I want honest opinions?

You were way too skinny in the middle picture. You looked rather unhealthy. I like the 1st and 3rd pictures the best.

I'm in shock right not, that you put up with that crap from your boyfriend. I'm not bashing you but no man should talk like that to the person he is with. I love and support my wife no matter how big or small she is. I would NEVER in a million years tell her she needs to lose weight! Drop his sorry *kitten*.

in all honestly you did not look too big in the 1st pic-especially for your height.
i think thew middle pic is waay to skinny-you dont look healthy.
i think the last pic, you look best

Stay at your current weight, you look good!!!

I have to say I think you look most healthy in picture 1.
I'm 5ft7 and weighed 136 pounds and was a bit bony. I was 146 pounds after I had my first child and that's where I'm heading back to.
Hope you can find somewhere you're happy at.

I liked the first pic as well. Third is good too. But the middle you seemed a little unhealthy.

My honest opinion is you look great now. You actually didn't even look like you needed to lose any weight at 140. At 120 you looked a little too thin, but I think you have now found a really nice place. You are neither too big or too small.

With this being said, I think you need to decide what looks and feels best on you. Who cares what I think...or your boyfriend for that matter. When I was in the obese category, my boyfriend told me how beautiful I was at any weight even when I felt disgusting.

This right here. Don't worry so much about what anyone here thinks - what matters is what makes YOU happy and secure in your own skin.

Beauty isn't about a weight - it's about who you are as a person!

If your BF can't roll with that, maybe it's time for you to find someone who can.

Your perfect now. Middle pic your to skinny and look unhealthy.

When I started my weight loss I was 5'8" and 140-145 lbs. Here's a picture, sorry its not very good, but I didn't think about taking before and after pics.

I really want to get back to the middle pic, but I want to know what other people honestly think? Because when I started it was because I felt big and my boyfriend told me I needed to lose weight. Then by the time I got to my low weight everybody told me I was too thin now and needed to gain weight. Because of that I started getting stressed and eating too much and it put me right back to unhappiness. What are your opinions?

I think you need to worry about how you feel. Your boyfriend sounds like an @$$hole and he can't and shouldn't tell you you need to lose weight.

I'm 5'6" and my goal is 145. IMO, your middle picture is way too skinny....if I saw you on the beach I'd think you were depriving yourself.

There's one of those pinterest/fb pictures that says, "I wish I was the size I was back when I thought I was fat." And it's so true, usually people are never happy with their weight....ever.

I hate to be presumptuous, but I'd be interested to know how a therapy session would go for you. Because you're asking what we think and because you let your jerk boyfriend tell you you're fat, I just think you're not in the right mindset.

When I look at the workout DVDs I use and women in fitness, those are the bodies I envy; they're curvy and muscular.

Good luck with your journey.

First picture was the best.....
and Yes...it was an honest answer!

I think you look great in all of them but the last pic is the best :-)

omg i would drop the boyfriend! you looked perfectly healthy!!! your start weight was healthy especially for your height! im only 5'3 and i would be classed as healthy at your start weight xx

Sandy - From this guy's perspective, you look way too gaunt in the second photo - sickly as another put it on here. Both the first and third photos, you look great! Which do you feel better at? As for your boyfriend - perhaps he needs to learn more about health and nutrition before he starts harping on you. I assume that that's him in your profile pics. If he's not comfortable with you at a healthy weight for your height, then it is time for him to go. Would he wish cancer or another disease on you? Why is it okay for him to try to push an eating disorder on you? You are young and beautiful and I'm sure you'd have no problem finding a guy that will appreciate for who you are and not what he thinks he wants. Trust me, at your age, guys usually still have a LOT of growing up to do still. LOL Best of luck!

The only thing you need to lose is the boyfriend!! What a jerk to tell you that you need to lose weight!!!
I'm 5ft7 and my goal weight is 140lbs!! The first pic you look happy & healthy, the middle pic is far too thin and even the last pic still looks very slim to me.
Be happy in your own skin hun x

Okay first of all. In your first picture.. you look good. I feel like thats your normal weight. In the middle.. You honestly look really scruny, and pale. not healthy
I think you look good now in your last picture. You should maintain that weight, and just build muscle.

You need to start loving yourself, I know it's so easy to say but trust me it gets easier when you start working on you, and pointing out your positive flaws.
I'm starting to accept my body- it took me forever; years & years after so much self destruction with drugs, and so many other addictions. I think I've tolerated so much ****, and pain from people that I've reached a point that I know what I deserve, and I won't tolerate **** from anybody. I won't be miserable & I definitely won't cry for someone that will never cry for me.
My best advice to you is to work on yourself for now on, dump your "boyfriend" (if you can ever call him that) If he seriously is more concerned about your weight than that tells you alot. No guy should have the right to put you down like that.
Never settle for less. You're just at a tiff in this point of your life-- this is momentarily


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