Skinny and flat chested or heavier with boobs?

I have NEVER had boobs... when i was in HS i got made fun of ALL THE time... I was 120 at 5'9 and looked like a boy LOL!

Once i had my son and gained weight I got boobs! YAYYYYYYYY !!!!!!! but was 201 lbs..... and stayed that way for about 3 years.

Now that Im 170's and lost the weight my boobs are going away again.....

Some days Id rather be heavier with boobs than skinny with no boobs.... LOL .


Am I the only one with this problem? LOL



I love being thinner.... but feel "boyish" again LOL

did anyone else in here get a dodgy message from a guy going on about boobs who had clearly read this thread? not impressed

$6,000 and a visit to Dr. Horton gets you boobs....problem solved!
It's probably much healthier for you to be fit and active than overweight so do what's best for your overall mental and physical health.

Mine have been the first thing to go, I was a 42DD now Im 36 flat saggy Small B, I told my friend that I would need a tummy tuck for the loose skin and a boob lift cause I have lost so much lol.

I hope my boobs disappear! I loved being an A-cup and hate being a D or C like I am now.

healthy

flat. I used to be flat as a pan in high school, but then I got some boobies in college, YAYS!..albeit small, but I am still happy. Hopefully I can keep some while I lose some weight, but I won't mind too much if I become a pan again. lol

Well, I've never had kids, but I have noticed that with gaining weight Ive gotten a little bigger (like going from an A to a B, maybe), but I'm fine losing the boobies if it means getting my old body back! I do not like the one I'm in now ;-) I always thought big boobs would get in the way during sports, etc... and having small ones certainly cuts down on how much I have to spend on bras!

ETA: and I'm pretty sure mine aren't going to get droopy any time soon!

I like my boobs the way they are when I'm still 11 kgs from my goal weight. So I would rather mantain my weight a bit over my GW, if it meant that I would still have a medium sized chest.

Oh boy, I have a life-long love/hate with being skinny & flat....

I've always been thin with very small boobs. Having a "boyish" build was far worse when I younger. I desperately wanted to look curvy for the boys in high school but that day never came. I would wonder where the heck are my boobs damnit?!?! How come even this AA cup bra has some air in it??? Grrrrrr.... :sad:

Then it was great in my 20's because that freshman 15 that I put on actually looked good on me. The boobs weren't big, but were bigger. I was finally filled out a little more yet still thin. I ate whatever I wanted & didn't have to exercise. Life was good!!! I loved my body! :bigsmile:

Well, then I hit thirty and the fat started sticking to my tummy, and it doesn't seem to want to go away. I got that awful "skinny-fat" look. I work out so hard, and I lose fat from everywhere including my already small chest but my stomach is being very stubborn. It's extremely frustrating....:explode:


So honestly, If I could put on weight & have it evenly distribute on my body I wouldn't mind the few extra lbs. as much. I think having some curves look good. Oh, how i'd love to be built like a Vargas girl, but the reality is that I won't ever be curvy like that. Since I am going to thin & flat no matter what my current choices are:

be skinny & flat with a bird-chest, chicken legs & pot belly from being lazy :noway: OR be thin & flat yet athletic & muscular from working out....I think i'll take the latter

I'm never flat chested, but my boobs were definitely bigger at my highest weight. I was a DD and I'm a D now, still have 20lbs to go so I could be a C at my goal weight. Personally, I'd rather be skinny. I don't really care too much about the size of my boobs, and I'm actually happier being a D than a DD because clothes and bathing suit tops fit better now.

The only bras that are easy to find in a 36 A (the size I am when I'm below 150 pounds) look like training bras.

Not my experience at all - the nice ones all come only in tiny sizes, whereas for people who *need* to wear them all the time, you have a choice of white and frumpy or black and frumpy. Why would you even need a bra for a size A, beyond fashion?

I'm jealous. I've always been big-boobed, and at my current size, have to lug around a set of DDs. I can't run or ride horses without a very, very good sports bra, at the risk of giving myself a black eye.

