The Unattainable soul mate..................

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  • DeeDel32
    DeeDel32 Posts: 542 Member
    The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.

    And hiding in bushes. Just watch out for the thorns.
  • whitneyps7
    whitneyps7 Posts: 409 Member
    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....

    no
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.

    And hiding in bushes. Just watch out for the thorns.

    And the coons.
  • DeeDel32
    DeeDel32 Posts: 542 Member
    The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.

    And hiding in bushes. Just watch out for the thorns.

    And the coons.

    And the patrolling cop cars.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    The trick is to wear earth tones and only go peeping after dark.

    And hiding in bushes. Just watch out for the thorns.

    And the coons.

    And the patrolling cop cars.

    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.
  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.

    You can't chase what you can't see!
  • Maddalen101
    Maddalen101 Posts: 307 Member
    Several times I thought I did.
    but it was not the case.
    Stuff like this is mostly a distraction from reality.
    Just put it aside - the feelings will always be there.
    Just no need to obsess over them.
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.

    You can't chase what you can't see!

    They have flashlights....and sometimes dogs.....
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Several times I thought I did.
    but it was not the case.
    Stuff like this is mostly a distraction from reality.
    Just put it aside - the feelings will always be there.
    Just no need to obsess over them.

    Thats the key. The only way.
  • DeeDel32
    DeeDel32 Posts: 542 Member
    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.

    You can't chase what you can't see!

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  • BurtHuttz
    BurtHuttz Posts: 3,653 Member
    Ya, those are the worst, because, you know, they contain cops...........and they sometimes chase you.

    You can't chase what you can't see!

    They have flashlights....and sometimes dogs.....

    Flashlights are easy. For the dogs I just dab a few ounces of deer urine on my body.
  • Quasita
    Quasita Posts: 1,530 Member
    The situations I am referring to, and I apologise for not being more clear, are the ones where both parties feel it, but, due to life circumstances, it is impossible to act on.

    Doesn't matter, it's the same deal, if they were your true soul mate in the sense you imply, you'd both be doing what needed to be done to make it work.

    I mean, I think it's sad that you apparently think you have to be with or sleep with this person in order for them to your soul mate... I believe in a variety of types of soul mates, not just one above all others.

    Oh, and for the record, this is not a matter of "not understanding" on my part. I understand more than I can explain. However, I ultimately grew up, came to terms with my own responsibility for my feelings, and faced the decision that has to be made.

    You either decide to accept and move on emotionally so you can continue hanging out with the shared friends, or you move on physically and make new friends. You stop making excuses and whining about it, and moping in "heartache" over it. All this really is is an intense crush, and mooning over crushes like this is for the young kids.
  • MrsSardone
    MrsSardone Posts: 194 Member
    I was in a situation KINDA like that. I was married and had just had a baby...but I was in love with someone else. I figured I'd be one of those sad sacks that trudged on and from time to time think back on the great love they could've had had life been different. Then I thought "F that! I'm responsible for creating my own happiness!" So I grew some balls, left my husband, and now I'm with my soulmate! Now whenever I hear of someone who is constantly thinking "what if?" I'm like "ugh! Thank god I don't have to do that anymore!"
  • ccadroz93
    ccadroz93 Posts: 136 Member
    My Husband is my soul mate. I have people in my life that have effected me in the way you descrtibe, but if I were to waste my time pining over them I would miss what God has in store for my husband and I!
  • seansquared
    seansquared Posts: 328 Member
    I attained mine, and she hers, and we're getting married next year.

    Best of luck to you.
  • gingerveg
    gingerveg Posts: 748 Member
    nope, I married him :bigsmile:
    Yes me too :)
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    The situations I am referring to, and I apologise for not being more clear, are the ones where both parties feel it, but, due to life circumstances, it is impossible to act on.

    Doesn't matter, it's the same deal, if they were your true soul mate in the sense you imply, you'd both be doing what needed to be done to make it work.

