I want honest opinions?
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I think you look great in the first pic, good in the 3rd and to skinny in the middle one xxx0
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You were way too skinny in the middle picture. You looked rather unhealthy. I like the 1st and 3rd pictures the best.0
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I think you look better in the 3rd picture.0
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I'm in shock right not, that you put up with that crap from your boyfriend. I'm not bashing you but no man should talk like that to the person he is with. I love and support my wife no matter how big or small she is. I would NEVER in a million years tell her she needs to lose weight! Drop his sorry *kitten*.0
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I agree with most of what has been said. Best advice to forget the scales, hit the weights and develop some strength and power. You won't miss the boyfriend very long!
Agrees with this!
There is a lot more to being healthy than being thin. Do some weight training, eat lean proteins, do lots of fun things!0 -
in all honestly you did not look too big in the 1st pic-especially for your height.
i think thew middle pic is waay to skinny-you dont look healthy.
i think the last pic, you look best0 -
IMO you look great in the first pic! Good luck in whatever you choose to do but kick the bf to the curb0
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Stay at your current weight, you look good!!!0
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Eh honestly, I like the first picture of you the best. You looked cuter there imo.0
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I have to say I think you look most healthy in picture 1.
I'm 5ft7 and weighed 136 pounds and was a bit bony. I was 146 pounds after I had my first child and that's where I'm heading back to.
Hope you can find somewhere you're happy at.0 -
Don't drop the weight. Drop the boyfriend. You are beautiful with some meat on you.0
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I liked the first pic as well. Third is good too. But the middle you seemed a little unhealthy.0
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My honest opinion is you look great now. You actually didn't even look like you needed to lose any weight at 140. At 120 you looked a little too thin, but I think you have now found a really nice place. You are neither too big or too small.
With this being said, I think you need to decide what looks and feels best on you. Who cares what I think...or your boyfriend for that matter. When I was in the obese category, my boyfriend told me how beautiful I was at any weight even when I felt disgusting.0 -
My honest opinion is you look great now. You actually didn't even look like you needed to lose any weight at 140. At 120 you looked a little too thin, but I think you have now found a really nice place. You are neither too big or too small.
With this being said, I think you need to decide what looks and feels best on you. Who cares what I think...or your boyfriend for that matter. When I was in the obese category, my boyfriend told me how beautiful I was at any weight even when I felt disgusting.
Beauty isn't about a weight - it's about who you are as a person!
If your BF can't roll with that, maybe it's time for you to find someone who can.0 -
My Honest Opinion is drop the the boy friend and enjoy your life - you are beautiful!0
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Your perfect now. Middle pic your to skinny and look unhealthy.0
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Hello,
The first picture of you is absolutely the best picture. I have to be honest you are a young, beautiful girl who shouldn’t be listening to a boyfriend who obviously has big issues and is a bit of a control freak. I cannot believe MFP has allowed this pictures on this site if I am being honest as I think you look really unhealthy, bordering on an eating disorder. Remember to be healthy and love yourself for who you are don’t ever let anybody influence how you feel about yourself. It’s not normal.
I hope you find happiness in yourself and please go eat a big Mac.0 -
When I started my weight loss I was 5'8" and 140-145 lbs. Here's a picture, sorry its not very good, but I didn't think about taking before and after pics.
I really want to get back to the middle pic, but I want to know what other people honestly think? Because when I started it was because I felt big and my boyfriend told me I needed to lose weight. Then by the time I got to my low weight everybody told me I was too thin now and needed to gain weight. Because of that I started getting stressed and eating too much and it put me right back to unhappiness. What are your opinions?
I think you need to worry about how you feel. Your boyfriend sounds like an @$$hole and he can't and shouldn't tell you you need to lose weight.
I'm 5'6" and my goal is 145. IMO, your middle picture is way too skinny....if I saw you on the beach I'd think you were depriving yourself.
There's one of those pinterest/fb pictures that says, "I wish I was the size I was back when I thought I was fat." And it's so true, usually people are never happy with their weight....ever.
I hate to be presumptuous, but I'd be interested to know how a therapy session would go for you. Because you're asking what we think and because you let your jerk boyfriend tell you you're fat, I just think you're not in the right mindset.
When I look at the workout DVDs I use and women in fitness, those are the bodies I envy; they're curvy and muscular.
Good luck with your journey.0 -
Quit listening to what everyone else thinks about your weight and go with what YOU feel comfortable with. Any boyfriend who tells you you need to lose weight (especially at 140 lbs) is bad news. There's 200 lbs you could lose really fast and be MUCH better off. :bigsmile:
Good one!0 -
First picture was the best.....
and Yes...it was an honest answer!0 -
A little too thin in the middle picture, not very healthy looking at all.0
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I think you look great in all of them but the last pic is the best :-)0
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I think you look best in the first pic, worst in the second.0
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omg i would drop the boyfriend! you looked perfectly healthy!!! your start weight was healthy especially for your height! im only 5'3 and i would be classed as healthy at your start weight xx0
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I can't see your pics cuz of being at work...BUT....if your boyfriend told YOU to lose weight, I think, he's the one YOU need to LOSE!
You have to do things for yourself, depending on how you feel and not be dictated by someone else, especially a boyfriend...very lame and selfish on his part.
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Sandy - From this guy's perspective, you look way too gaunt in the second photo - sickly as another put it on here. Both the first and third photos, you look great! Which do you feel better at? As for your boyfriend - perhaps he needs to learn more about health and nutrition before he starts harping on you. I assume that that's him in your profile pics. If he's not comfortable with you at a healthy weight for your height, then it is time for him to go. Would he wish cancer or another disease on you? Why is it okay for him to try to push an eating disorder on you? You are young and beautiful and I'm sure you'd have no problem finding a guy that will appreciate for who you are and not what he thinks he wants. Trust me, at your age, guys usually still have a LOT of growing up to do still. LOL Best of luck!0
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much too skiny in middle picture0
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The only thing you need to lose is the boyfriend!! What a jerk to tell you that you need to lose weight!!!
I'm 5ft7 and my goal weight is 140lbs!! The first pic you look happy & healthy, the middle pic is far too thin and even the last pic still looks very slim to me.
Be happy in your own skin hun x0 -
Firstly tell your boyfriend to excuse my language suck his own ****! Secondly I think you do not look healthy in the middle picture you do not need to loose weight try and build muscle instead0
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Okay first of all. In your first picture.. you look good. I feel like thats your normal weight. In the middle.. You honestly look really scruny, and pale. not healthy
I think you look good now in your last picture. You should maintain that weight, and just build muscle.
You need to start loving yourself, I know it's so easy to say but trust me it gets easier when you start working on you, and pointing out your positive flaws.
I'm starting to accept my body- it took me forever; years & years after so much self destruction with drugs, and so many other addictions. I think I've tolerated so much ****, and pain from people that I've reached a point that I know what I deserve, and I won't tolerate **** from anybody. I won't be miserable & I definitely won't cry for someone that will never cry for me.
My best advice to you is to work on yourself for now on, dump your "boyfriend" (if you can ever call him that) If he seriously is more concerned about your weight than that tells you alot. No guy should have the right to put you down like that.
Never settle for less. You're just at a tiff in this point of your life-- this is momentarily
love is a ruthless game0
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