"Fluffy" Ladies: Does your man...
CandaceHoweth91
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know what you really look like? I mean does he know what you look like completely naked, standing up, in the light?
Edit: Been together 8 years, and hes seen anything and everything in the light before but since having kids 2 years ago he hasnt seen me FULLY naked in the light.
Edit: Been together 8 years, and hes seen anything and everything in the light before but since having kids 2 years ago he hasnt seen me FULLY naked in the light.
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Yeah, I've seen my wife naked in the light...almost daily...0
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I'm not a lady, but I've seen my wife in her full glory. Can't hide much at a nude beach. And she's very comfortable in her own skin so she lays out topless and sometimes topless and bottomless. In St. Martin it was all out so I saw her completely naked, standing up, in the sunlight.0
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know what you really look like? I mean does he know what you look like completely naked, standing up, in the light? My husband never has except for giving birth (I dont think that counts) and I don't want him to. I know he wouldn't really care, but I don't want him to know THAT me. What about you? I told my husband he could see my true before pictures once I looked amazing. lol
I bit controlling aren't we?
Not a lady, but I have seen every part of my lady from a lot of angles.0 -
You are married to a man who has never seen you without clothing, in the light? What in the world....0
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I was with my exhusband at my heaviest (302 pounds) and he saw me fully naked most everyday. Even men I've dated and/or slept with after him saw me fully naked. Obviously if they are with you, they're attracted to you and want to see you naked. I am much more comfortable with my body and being naked since I lost weight. But now I'm pregnant and since my body is going through changes, I'm not 100% comfortable being butt naked with someone, so I usually keep something on, but the men want it off.0
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Frontal lobes aren't fully formed in humans until around 25 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frontal_lobe).
It's a pretty decent biological reason why one shouldn't make decisions about whom they think they should be partnered with forever before that age.
Check out the correlation between age of marriage and divorce rates. See, e.g.: http://www.divorcepeers.com/stats38.htm0 -
Okay, we have been together 8 years and he has seen plenty lol Just since having kids he hasnt seen me.0
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Frontal lobes aren't fully formed in humans until around 25 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frontal_lobe).
It's a pretty decent biological reason why one shouldn't make decisions about whom they think they should be partnered with forever before that age.
Check out the correlation between age of marriage and divorce rates. See, e.g.: http://www.divorcepeers.com/stats38.htm
What does that have to do with anything? lol Weve been together 8 and been married 4. I'm not worried about forever right now (:0 -
Okay, we have been together 8 years and he has seen plenty lol Just since having kids he hasnt seen me.
I have a slight pooch of excess skin right above the ugly C section scar.
I have acne...on my back FFS.
My body is FAR from perfect.
My husband sees me naked all the time, whether we're being intimate or I'm simply getting out of the shower. And ya know what? He still thinks it's the most beautiful thing he's ever seen, even after pregnancy "ruined" it.
And I bet your husband thinks the same about your body. Check you insecurities at the door. This isn't even remotely close to normal behavior, and it's absolutely unhealthy and detrimental to your marriage.
You don't have to love your body, but recognize and accept the fact that your husband does, and let him SEE it in all of it's glory.0 -
Do you live in the same house with this man? How the hell do you not see eachother naked?0
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Frontal lobes aren't fully formed in humans until around 25 (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frontal_lobe).
It's a pretty decent biological reason why one shouldn't make decisions about whom they think they should be partnered with forever before that age.
Check out the correlation between age of marriage and divorce rates. See, e.g.: http://www.divorcepeers.com/stats38.htm
B. Marrying AFTER the age of 25 is a relatively new concept. So is divorce.0 -
Do you live in the same house with this man? How the hell do you not see eachother naked?
Oh he walks around naked all the time lol. It's just hard getting comfortable with me doing that. He seems to want to, its just hard for me to let go.0 -
Okay, we have been together 8 years and he has seen plenty lol Just since having kids he hasnt seen me.
I have a slight pooch of excess skin right above the ugly C section scar.
I have acne...on my back FFS.
My body is FAR from perfect.
My husband sees me naked all the time, whether we're being intimate or I'm simply getting out of the shower. And ya know what? He still thinks it's the most beautiful thing he's ever seen, even after pregnancy "ruined" it.
And I bet your husband thinks the same about your body. Check you insecurities at the door. This isn't even remotely close to normal behavior, and it's absolutely unhealthy and detrimental to your marriage.
You don't have to love your body, but recognize and accept the fact that your husband does, and let him SEE it in all of it's glory.
You have inspired me to run naked around my bedroom tonight. Thank you for reminding me imperfection is beautiful. :flowerforyou:0 -
There are things on his part that have led to this insecurity and I'm trying to get over it. Also, that's kind of why I'm here losing weight, to be a better me (:0
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Meh. I felt that way a bit after having kids, but I like being naked too much to give it up.0
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Okay, we have been together 8 years and he has seen plenty lol Just since having kids he hasnt seen me.
I have a slight pooch of excess skin right above the ugly C section scar.
I have acne...on my back FFS.
My body is FAR from perfect.
My husband sees me naked all the time, whether we're being intimate or I'm simply getting out of the shower. And ya know what? He still thinks it's the most beautiful thing he's ever seen, even after pregnancy "ruined" it.
And I bet your husband thinks the same about your body. Check you insecurities at the door. This isn't even remotely close to normal behavior, and it's absolutely unhealthy and detrimental to your marriage.
You don't have to love your body, but recognize and accept the fact that your husband does, and let him SEE it in all of it's glory.
You have inspired me to run naked around my bedroom tonight. Thank you for reminding me imperfection is beautiful. :flowerforyou:
^^^What she said!0 -
Of course he does. We get dressed in the same room together, have showered together, etc. You've been together 8 years and never showered with him?0
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Of course he does. We get dressed in the same room together, have showered together, etc. You've been together 8 years and never showered with him?
Thats why I said he has seen me naked plenty of times, just not since having kids in the last 2 years.0 -
There are things on his part...
:huh:There are things on his part that have led to this insecurity and I'm trying to get over it. Also, that's kind of why I'm here losing weight, to be a better me (:
But seriously, he's your husband. If he truly has a problem with your naked body (or if you have a problem with your naked body around him), regardless of how "fluffy" you are now or in the future, then there are much bigger problems you need to deal with. (My wife is "fluffy", but that doesn't mean I don't want to watch her walk around naked.)0 -
1] Please don't say "fluffy" - I feel like terms of this nature do no good for women struggling with their size and body shape.
2] I am definitely medically obese, and I'd never wear clothes if I didn't have to. My 'man' loves my insides, and doesn't have a problem with my outsides. (and neither do I)0
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