    I mean, I think it's sad that you apparently think you have to be with or sleep with this person in order for them to your soul mate... I believe in a variety of types of soul mates, not just one above all others.

    Oh, and for the record, this is not a matter of "not understanding" on my part. I understand more than I can explain. However, I ultimately grew up, came to terms with my own responsibility for my feelings, and faced the decision that has to be made.

    You either decide to accept and move on emotionally so you can continue hanging out with the shared friends, or you move on physically and make new friends. You stop making excuses and whining about it, and moping in "heartache" over it. All this really is is an intense crush, and mooning over crushes like this is for the young kids.

    Its like.....you know me.......and have been part of my life the whole time..........
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    I attained mine, and she hers, and we're getting married next year.

    Best of luck to you.

    All the best.
  • fatfrost
    fatfrost Posts: 367 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.
  • BBehnke84
    BBehnke84 Posts: 537 Member
    Do you have an unattainable soul mate? A person in your life who you connect to more than anyone else. A person who you try to find excuses to have physical proximity too. That takes your breath away just to see them smile. A path that can never be taken. A tragedy in the making.....

    Yep...I definitely do....
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.

    What! You mean no skanks and blow?
  • lt3ag4s
    lt3ag4s Posts: 835 Member
    my girlfriend's boyfriend isnt me
  • mandipandi75
    mandipandi75 Posts: 6,035 Member
    The situations I am referring to, and I apologise for not being more clear, are the ones where both parties feel it, but, due to life circumstances, it is impossible to act on.

    Good luck, Charlie.
  • DoingitWell
    DoingitWell Posts: 560 Member
    Yep!!!! actually had the opportunity to be with them, but was too chicken, bashful, shy, stupid or just in pure unbelief that he felt the same way to act on it. Now he and I are both unhappily married to someone else. :sad:
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Yep!!!! actually had the opportunity to be with them, but was too chicken, bashful, shy, stupid or just in pure unbelief that he felt the same way to act on it. Now he and I are both unhappily married to someone else. :sad:

    If there are no kids involved.............
  • MrsSardone
    MrsSardone Posts: 194 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.

    What! You mean no skanks and blow?

    There goes my new holiday tradition! My husband's gonna be pissed!
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.

    What! You mean no skanks and blow?

    There goes my new holiday tradition! My husband's gonna be pissed!

    He will be pissed about the lack of skanks. or lack of blo?
  • MrsSardone
    MrsSardone Posts: 194 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.

    What! You mean no skanks and blow?

    There goes my new holiday tradition! My husband's gonna be pissed!

    He will be pissed about the lack of skanks. or lack of blo?

    Both! Particularly about skanks that blow!
  • Charlie003
    Charlie003 Posts: 1,333 Member
    Agree. Pop music isn't real life. LOL.

    What! You mean no skanks and blow?

    There goes my new holiday tradition! My husband's gonna be pissed!

    He will be pissed about the lack of skanks. or lack of blo?

    Both! Particularly about skanks that blow!

    So...you are out-sourcing?
  • ClementineGeorg
    ClementineGeorg Posts: 505 Member
    Kind of. It's a man I have only seen like... a couple of times in my life (2 ocassion, a total of 4 days, we spoked only 2 `real` conversations). There was a connection I think... a ton of butterflies in the stomach when he is near... And his smile (and he smiled often) really taked my breath away...
    Probably I won't see him again... or at most once in the future. He lives in another country and the `affairs` (to make a little joke) that led to our encounter are done. He is also older than me with more than 10 years and he is such way out of my league by many things...
    But remembering the way he smiled... it was actually the only time in my life I felt the connection with someone from the first moments. I'm usually hit later by the army of butterflies. :lol:

    Well... it's a nice crush. Actually made me feel alive after a long time of suffering due to my last boyfriend. I don't take it to serious... it's like those things it's better to dream on, than live in. :))

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