyball player.

Wow I can't believe people can be so mean

A few years back, someone i knew at the time called me "Bubba". I wanted to knock him on his *kitten* for that stupid comment, but i held back because he said it in front of a bunch of people, and i didn't want to make a scene.

A boyfriend in college, after our first 'intimate' experience:

You'd be so much hotter if you lost 15lbs. OMG! Fecker! Why did I put up with that ****e? So, I put on so much, I had 50 instead of 15 to lose!

He's a fat bald loser now. I love FB.

One time my husbands friends came over and we were all sitting in the living room talking about marriage and one unmarried friend said. " So all women do gain weight after marriage" i mean i had gained weight and i knew i was big but come on.

Another mean thing i head was towards someone else and i vigorously called the person to order. One girl was looking all good, she had just lost a lot of weight and someone said to her, " whats the point, you are going to gain it back in no time" i was so furious i told her where to get off

Letting me go first in a queue because of my condition! She thought i was pregnant!!!

My (current) boyfreind: "I woulden't say you are fat, just... sturdy"



A classmate in higschool called me "the greate whithe whale"

After the 1st ever time i met my boyfriends daughter she came down to him the next time and said wheres your friend fat sarah, but thats just his jealous ex gettin jabs in because she wasnt happy i met her, wouldnt exactly call size 10 uk fat but okay, plus she is really thin so i probably am compared to her

I'm about 50 lbs over weight. A few months ago when we had a family get together at my grandmother's, she patted my stomach and said, "Suck it in!" She then went on to explain, if I did that, my belly wouldn't look so big. She does the same type of thing to my mother. Tells my mom that she never thought she'd live to see the day when my mom would be so huge & 2 seconds later is trying to force coffee cake on her. It's all I can do not to tell her we're using food to comfort ourselves when she acts like a *****.

We were at a family cookout and my brother-in-law...ex BIL now...married to my husband's sister...anyways me and my mom was in the kitchen setting everything up and we tried a tiny piece of fish to make sure it was done...he came in at the same time and was like damn you fatazz cant wait another minute...ouch!