What do you 'hate' about being fat?

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  • emmgetsfit
    emmgetsfit Posts: 203 Member
    Constantly looking like I'm 6 months preggo when I'm not.
  • Liatush
    Liatush Posts: 627 Member
    I can't figure out why I look fatter in a picture than in a mirror.

    haha... totally!!!!
  • TruScorpio169
    TruScorpio169 Posts: 27 Member
    Well said :)
  • lfergurson1
    lfergurson1 Posts: 137 Member
    Well, have to say the clothes would be a number one annoyance. The next would be you have such a pretty face! I refuse to say I hate my body however I am learning to be kinder to me ... PERIOD! At 47 looking at younger mommas getting it off.. Please do and keep it off, bless your hearts , you are fighting for your life we all are!
  • Danni1585
    Danni1585 Posts: 250 Member
    Seeing photos of myself, I am always so disapointed
  • nataliecarter28
    nataliecarter28 Posts: 54 Member
    getting asked if I'm pregnant. I havent been pregnant in 2 years...
  • billiegirl17
    billiegirl17 Posts: 47 Member
    I hate having a closet full of nice clothes that don't quite fit anymore. I have to dress for work and then have casual clothes, so having an entire wardrobe that is just too tight is really frustrating. I love clothes . . . but I hate buying clothes based on what they will cover up.
  • jimjammy87
    jimjammy87 Posts: 7 Member
    Oh gosh, so many things....

    - not being able to fit into all the pretty clothes and ending up spending an arm and a leg for plus sizes
    - contemplating whether or not I'll fit into that chair, or between people in the hall..... :sick:
    - being overlooked
    - hate having my pic taken! :grumble:
  • mattysmom
    mattysmom Posts: 82 Member
    The way I look when i'm sitting down... everything spreads out so far....ugh
  • santd
    santd Posts: 234 Member
    EVERYTHING
  • GoddessG
    GoddessG Posts: 172 Member
    Before I started the diet, and in my first week or ten days of it, I hated being fat. Now I don't think about it. I'm much happier for it.
  • GraceSteps
    GraceSteps Posts: 11
    I do not like sequins or ruffles or polka dots and it seems like big women clothes are made this way.
    I hate thinking everyone is watching me when I eat crap food because I am judging myself and assume everyone is doing the same
    I hate the fact that plus size clothes cost more
    I hate never been able to shop with my friends
    I hate sounding like I am giving birth after I walk up the stairs

    ~Jean
  • strawberrylola
    strawberrylola Posts: 36 Member
    mirrors, shop windows, in fact any reflective surface, cameras and my wardrobe (it shrinks my clothes)
  • oceanbreeze22
    oceanbreeze22 Posts: 83 Member
    1. Not being able to do some things .
    2. Having big heavy legs.
    3. Being judged by my weight.
  • bluefrog_2001
    bluefrog_2001 Posts: 138 Member
    -Lack of stylish clothes (not many choices, and they all kind of suck)

    -Wondering if I'll fit in that chair

    -Can't ride most roller coasters

    -No short-sleeve shirts. I have bingo wings, so I cover them with 3/4-length or full-length sleeves. Short sleeves always show the bulge, and I find myself tugging them down.

    All the above. I do love my short sleeve shirts, but I am constantly shrugging to slide down the sleeves.
  • hellokittyykat
    hellokittyykat Posts: 66 Member
    Through high school, and even now that I'm in college I feel miserable. I honestly can say being overweight has held me back. Self esteem issues and low confidence is what I hate most. I'm ready to be happy!
  • snowshoermom
    snowshoermom Posts: 63 Member
    plastic lawn chairs... :(
  • Ashkea76
    Ashkea76 Posts: 7,162 Member
    clothes shopping. ugh!
  • tjl2329
    tjl2329 Posts: 169 Member
    Ugly expensive cheaply made clothing and shoes. Strange before I started losing weight I just accepted that. Now I feel self conscious. I am a tight 17 junior. Girls at work said jeans were cute and asked where I bought. Just nice to join in on a clothes conversation and not feel like your left out.
  • Raavynn
    Raavynn Posts: 8 Member
    I'm going to start off by saying that I absolutely love myself. In saying that, I don't find that I hate being fat. I dislike not feeling healthy. Because I dislike not being able to move as quickly or have enough energy to carry around the body that I created, I feel it is time to make some changes.

    I really love how you said this
  • Raavynn
    Raavynn Posts: 8 Member
    I dont like how all I see in the media are these women with teeny tiny waists and mine has gotten so out of control since having kids. No my measurements aren't huge but they're bigger than I want them to be. I don't feel like I compare. That being said the hubby will still gladly chase me around the room.
  • littlecrystal
    littlecrystal Posts: 110 Member
    Rubbing inside thighs
    Being the fattest at work
    Looking awful in the pictures
    Visiting my home county where I am always afraid to meet long-unseen relatives and friends, who will think how fat I have become
  • peachfigs
    peachfigs Posts: 831 Member
    I did write out things I hate about being overweight, but then I decided to delete it/ edit it out. I don't think we need to add any more negativity to being 'bigger'. I feel its better to focus on what makes you feel GOOD about LOSING your weight. Lets not dwell on the negative and think about what we have to look forward to, and how far we have come!
  • kelly101386
    kelly101386 Posts: 389 Member
    Clothes shopping.
  • delonda1
    delonda1 Posts: 525 Member
    MY CHUNKY CHEEKS!!! They disgust me actually.. and my neck. I always have to distort my neck in pictures not to lookl ike i have 3 of them
  • Otter1422
    Otter1422 Posts: 162 Member
    Airplanes, not feeling comfortable in public, clothes shopping, missing doing things with my family because I am too uncomfortable to go out in public or too unfit to run around with them, not feeling comfortable swimming/shirt off, the bad example I set for my children who are in shape thank god, not being more attractive, getting tired golfing or doing any physical activity and not feeling flexible.

    In general feeling I have been missing out on what my life could be and what I would want it to be. By the way many of these things are gone already for me but definitely not the taking my shirt off/swimming yet by any means.
  • JessicaRobin67
    JessicaRobin67 Posts: 275 Member
    GOing to the doctor and getting on the scale...
    Not feeling healthy
  • NextChapter60
    NextChapter60 Posts: 78 Member
    Dressing room mirrors.
  • santd
    santd Posts: 234 Member
    BEING IN PAIN ALL OF THE TIME WITH MY JOINTS.
    NOT LOOKING NICE IN ANY NEW CLOTHES, OR FINDING SOMETHING THAT FITS WELL. .
    FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE.
    FEELING SELF-CONSCIENCE
    HATING MYSELF.
  • metacognition
    metacognition Posts: 626 Member
    I hated feeling so uncomfortable with myself, never being able to look a guy in the eye and not being able to just put on a set of clothing and leave the house. Something always fit horribly - the top of jeans would cut into my belly, and my back fat would show through in shirts, my neck fat (yes, neck fat) would show through in tops cut low on the back collar. I just sort of sank into my chair and felt tired and achy all the time.

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