How can you think that someone that has small breasts does not need to wear a bra? Small breasts still hurt when they are bouncing around during exercise (not as much and they are more easily contained, but you need a bra for that), small breasts are still subject to gravity and a bra is needed to keep them perky for a long time, It is never appropriate no matter what size breasts a women has to go into her job with her nipples poking out her shirt and her boobs bouncing around and obviously not in a bra and what if she needs (or even wants) to ever wear a white shirt or blouse, so even if you consider that to be fashion it is still a valid reason to need a bra. Never mind when breastfeeding and you need a bra to put in the milk catching pads, so you do not end up soaked in milk. Small breasts may be small, but they are still breasts and very often in need of a bra. I could go braless if I was also going topless. It's true that because my breasts are small they are perky and self-supporting (even after having two children), but with a shirt on, the shirt drags on them and it is very uncomfortable to me. I think from reading these threads it is tough for a lot of people to find bras, especially since so many of us fall into band sizing that is not sold in the stores at the malls (my band size is 28).

This is true, lol. I'm BARELY a B cup and i need to wear a bra always. I tried working out wearing even a regular bra, and my boobs hurt so bad jumping up and down. It even shocked me. lol

I totally agree with the first post up here, I'm a 36 A and it's IMPOSSIBLE to find nice bras that fit properly. they're all either too big in the cups or too small in the elastic. Because most places who have nice 'A' cup bras have them more in like the 28-34 elastic range. once you're at 36 it's mission impossible. that's been my experience anyways.

and to the second poster, no way man. even A girls need bras.

Boobs are the only thing I have liked about being heavier. I can find BRAS!

The only bras that are easy to find in a 36 A (the size I am when I'm below 150 pounds) look like training bras.

Seriously!! I have to have a BMI of 26 in order to have anything bigger than 36A!!
It's so depressing..

The only bras that are easy to find in a 36 A (the size I am when I'm below 150 pounds) look like training bras.

Not my experience at all - the nice ones all come only in tiny sizes, whereas for people who *need* to wear them all the time, you have a choice of white and frumpy or black and frumpy. Why would you even need a bra for a size A, beyond fashion?

I'm jealous. I've always been big-boobed, and at my current size, have to lug around a set of DDs. I can't run or ride horses without a very, very good sports bra, at the risk of giving myself a black eye.

How can you think that someone that has small breasts does not need to wear a bra? Small breasts still hurt when they are bouncing around during exercise (not as much and they are more easily contained, but you need a bra for that), small breasts are still subject to gravity and a bra is needed to keep them perky for a long time, It is never appropriate no matter what size breasts a women has to go into her job with her nipples poking out her shirt and her boobs bouncing around and obviously not in a bra and what if she needs (or even wants) to ever wear a white shirt or blouse, so even if you consider that to be fashion it is still a valid reason to need a bra. Never mind when breastfeeding and you need a bra to put in the milk catching pads, so you do not end up soaked in milk. Small breasts may be small, but they are still breasts and very often in need of a bra. I could go braless if I was also going topless. It's true that because my breasts are small they are perky and self-supporting (even after having two children), but with a shirt on, the shirt drags on them and it is very uncomfortable to me. I think from reading these threads it is tough for a lot of people to find bras, especially since so many of us fall into band sizing that is not sold in the stores at the malls (my band size is 28).

This is true, lol. I'm BARELY a B cup and i need to wear a bra always. I tried working out wearing even a regular bra, and my boobs hurt so bad jumping up and down. It even shocked me. lol

I totally agree with the first post up here, I'm a 36 A and it's IMPOSSIBLE to find nice bras that fit properly. they're all either too big in the cups or too small in the elastic. Because most places who have nice 'A' cup bras have them more in like the 28-34 elastic range. once you're at 36 it's mission impossible. that's been my experience anyways.

and to the second poster, no way man. even A girls need bras.

I don't know if this link will help or not: http://www.thelittlebracompany.com/ I don't have any bras from them, but might try them.

I think it's pretty funny what people consider big and little...it's fairly subjective. I thought when I was nursing I was huge and I was a full C...After nursing I dropped to a 36 long. lol. My husband could care less and I just roll them up into my bra and go.:drinker: I have male highschool students that have deeper cleavage. I can run and jump without pain (but definately WITH A BRA--that sucks donkey parts without a bra).