Hubby request

personally, I think that is stupid...really, life is full of all kinds of experiences. I have several close friends, some real life ones, and some men AND women that I flirt with. ...it's just fantasy, you know THE INTERNET. It isn't like I can hook up with a guy across the country from me. My bf knows, I often share some of the funnier stories with him...he doesn't give a cr**.

Have I been hit on? yup, its fun...but it is still just fantasy, I'm a big girl, I know how to take care of myself. And I rarely give my phone number out..so wth?

Maybe I'm just sad and pathetic - but I don't get hit on, so her making that blanket statement is sort of bunk. I have male and female friends. *shrug*

Same here... Only once since being on here. Maybe I just don't notice it? But I don't care.

"None! I have a life and don't need those Social Networks to run my life."

You're on here, aren't you? This is a semi social network.....................

Yes, I can see that by the amount of posts you have. 3637!!! Wow! lol.

She was actually quoting you in the first sentence above. That was a comment you made when asked about having a Twitter or Facebook. She's pointing out the irony of you now using MFP as a social network.

Reading your profile, your husband may have good reason not to trust you. Your deceptive about your real age and your goal is to have other women's men stare at you.

I am single so this doesn't apply to me. I would think if my husband was so insecure not to trust me with male friends. then that is not a good thing. he would remind me of my dad being a control freak.

"I enjoy turning heads and watching the guy's GF look at me in envy."

i give it 10 minutes before there is a duck face pic on the OPs profile

Or it's deactivated.

plenty of people have gotten hit on using this site, but I think some of that has to do with how you present yourself. Some people like to flirt. If you don't, don't. I've received emails saying nice things, but for the most part, it hasn't gotten out of control.

^This

my husband could care less if I have male or female friends, because he trusts me. You know, the basis of a healthy relationship.

OP has deactivated their account-no fun!

this is a direct quote from your profile. "To look even hotter in my bikini this summer. I enjoy turning heads and watching the guy's GF look at me in envy. lol"

maybe this is why your husband won't let you have male friends. And it surely won't get you many female friends!

your reasons to want to get fit are very shallow!

this is a direct quote from your profile. "To look even hotter in my bikini this summer. I enjoy turning heads and watching the guy's GF look at me in envy. lol"

maybe this is why your husband won't let you have male friends. And it surely won't get you many female friends!

your reasons to want to get fit are very shallow!

I'm getting fit just to turn heads in a bikini - do you judge me?

my boyfriend knows i'm on here and he isn't on here, he's not mentioned not having men on here but i don't have men on here anyway. i feel i can relate to women more.

I just joined MFP and my hubby saw me on the site last night and he created an account. We both made a deal and said no friends of the opposite sex. He said he knows a woman at his work that is on here too and it's much more than a fitness site according to his co-worker. She said she gets hit on and propositioned daily and the women on this site flirt more than the men and most are married. Soooo, on that note, I will respect hubby's wish not to have any male friends. Any other women do the same?

No. My husband trusts me, and I trust him. Beyond that, I am my own person and he cannot tell me who to or not to be friends with, my best friend happens to be a man.

Are you really not going to be friend with an amazing, funny, and intelligent person just because he's a man? Even if he's married himself?

And your husbands friend is exaggerating.

And I rarely give my phone number out..so wth?

Looked you up on google - I am parked outside your villa right now MUAHAHA

awesome luv!! I've been waiting for this day. Did you find me through my Google Medical degree? ha!

No my husband is completely cool with the site. He and I are in love and both mature adults. We are Christians and have pretty puritanical views compared to some. However, sometimes it can take someone from the opposite sex to motivate you. If you are already deprived in some ways maybe that could be a problem and one of you would read too much into it. If you both are emotionaly and physicaly full than you shouldn't be afraid.

You can tell usually 99% of the time just by someone's profile and pic if they're here for the wrong reasons. I have been on here since May and talk to everyone coming and going. I have not been hit on in the way you say. I have been given compliments and encouragement from several men and woman. I thrive on their support here. Your male friends have something your female friends don't and vice versa. It is the male perspective maybe? Anyways, you and your husband are doing a great thing for yourselves. If you are worried about it already maybe it is a problem for you two.

My husband and I are both online nerds. We met on True.com and both stay on the computer wayyy too much. We keep our personal business between us private 99% of the time and that has worked for us for 7 years. We've been on Facebook, MySpace, yahoo chat, twitter and of course MFP. We've never had an issue but, we are selective of who we hang out with online.