If you have an amazing body you are clearly OBSESSED

Passionate people are neat, whatever they're passionate about.

I've never had an amazing body, but I've always been obsessed about whatever physical activity floats my boat at the time. I've also been obsessed about videogames, cooking, ferments.. any of my hobbies. My mate has the same passionate personality type, so we do well together. He's currently on learning chinese, following the way of the dao and windmill design. I'm currently on weight lifting and science fiction novels. Sometimes he works out with me, and sometimes I practice a little tai chi and don't tease him too badly about the stupid windmills.

I will say I rather like when he's obsessed about his body, though. Whatever pheromone men release post workout is absolutely marvelous.

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I am not obsessed , I just do things with the maximum efficiency.

You mad?

Obsess is a word the lazy use ... <--- love that phrase... Honestly I've been called conceited, obsessed and all that just because I refuse to go backwards and the only way to keep from going backwards is to keep moving and keep counting. I'm no where near a ripped toned body yet, but I am working hard at it. I'm called conceited because I've for once in my life love myself enough to take care of myself before anyone else besides my kids. I'm obsessed because if it isn't in my daily plan, I refuse it and people think I should let my hair down and indulge, but I have a food addiction and if I do this all the time I will be back to where I started.

I find it incredibly sexy for a man to work hard enough on his body to get into the single digit body fat range. It's not so much the aesthetic factor (although that is a great bonus) as the fact that he is so dedicated to SOMETHING (something beneficial, I should add). I am attracted to people who have goals and ambition and who are not satisfied with being average.

As to whether or not I think it's obsessive, I would only consider it obsessive if it got to a point where it was majorly interfering with our relationship. For example, if we could never go out and do normal "couple" activities because he was afraid he might be pressured to eat something with sugar in it, then yeah, that's obsessive. But if it's just an issue of eating a very strict diet and having a very strict training schedule, no, I do not consider that obsessive.

Regular dudes are better in bed.

Just an observation.

But yeah I have friends who lift and look amazing and such, but it kind of gets exhausting to hear them talking about 'mirin', lifting and creatine ALL THE TIME. I work out 5-6 days a week, but I have other things to talk about too -.-. So yeah, I'd say the ones I've met are superrrr obsessed

I think there is definitely a happy-medium. Caring about your health and fitness is a very admirable and attractive quality. It also shows the ability to be disciplined and self-motivated - more sexy qualities.

Where it becomes unhealthy imo is when it interferes with other priorities in his life. Compulsively exercising, trying to control what everyone else eats or does/being overly critical.

I guess for me the sexy body is just a bonus, give me an ambitious, manly mind.

Perfect!

i agree with OP its true i actually would want a man who is above average in body fat..... i do not like guys who work out or diet... unless its sports and such..... but its kinda annoying when guys become obsessed.... also when girls become obsessed.. its nice for a female to still eat what she wants without feeling guilty over it....

Regular dudes are better in bed.

Just an observation.

But yeah I have friends who lift and look amazing and such, but it kind of gets exhausting to hear them talking about 'mirin', lifting and creatine ALL THE TIME. I work out 5-6 days a week, but I have other things to talk about too -.-. So yeah, I'd say the ones I've met are superrrr obsessed

this is absolutely false. there is a distinction between bros and other hardcore lifters. your friends are bros. bros are known to be terrible in bed as well.

and before you deny they are bros...know this: only bros and new lifters talk about creatine. once you move beyond the bro stage...you move beyond creatine as well. go to any serious bodybuilding site. there is no nearly discussion of creatine or any other over the counter supps....lol

Look at him, he clearly knows what he is talking about :flowerforyou:

click on my profile and check the motto.

Regular dudes are better in bed.

Just an observation.

But yeah I have friends who lift and look amazing and such, but it kind of gets exhausting to hear them talking about 'mirin', lifting and creatine ALL THE TIME. I work out 5-6 days a week, but I have other things to talk about too -.-. So yeah, I'd say the ones I've met are superrrr obsessed

this is absolutely false. there is a distinction between bros and other hardcore lifters. your friends are bros. bros are known to be terrible in bed as well.

and before you deny they are bros...know this: only bros and new lifters talk about creatine. once you move beyond the bro stage...you move beyond creatine as well. go to any serious bodybuilding site. there is no nearly discussion of creatine or any other over the counter supps....lol

Look at him, he clearly knows what he is talking about :flowerforyou:

I guess every single person in the city of Sydney is a bro then :ohwell: It's a good thing I'm moving to New York.