Skinny and flat chested or heavier with boobs?

cubbies77 · January 2013

Women with big boobs get made fun of and so do women that are part of the IBTC.
So this is life, because there's always gonna be some one who doesn't like what you're selling and a whole line to buy what you are.

Bingo. Enough with the body-shaming.

DBiddle69 · January 2013

I'm one of those guys who like flat chested women

Kadesha72 · January 2013

I had big ones forever... and when I started gaining weight, they got even bigger, and last November I got a breast reduction and solved SO many health issues I was having. I couldn't exercise comfortably to lose weight because of the sheer mass, the bouncing/pain, and the fact that I wheezed like an asthmatic because they pretty much suffocated me. I had back pain 24/7, neck problems, shoulder pain, daily headaches that would sometimes get so bad they would last for 3 days.... That is just the tip of the iceburg for me....

NOW? Not one headache since November. I can exercise better... even though I still breath "heavily"... it is an easy breathing... cut back my chiropractors visits from once a week to once a month... my back doesn't hurt anymore and when i went for a pedie the other day the massage chair HURT (before I would live for that part of it, and lean INTO the massagers....)

NOPE... skinny and no boobs, that's what I'd pick!!

obsidianwings · January 2013

I've never had boobs. Would rather be buff with boobs, but between the two options offered would prefer slim with none.

Simone_King · January 2013

Thank you for this thread..You made me feel better about myself with my lack off...boobs.

QuietRain · January 2013

I'd rather be flat [first signs of my bra cups getting 'bigger' and I was dancing].
My SO vehemently disagrees though, "Just make sure not to lose your boobs!".

Phany04 · January 2013

I'm in the middle. I'm a extra full D. I know once I start loosing weight they will get smaller hopefully a C cup and no more back pain. Having smaller boobs has its benefits! Bra are much cheaper.

The only bras that are easy to find in a 36 A (the size I am when I'm below 150 pounds) look like training bras.

Not my experience at all - the nice ones all come only in tiny sizes, whereas for people who *need* to wear them all the time, you have a choice of white and frumpy or black and frumpy. Why would you even need a bra for a size A, beyond fashion?

I'm jealous. I've always been big-boobed, and at my current size, have to lug around a set of DDs. I can't run or ride horses without a very, very good sports bra, at the risk of giving myself a black eye.

Haha. Funny. I'm the same way. My boobs move to much if I try to run. And about the bras: cacique or lanebryant has beautiful bras for girls with big boobs. I think they start at 36B.

tdp575 · January 2013

As long as you're healthy, it doesn't matter if you're large, medium, or small chested. Beauty comes in all sizes =]

themutineer · January 2013

I was always a pretty small cup size until I gained all my weight, when I got up to a C - after losing 50 pounds, I still got 'dem C cups so I'm not complaining.
But the rest of the fat in my body can just go ahead and find it's way to my boobs or GTFO.

kas_chat · January 2013

Hi. I am interested in this topic. I am in Brisbane Australia. I currently weigh 71kg and my bra size is a 34D. I am aged 39 and have breastfed two boys who are now 5 and 9, just for under 12 months each. I have some pretty deep stretch marks on my boobs as my boobs during pregancy went up about two sizes. What I am wondering about is as I start to loose weight, will my boobs just get empty and droopy, mainly due to the surface changes brought about by the healed, torn stretched skin? I don't feel that there is "much" muscle in there... I can move my "pecs" like a guy would, but the lift is coming from underneath my breast. I am planning and dreaming ahead and am sure I am emotionally attached to my boobs... I dislike my floppy belly very much and am motived to work on making that gradually tighten and go (my belly is also severely affected by deep open healed stretch marks, so I think as I look fat my belly will look pouch like even more as I don't think (I need someone to prove to me otherwise) that now that the skin is this damaged that it can ever truley heal and flatten like it was before I had my kids (I had a small pot belly before my kids).

So I guess what I am asking, those that have actually experienced this, if I loose around 20kg can I expect my breasts to become close to empty sacks and just floppy bags??? or will I possibly experience some reduction in the shape and length of my breast , IFYWIM, as well. I actually really like the womanly shape of my breasts at the moment, but they are floppy and do get in the way a bit!! I look forward to reporting back one day and saying I had to buy a size 12 B bra!! cheers, Kas

obsidianwings · January 2013

The only bras that are easy to find in a 36 A (the size I am when I'm below 150 pounds) look like training bras.

Not my experience at all - the nice ones all come only in tiny sizes, whereas for people who *need* to wear them all the time, you have a choice of white and frumpy or black and frumpy. Why would you even need a bra for a size A, beyond fashion?

I'm jealous. I've always been big-boobed, and at my current size, have to lug around a set of DDs. I can't run or ride horses without a very, very good sports bra, at the risk of giving myself a black eye.

Not true, i am a small 8b, which i think equates to a 28b in the usa (possibly 30? One number below the normal sizes anyway). I have only one bra that fits properly. I am not even worried about whether they are nice or not, i just want anything that fits. The in between smaller sizes may be ok, but extremes at either end are going to have trouble. I wish i could get a couple more black frumpy bras.

Saaaam42 · January 2013

I wish my boobs were PROPORTIONATE. I have B's and my tummy tends to stick out further than they do. Uggggggh. I don't mind having small boobs at ALL but I wish I was smaller all over :happy: :happy:

Maccbow · January 2013

Have to laugh. Back in high-school, I had what I called "bottle caps." How I've missed those. Yes..... MUCH rather be thin with none, that fat with some!!!!!

Danilynn1975 · January 2013

I can and probably will end up buying boobs. skinny I can't buy.

98by2014 · January 2013

I'd rather be flat chested, haha. I've had boobs since I was like 10 and since then it's been a seven-year long backache for me. Literally. Plus, it's so hard finding cute bras in my size :-( I don want a bra that my nan would wear, I want something really patterned, colourful, lacy, ect. Sigh sigh sigh.

Hbazzell · January 2013

I would rather be healthy/within my weight range than have boobs. You can pad the gals but you can't hife fat from your arteries.

flibertyjibet · January 2013

Ive been kinda wondering about the same thing! I have Bs now but I know that if I lose 5-10 pounds I will go back to an A. I asked my boyfriend which one he would rather:5'10"... 160lbs with B boobs,or 150 with A boobs....he said it didn't matter to him. I guess I'll just lose the weight and buy a pushup! haha!

Scandinavia · January 2013

I am 135 at 5'8. Size 2/4 and I've got no boobs! Haha, I might as well be a boy, because I've only ever been a B, even when I was 240. Now I'm a 36A...:(

Teliooo · January 2013

I used to have huge boobs. Lost weight and now have 34b's. I still have 20 pounds to lose, so i will be well flat chested but meh. Prefer this than fat.